PSYchology

Cov teeb meem kev kawm muaj peb lub hauv paus ntsiab lus: tus me nyuam TSIS TAU, tus me nyuam TSIS TAU, thiab tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv kev sib cuag nrog niam txiv.

TSIS TAU - feem ntau pib nrog qhov tseeb tias cov niam txiv hauv qib thawj tsis qhia tus menyuam kawm. Peb cia siab rau kev ywj pheej, cia nws ua nws txoj kev - thiab nws yog qhov yuam kev. Zoo, txawm tias nws nyuaj npaum li cas los xij, zoo dua lig dua tsis tau: peb ntes cov ntaub ntawv thiab qhia kom kawm. Zoo li thawj qib!

TSIS MUAJ - txawm nws pib nws txoj kev kawm, lossis cua hauv nws lub taub hau. Kuv pib kawm - koj yuav tsum rub nws, thiab yog tias cua nyob hauv koj lub taub hau - tshem koj lub taub hau thiab muab tso rau hauv kev tswj hwm. Feem ntau cov niam tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog qhov no, kev yaum tsis pab, leej txiv xav tau ntawm no. Tsis yog siv, tab sis yog txiv. Yog tias tsis yog, nrhiav tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws, tab sis tus kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws nyuaj nrhiav tau.

Kev sib cuag tsis zoo nrog cov niam txiv - Kuv ntshai koj tsis tuaj yeem daws qhov teeb meem no koj tus kheej. Feem ntau, thaum sib tham, kuv yuav tsum mloog ob tog, cov niam txiv qhia lawv cov lus thov rau tus hluas, tus hluas nws rau niam txiv. Muaj kev thov ncaj ncees rau cov niam txiv, thiab peb pib nrog lawv: peb pom zoo tias cov niam txiv yuav coj tus cwj pwm kom txaus (ntawm no yog cov lus tshwj xeeb), sib pauv rau qhov no, tus tub hluas yav tom ntej yuav tsum ua qhov no thiab qhov ntawd. Curiously, feem ntau, nws muaj peev xwm sib tham.


Muaj lwm yam laj thawj, tsawg kawg peb yuav npe rau lawv.

  1. Teeb meem nrog cov xib fwb. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsis txo qis txoj cai ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm tus me nyuam, yuav tsum ceev faj thaum rau txim rau nws ua. Txawm tias ntau "qis" tus kws qhia ntawv nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm tus me nyuam, koj khiav txoj kev pheej hmoo tias koj tus tub los yog ntxhais yuav tsis kawm dab tsi los ntawm nws. Tsis tas li ntawd, tus me nyuam yuav tau txais kev thuam rau lawv tus kheej ua tsis tiav rau lawv cov kws qhia yav tom ntej.
  2. Kev tsis sib haum xeeb nrog cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm, nrog cov me nyuam hauv vaj, thiab lwm yam. Tus me nyuam tau dhau los ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb thiab nws yuav siv sij hawm ntau ntawm nws cov peev txheej uas yuav siv tau rau kev kawm. Qhov no mus ntev mus, tus tub kawm ntawv yuav qaug zog. Ua ntej, sim tham nrog koj tus menyuam. Raws li kev tiv thaiv, qhia nws cov tswv yim ntawm kev sib txuas lus tsis sib haum xeeb.
  3. Tsis npaj koj cov ntawv ua tom tsev. Sim pab koj tus menyuam faib sijhawm thiab lub zog. Cia nws xub ua txoj hauj lwm uas ua rau nws nyuaj siab tshaj plaws.
  4. yam cuam tshuam. Computer, TV thiab lwm yam kev lom zem yuav tsum paub lawv qhov chaw. Tsis txhob cia lawv tus ntsuj plig hauv hluav taws xob yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm koj tus menyuam txoj kev xav ntev ntev, tshwj tsis yog nws siv lawv rau kev kawm.
  5. Teeb meem nrog kev loj hlob ntawm kev mloog thiab kev nco. Koj tuaj yeem pib kho nws hnub no. Kuv vam tias koj tuaj yeem nrhiav txoj hauv kev tsim nyog tau yooj yim. Muaj lub sijhawm nyuaj? Vim li cas ho tsis sab laj nrog ib tus kws kho mob hauv tsev kawm ntawv?
  6. Cov teeb meem ntawm tus kheej. “Cov teeb meem zoo li cas tuaj yeem muaj nyob rau ntawm nws lub hnub nyoog. Tsuas yog fantasies! Yog tias koj tuaj yeem pom zoo nrog cov lus no, feem ntau yuav yog koj tus menyuam tsis muaj hmoo heev - nws yuav nyuaj rau nws los qhia qhov teeb meem rau koj, vim tias nws tsuas yog tsis yooj yim rau koj, tab sis teeb meem rau nws.
  7. Tus me nyuam tsis tau npaj rau kev kawm ntawv. Yuav tsum kho. Cov tshuaj muaj peev xwm: - kev txawj ntawm cov kws qhia ntawv (ib qho tshuaj tsis txaus, nws tsis muag hauv khw muag tshuaj, thiab tsis yog txhua lub tsev kawm ntawv muaj cov tshuaj zoo kawg nkaus no); - Koj yuav saib xyuas tus me nyuam koj tus kheej (zoo heev, tab sis nws yuav tsum tau siv sij hawm thiab kev xav).
  8. Tus me nyuam feem ntau mob. Sim ntxiv dag zog rau nws txoj kev tiv thaiv thiab tsis txhob cia peb nkim lub sijhawm muaj nuj nqis.

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