PSYchology

Qhov teeb meem no paub txog feem ntau ntawm cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam yaus hyperactive - nws nyuaj rau lawv zaum, nws nyuaj rau kev mloog. Txhawm rau ua cov lus qhia, koj xav tau kev siv zog titanic. Koj yuav pab tau tus menyuam li cas? Nov yog txoj hauv kev yooj yim thiab tsis zoo uas tus kws kho mob hlwb Ekaterina Murashova muaj nyob rau hauv phau ntawv "Peb txhua tus los ntawm thaum yau".

Xav txog: yav tsaus ntuj. Niam xyuas tus me nyuam cov ntawv ua tom tsev. Tsev kawm ntawv tag kis.

"Koj puas tau sau cov lus teb hauv cov piv txwv no los ntawm lub qab nthab?"

"Tsis yog, kuv tau ua."

"Tab sis koj tau txiav txim siab li cas yog tias koj muaj tsib ntxiv rau peb, nws hloov tawm plaub ?!"

“Ah… Kuv tsis tau pom tias…”

"Lub luag haujlwm yog dab tsi?"

“Yog lawm, kuv tsis paub yuav daws li cas. Cia wb ua ke».

“Koj puas tau sim tag nrho? Los yog ntsia lub qhov rais thiab ua si nrog tus miv?

"Tau kawg, kuv sim," Petya tawm tsam nrog kev chim siab. - Ib puas zaug».

"Qhia daim ntawv uas koj sau cov kev daws teeb meem."

"Thiab kuv sim hauv kuv lub siab ... "

"Lwm teev tom qab."

“Thiab lawv nug koj li cas hauv lus Askiv? Vim li cas koj tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi sau cia?

"Tsis muaj dab tsi nug."

“Qhov ntawd tsis tshwm sim. Marya Petrovna tshwj xeeb ceeb toom peb ntawm lub rooj sib tham: Kuv muab cov ntawv ua tom tsev ntawm txhua zaj lus qhia!

“Tab sis lub sij hawm no nws tsis tau. Vim nws mob taub hau.

"Nws nyob li cas?"

"Thiab nws tus dev tau khiav mus taug kev ... Ib tug dawb ... Nrog tus Tsov tus tw ..."

“Tsis txhob dag kuv! screeches niam. "Vim koj tsis tau sau txoj haujlwm, zaum thiab ua txhua yam haujlwm rau zaj lus qhia no ua ke!"

"Kuv yuav tsis, peb tsis tau nug!"

"Koj yuav, kuv hais!"

“Kuv yuav tsis! - Petya pov phau ntawv, phau ntawv ya tom qab. Nws niam tuav nws lub xub pwg nyom thiab co nws nrog qee yam uas yuav luag tsis hais lus phem, uas cov lus "qhia", "ua haujlwm", "tsev kawm ntawv", "janitor" thiab "koj txiv" raug kwv yees.

Ces ob leeg quaj hauv chav sib txawv. Ces lawv rov sib haum xeeb. Hnub tom qab, txhua yam yog rov ua dua.

Tus menyuam tsis xav kawm

Yuav luag ib feem peb ntawm kuv cov neeg siv khoom tuaj rau kuv nrog qhov teeb meem no. Tus me nyuam twb nyob rau qib qis tsis xav kawm. Tsis txhob zaum rau kev kawm. Nws yeej tsis muab dab tsi. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias nws zaum, nws pheej cuam tshuam thiab ua txhua yam hauv kev tsis ncaj ncees. Tus me nyuam siv sij hawm ntau heev rau kev ua homework thiab tsis muaj sij hawm mus taug kev thiab ua lwm yam tseem ceeb thiab nthuav.

Ntawm no yog Circuit Court kuv siv nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no.

1. Kuv tab tom saib hauv cov ntaub ntawv kho mob, puas muaj lossis puas muaj neurology. Cov tsiaj ntawv PEP (prenatal encephalopathy) lossis qee yam zoo li ntawd.

2. Kuv paub los ntawm kuv niam kuv txiv qhov peb muaj nrog ambition. Cais - nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam: nws txhawj xeeb tsawg kawg yog me ntsis txog kev ua yuam kev thiab deuces, los yog nws tsis quav ntsej kiag li. Cais - los ntawm cov niam txiv: pes tsawg zaus hauv ib lub lim tiam lawv qhia tus menyuam tias kev kawm yog nws txoj haujlwm, leej twg thiab nws yuav tsum ua li cas ua tsaug rau kev ua haujlwm tom tsev.

3. Kuv nug kom meej, leej twg yog tus lav thiab yuav ua li cas rau qhov kev ua tiav no. Ntseeg nws los tsis ntseeg, tab sis nyob rau hauv cov tsev neeg uas txhua yam nyob rau hauv lub caij nyoog, feem ntau tsis muaj teeb meem nrog cov lus qhia. Txawm hais tias, tau kawg, muaj lwm tus.

4. Kuv piav qhia rau niam txivqhov lawv (thiab cov kws qhia ntawv) xav tau dab tsi rau cov tub ntxhais kawm theem pib los npaj cov lus qhia. Nws tsis xav tau nws tus kheej. Feem ntau. Nws yuav ua si zoo dua.

Kev txhawb siab rau cov neeg laus "Kuv yuav tsum ua ib yam dab tsi tsis txaus ntseeg tam sim no, yog li ntawd tom qab, ob peb xyoos tom qab ntawd ... " tshwm sim hauv cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 15 xyoos.

Kev mob siab rau menyuam yaus "Kuv xav ua kom zoo, kom kuv niam / Marya Petrovna qhuas" feem ntau ua rau nws tus kheej los ntawm hnub nyoog 9-10 xyoo. Qee zaum, yog tias nws siv heev, ua ntej.

Yuav ua li cas?

Peb cob qhia lub siab nyiam. Yog tias cov ntawv sau paj hlwb raug pom nyob rau hauv daim npav, nws txhais tau hais tias tus me nyuam tus kheej cov kev xav tau me ntsis (lossis txawm tias muaj zog) tsis muaj zog. Cov niam txiv yuav tau "tso" rau nws ib pliag.

Qee lub sij hawm nws tsuas yog ua kom koj txhais tes ntawm tus menyuam lub taub hau, nyob rau saum nws lub taub hau - thiab hauv txoj haujlwm no nws yuav ua tiav txhua txoj haujlwm (feem ntau me me) hauv 20 feeb.

Tab sis ib tug yuav tsum tsis txhob cia siab tias nws yuav sau lawv tag nrho hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los pib tam sim ntawd lwm txoj hauv kev ntawm cov ntaub ntawv. Koj tus kheej paub tias koj tus menyuam tau nug dab tsi - thiab zoo.

Volitional mechanisms yuav tsum tau tsim thiab cob qhia, txwv tsis pub lawv yuav tsis ua haujlwm. Yog li ntawd, tsis tu ncua - piv txwv li, ib hlis ib zaug - koj yuav tsum "tso tawm" me ntsis nrog cov lus: "Auj, kuv tus tub (kuv tus ntxhais)! Tej zaum koj twb dhau los ua neeg muaj zog thiab ntse heev uas koj tuaj yeem rov sau qhov kev tawm dag zog koj tus kheej? Koj tuaj yeem tau txais kev kawm ntawm koj tus kheej?.. Koj puas tuaj yeem daws cov kab piv txwv?

Yog tias nws tsis ua haujlwm: “Zoo, tseem tsis tau muaj zog txaus. Cia peb sim dua hauv ib hlis.» Yog tias nws ua haujlwm - zoo siab!

Peb tab tom ua ib qho kev sim. Yog tias tsis muaj cov ntawv ceeb toom hauv cov ntaub ntawv kho mob thiab tus menyuam zoo li xav tau, koj tuaj yeem ua qhov kev sim.

"Kev nkag mus deb" yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj li tau piav qhia hauv kab lus dhau los, thiab cia tus menyuam "hnyav" ntawm qhov ntsuas: "Kuv tuaj yeem ua dab tsi?" Yog tias nws tuaj tos ob thiab lig rau tsev kawm ntawv ob peb zaug, nws tsis ua li cas.

Dab tsi tseem ceeb ntawm no? Qhov no yog ib qho kev sim. Tsis ua pauj: “Tam sim no kuv yuav qhia koj tias koj tsis muaj kuv! .. ", tab sis tus phooj ywg: "Tab sis cia peb saib ..."

Tsis muaj leej twg cem tus me nyuam rau ib yam dab tsi, tab sis qhov kev vam meej me ntsis yog txhawb thiab ruaj ntseg rau nws: "Zoo heev, nws hloov tawm tias kuv tsis tas yuav sawv ntawm koj ntxiv lawm! Qhov ntawd yog kuv qhov txhaum. Tab sis kuv zoo siab npaum li cas uas txhua yam tau tshwm sim!

Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov: tsis muaj qhov theoretical "kev pom zoo" nrog cov tub ntxhais hluas ua haujlwm, tsuas yog xyaum ua haujlwm xwb.

Nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev. Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam tsis muaj ntawv kho mob los yog ambition, rau lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv yuav tsum tau sab laug mus rub raws li nws yog thiab nrhiav kev pab nyob rau hauv lub sab nraud — yam uas tus me nyuam nyiam nyob rau hauv thiab nws ua tau zoo nyob rau hauv. Muaj ib yam dab tsi rau sawv daws. Lub tsev kawm ntawv tseem yuav tau txais txiaj ntsig los ntawm cov nyiaj tau los no - los ntawm kev muaj peev xwm nce siab rau tus kheej, txhua tus menyuam yaus dhau los ua lub luag haujlwm me ntsis.

Peb hloov chaw. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam muaj ntawv, thiab cov niam txiv muaj ambition: "Lub tsev kawm ntawv lub tshav puam tsis yog rau peb, tsuas yog ib tug gymnasium nrog txhim khu kev ua lej!", Peb cia tus me nyuam nyob ib leeg thiab ua hauj lwm nrog cov niam txiv.

Ib qho kev sim qhia los ntawm ib tug tub muaj hnub nyoog 13 xyoos

Qhov kev sim tau thov los ntawm tus tub Vasily. Nws kav 2 lub lis piam. Txhua leej txhua tus tau npaj txhij rau qhov tseeb tias tus menyuam, tej zaum, yuav tsis ua homework thaum lub sijhawm no. Tsis muaj, tsis tau.

Nrog me me, koj tuaj yeem tuaj yeem pom zoo nrog tus kws qhia ntawv: tus kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws pom zoo ib qho kev sim txhawm rau txhawm rau txhim kho qhov xwm txheej hauv tsev neeg, tom qab ntawd peb yuav ua nws tawm, rub nws, peb yuav ua, tsis yog. Tsis txhawj, Marya Petrovna. Tab sis muab deuces, tau kawg.

Nyob tsev dab tsi? Tus menyuam zaum kawm ntawv, paub ua ntej tias lawv YUAV TSIS ua tiav. Xws li kev pom zoo. Tau cov phau ntawv, phau ntawv sau, tus cwj mem, cwj mem, ntawv sau rau cov ntawv sau cia… Koj xav tau dab tsi ntxiv rau kev ua haujlwm? ..

Tshaj tawm txhua yam. Tab sis nws yog qhov tseeb TO DO LUSSONS - nws tsis tsim nyog txhua. Thiab qhov no yog paub ua ntej. YUAV TSIS ua nws.

Tab sis yog tias koj xav tau tam sim ntawd, ces koj tuaj yeem ua tau ib yam dab tsi me ntsis. Tab sis nws yog kiag li xaiv tau thiab txawm undesirable. Kuv ua tiav tag nrho cov kauj ruam npaj, zaum ntawm lub rooj rau 10 vib nas this thiab mus, cia peb hais, ua si nrog tus miv.

Thiab dab tsi, nws hloov tawm, kuv twb tau ua tag nrho cov lus qhia?! Thiab tseem tsis tau muaj sijhawm ntau? Thiab tsis muaj leej twg yuam kuv?

Tom qab ntawd, thaum cov kev ua si nrog cov miv dhau lawm, koj tuaj yeem mus rau lub rooj dua. Saib dab tsi yog nug. Tshawb nrhiav seb ib yam dab tsi tsis tau sau tseg. Qhib phau ntawv thiab phau ntawv mus rau nplooj ntawv raug. Nrhiav txoj kev tawm dag zog. Thiab tsis txhob ua dab tsi ntxiv. Zoo, yog tias koj tam sim pom qee yam yooj yim uas koj tuaj yeem kawm, sau, daws lossis hais qhia hauv ib feeb, ces koj yuav ua. Thiab yog hais tias koj siv acceleration thiab tsis nres, ces ib yam dab tsi ntxiv ... Tab sis nws yog zoo dua tso nws rau peb mus kom ze.

Tiag tiag npaj tawm mus noj. Thiab tsis yog zaj lus qhia ... Tab sis txoj hauj lwm no tsis ua hauj lwm ... Zoo, tam sim no kuv mam li saib GDZ tov ... Ah, yog li ntawd yog dab tsi tshwm sim! Yuav ua li cas kuv tsis tau twv ib yam dab tsi! .. Thiab tam sim no dab tsi — tsuas yog lus Askiv xwb? Tsis yog, nws TSIS TAU ua tam sim no. Ces. Thaum twg tom qab? Zoo, tam sim no kuv tsuas yog hu rau Lenka… Vim li cas, thaum kuv tham nrog Lenka, cov lus Askiv ruam no los rau hauv kuv lub taub hau?

Thiab dab tsi, nws hloov tawm, kuv twb tau ua tag nrho cov lus qhia?! Thiab tseem tsis tau muaj sijhawm ntau? Thiab tsis muaj leej twg yuam kuv? Oh yog kuv yog, ua tau zoo! Niam txawm tsis ntseeg tias kuv twb ua lawm! Thiab tom qab ntawd kuv ntsia, tshawb xyuas thiab zoo siab heev!

Nov yog qhov hodgepodge uas cov tub thiab ntxhais kawm qib 2 txog qib 10 uas tau tshaj tawm txog cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev sim qhia rau kuv.

Los ntawm lub thib plaub "txoj kev mus rau lub projectile" yuav luag txhua leej txhua tus ua lawv homework. Ntau - ua ntej, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov me me.

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