"Kuv tsis paub kuv tus menyuam," tus niam ntawm rau xyoo hais tias. - Nws zoo nkaus li nag hmo nws yog ib tug me nyuam ntxim hlub mloog lus, thiab tam sim no nws rhuav cov khoom ua si, hais tias yam yog nws, uas txhais tau hais tias nws muaj cai ua rau lawv qhov nws xav tau. Tus tub tsis tu ncua grimacing, ua raws li cov txwj laus - nws puas tau txais qhov no los ntawm? Thiab tsis ntev los no, nws tau tshem nws tus dais uas nws hlub, uas nws tau pw txij thaum yau, mus rau hauv lub thoob khib nyiab. Thiab feem ntau, kuv tsis to taub nws: ntawm ib sab, tam sim no nws tsis lees paub ib qho kev cai, ntawm qhov tod tes, nws tuav kuv tus txiv thiab kuv nrog tag nrho nws lub dag lub zog, cia caum peb, tsis yog rau ib pliag cia peb nyob. ib leeg ..."- (cov ntaub ntawv siv nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm Irina Bazan, site psi-pulse.ru, thiab Svetlana Feoktistova).
6-7 xyoo tsis yog lub hnub nyoog yooj yim. Lub sijhawm no, kev nyuaj ntawm kev loj hlob tam sim ntawd tshwm sim dua, tus menyuam pib thim thiab ua tsis tau. Nws yog zoo li yog tias nws dheev poob nws tus me nyuam naivety thiab spontaneity, pib ua zoo li tus cwj pwm, clownish, grimace, tej yam clowning tshwm, tus me nyuam ua txuj ua ib tug jester. Tus menyuam paub txog qee lub luag haujlwm, siv qee qhov kev npaj ua ntej sab hauv, feem ntau tsis txaus rau qhov xwm txheej, thiab coj tus cwj pwm raws li lub luag haujlwm sab hauv. Li no tus cwj pwm unnatural, inconsistency ntawm tus cwj pwm txawv thiab causeless mus ob peb vas swings.
Tag nrho cov no tuaj qhov twg? Raws li L.I. Bozhovich, qhov kev kub ntxhov ntawm 7 xyoo yog lub sijhawm yug ntawm kev sib raug zoo "Kuv" ntawm tus menyuam. Nws yog dab tsi?
Ua ntej, yog tias tus menyuam kawm ntawv preschool paub txog nws tus kheej feem ntau yog ib tus neeg sib txawv ntawm lub cev, tom qab ntawd thaum muaj hnub nyoog xya xyoo nws paub txog nws txoj kev puas siab puas ntsws, muaj lub ntiaj teb sab hauv ntawm kev xav thiab kev paub. Tus me nyuam kawm cov lus ntawm kev xav, pib siv cov lus "Kuv npau taws", "Kuv zoo", "Kuv tu siab".
Qhov thib ob, tus menyuam mus kawm ntawv, tshawb txog lub ntiaj teb tshiab, thiab nws cov kev nyiam qub tau hloov los ntawm cov tshiab. Lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb ntawm tus menyuam kawm ntawv preschool yog qhov kev ua si, thiab tam sim no nws txoj haujlwm tseem ceeb yog kawm. Qhov no yog ib qho tseem ceeb hauv kev hloov pauv hauv tus menyuam tus cwj pwm. Ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv ua si nrog kev txaus siab thiab yuav ua si rau lub sijhawm ntev, tab sis qhov kev ua si tsis yog lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb ntawm nws lub neej. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau tus menyuam kawm ntawv yog nws txoj kev kawm, nws txoj kev vam meej thiab nws qib.
Txawm li cas los xij, 7 xyoo tsis yog kev hloov ntawm tus kheej thiab kev puas siab puas ntsws xwb. Nws kuj yog ib qho kev hloov ntawm cov hniav thiab lub cev "stretching". Cov yam ntxwv ntawm lub ntsej muag hloov, tus me nyuam loj hlob sai, nws endurance, cov leeg muaj zog nce, kev sib koom tes ntawm kev txav tau zoo. Tag nrho cov no tsis yog tsuas yog muab cov sijhawm tshiab rau menyuam yaus xwb, tab sis kuj tsim cov haujlwm tshiab rau nws, thiab tsis yog txhua tus menyuam yaus tiv nrog lawv sib npaug yooj yim.
Lub ntsiab yog vim li cas rau qhov kev kub ntxhov yog tias tus me nyuam tau tso tseg txoj kev loj hlob ntawm kev ua si. Tam sim no nws xav tau ntau dua - tsis yog xav txog, tab sis kom nkag siab tias yuav ua li cas thiab ua haujlwm li cas. Nws raug ntxias kom paub, sib zog ua ib tug neeg laus - tom qab tag nrho, cov neeg laus, hauv nws lub tswv yim, muaj lub hwj chim ntawm omniscience. Li no tus me nyuam khib khib: ua li cas yog cov niam txiv, sab laug nyob ib leeg, sib koom nrog cov khoom muaj nqis tshaj plaws, cov ntaub ntawv zais cia? Li no qhov tsis lees paub: puas yog nws tiag tiag, yuav luag yog ib tus neeg laus thiab muaj kev ywj pheej, leej twg ib zaug me, tsis muaj zog, tsis muaj kev pab? Nws puas ntseeg Santa Claus tiag tiag? Li no qhov kev ua phem rau cov khoom ua si uas nyiam ib zaug: yuav ua li cas yog tias lub tsheb tshiab tau sib sau los ntawm peb lub tsheb? Tus menyuam roj hmab puas yuav zoo nkauj dua yog tias koj txiav nws?
Nws tsis yog qhov tseeb tias kev hloov pauv mus rau lub neej tshiab ntawm tus menyuam npaj rau tsev kawm yuav mus zoo rau nws. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog 6-7 xyoos, tus me nyuam kawm tswj tus kheej, yog li ntawd, zoo li peb cov neeg laus, peb tuaj yeem noj, txwv lossis nthuav qhia peb cov kev xav thiab kev xav hauv daim ntawv uas tau txais. Thaum ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub carriage qw nrov nrov "Kuv xav tso!" los yog "dab tsi yog txiv ntxawm funny!" - qhov no ntxim hlub. Tab sis cov laus yuav tsis to taub. Yog li tus me nyuam sim nkag siab: dab tsi yog qhov yuav tsum ua, kab ntawm "ua tau" thiab "ua tsis tau" nyob qhov twg? Tab sis, zoo li hauv txhua txoj kev tshawb fawb, nws tsis ua haujlwm tam sim ntawd. Yog li ntawd, hom kev coj cwj pwm, theatrical kev coj cwj pwm. Li no lub jumps: mam li nco dheev koj muaj ib tug neeg loj nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm koj, xav thiab ua sensibly, ces dua ib tug "me nyuam", impulsive thiab impulsive.
Niam hais tias: “Yuav ua li cas kuv tus tub tsis tau muab ib lo lus. Feem ntau nws nco lawv sai sai, tab sis ntawm no nws tau daig ntawm ib kab thiab tsis nyob hauv ib qho twg. Ntxiv mus, nws categorically tsis kam kuv pab. Nws qw: "Kuv tus kheej." Ntawd yog, txhua zaus, mus txog qhov chaw tsis muaj hmoo, nws stammered, sim nco ntsoov, pib txij thaum pib. Pom nws txoj kev txom nyem, kuv sawv tsis tau thiab hais kom nws. Ces kuv tus me nyuam txawm qw nrov nrov tias, “Vim li cas koj ho ua li ntawd? Kuv puas tseem nco tau? Txhua yam yog vim koj. Kuv yuav tsis kawm nqe lus ruam no. Kuv nkag siab tias nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no nws tsis tuaj yeem tso siab. Kuv sim ua kom nws siab, tab sis nws tsuas ua rau qhov tsis zoo. Tom qab ntawd kuv tau siv cov txheej txheem uas kuv nyiam tshaj plaws. Nws hais tias, "Zoo, koj tsis tas yuav. Ces Olya thiab kuv yuav qhia. Yog, tus ntxhais? Ib-xyoo-laus Olya hais tias: "U-u", uas, pom tau tias, txhais tau tias nws pom zoo. Kuv pib nyeem Ole zaj paj huam. Feem ntau tus menyuam tam sim ntawd koom nrog qhov kev ua si, sim nco ntsoov thiab qhia cov lus sib dhos sai dua Olya. Tab sis tom qab ntawd tus me nyuam hais tias: "Koj tsis tas yuav sim. Koj tsis tuaj yeem ua rau kuv koom nrog. » Thiab tom qab ntawd kuv pom tau tias - tus menyuam loj hlob tuaj.
Qee lub sij hawm cov niam txiv tau txais kev xav tias lawv tus menyuam hnub nyoog 6-7 xyoo tau mus txog kev hluas ua ntej lub sijhawm. Nws zoo li tab tom sim rhuav tshem yam uas nws nyiam ua ntej. Lub siab xav tiv thaiv ib puag ncig thiab txoj cai, nrog rau kev tsis pom zoo, thaum txhua yam uas txaus siab rau tus tub lossis tus ntxhais kom txog rau thaum tam sim no ua rau muaj kev thuam thuam - dab tsi yog tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus tub hluas?
Sergey, mus txhuam koj cov hniav.
-Dab tsi rau?
- Zoo, thiaj li tsis muaj caries.
Yog li, kuv tsis tau noj khoom qab zib txij thaum sawv ntxov. Thiab feem ntau, cov hniav no tseem yog mis nyuj thiab yuav poob sai sai.
Tus me nyuam tam sim no muaj nws tus kheej, muaj kev xav, thiab nws pib tiv thaiv nws txoj kev xav. Nov yog nws txoj kev xav, thiab nws xav kom muaj kev hwm! Tam sim no tus me nyuam tsis tuaj yeem hais qhia "Ua raws li nws hais!", yuav tsum muaj kev sib cav, thiab nws yuav tawm tsam ib yam nkaus!
- Niam, kuv tuaj yeem ua si hauv computer?
— Tsis yog. Koj nyuam qhuav saib tas luav xwb. Koj puas to taub tias computer thiab TV tsis zoo rau koj ob lub qhov muag? Koj puas xav hnav tsom iav?
Yog, uas txhais tau tias koj tuaj yeem zaum txhua hnub. Tsis muaj dab tsi rau koj ob lub qhov muag?!
- Tsis muaj dab tsi rau kuv. Kuv yog neeg laus, rov qab!
Tsis yog lam tham li ntawd xwb. Thaum muaj xya xyoo, ib tug me nyuam twb muaj peev xwm ntes nws niam nws txiv ntawm qhov tsis sib xws ntawm qhov tau hais thiab ua dab tsi. Nws loj hlob lawm!
Yuav ua li cas? Zoo siab tias tus me nyuam loj hlob tuaj lawm. Thiab npaj tus menyuam mus kawm ntawv. Tsis txhob cuam tshuam nrog kev kub ntxhov, qhov no yog ib qho av nkos, tab sis tsuas yog npaj tus menyuam mus kawm ntawv. Txoj hauj lwm no yog qhov tseeb rau koj thiab tus menyuam, thiab nws txoj kev daws teeb meem yuav yog qhov kev daws teeb meem rau txhua yam teeb meem kev coj cwj pwm.
Yog tias koj txhawj xeeb txog kev ntxhov siab, "Koj tsis hlub kuv" cov lus iab liam, kev tsis mloog lus, thiab lwm yam kev txhawj xeeb tshwj xeeb, mus saib ntawm kab lus RELATED ARTICLES rau cov lus teb rau koj cov lus nug.