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Lawv sib cav sib ceg, sib cav sib ceg, khib siab… Tsis muaj kev txhawj xeeb, lawv cov kev sib cav uas tsis tuaj yeem zam thiab lawv cov kev sib tw noj qab haus huv tsim kev coj ua thiab yog qhov chaw sim tiag tiag rau kev tsim thiab kawm nyob hauv zej zog…
Tsis txhob tso tseg lawv txoj kev khib
Sib cav ntawm cov kwv tij thiab cov muam, kev khib yog qhov qub, yog li tsis txhob sim ua kom muaj kev sib haum xeeb zoo meej ! Hauv kev xav ntawm cov me nyuam me, kev hlub ntawm niam txiv yog lub ncuav mog qab zib loj muab faib ua tej daim. Cov kev sib tham no txo qis nrog cov menyuam yaus thiab lawv ntxhov siab… Peb yuav tsum ua kom lawv nkag siab tias kev hlub thiab lub siab ntawm cov niam txiv loj hlob thiab sib npaug nrog cov menyuam yaus thiab cov niam txiv tuaj yeem hlub ob, peb lossis plaub tus menyuam ib yam. lub sijhawm thiab muaj zog sib npaug.
Sib txawv lawv ntau li ntau tau
Tsis txhob muab piv rau lawv ib leeg, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, kos lub zog, saj, style ntawm txhua tus. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias tsuas muaj cov ntxhais los yog cov tub xwb. Hais rau tus hlob: “Koj kos tau zoo… Koj tus tij laug ntaus ncaws pob. Lwm qhov yuam kev, "pawg hluav taws". Hais tias "Los ntawm cov menyuam yaus, cov neeg laus, cov menyuam yaus, cov ntxhais, cov tub" muab txhua tus hauv tib lub pob tawb! Cia li tsa lawv nyob rau hauv lub illusion ntawm tag nrho cov tib yam. Muab tib tus naj npawb fries, yuav tib lub T-shirts… yog txhua yam kev xav phem uas ua rau muaj kev khib. Tsis txhob muab khoom plig me me rau tus menyuam loj yog tias nws yog tus yau lub hnub yug. Peb ua kev zoo siab rau yug me nyuam tsis yog cov kwv tij! Txawm li cas los xij, koj tuaj yeem txhawb kom nws muab khoom plig rau nws tus tij laug ib yam nkaus, uas ua rau nws txaus siab heev. Thiab sau ntawv ib-rau-ib rau txhua tus. Cov sij hawm ntawm kev sib koom ua ke no yuav ua pov thawj tias txhua tus neeg tshwj xeeb, zoo li koj txoj kev hlub.
Tsis txhob tso tseg kev sib cav sib ceg
Kev sib cav ntawm cov kwv tij thiab cov muam muaj lub luag haujlwm: coj lawv qhov chaw, kos lawv thaj chaw thiab hwm ib leeg. Yog tias muaj kev sib hloov ntawm kev sib ntaus sib tua thiab lub sijhawm ntawm kev sib txuam thiab kev ua si, txhua yam zoo, kev sib raug zoo nrog phooj ywg yog nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev tswj tus kheej. Tsis muaj laj thawj txhawj xeeb lossis xav tias muaj kev sib tw hauv nws txoj cai raws li cov niam txiv zoo yog tias cov menyuam sib cav.
Tsis txhob censor lawv, mloog lawv cov lus tsis txaus siab thiab reframe : “Kuv pom tau tias koj npau taws. Koj tsis tas yuav hlub koj cov kwv tij. Tab sis koj yuav tsum hwm lawv, raws li peb yuav tsum hwm txhua tus neeg. ” Nyob twj ywm nyob rau hauv rooj plaub me me hitches. Kev sib cav feem ntau xaus sai li sai tau thaum lawv pib. Muab hais tias cov niam txiv nyob ntawm qhov deb thiab tsis nrhiav kom pom lawv tus kheej ntawm qhov chaw ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Nws tsis muaj txiaj ntsig los cuam tshuam txhua lub sijhawm thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws tsis tshaj tawm cov lus nug dag: "Leej twg pib?" Vim nws yog unverifiable. Muab sijhawm rau lawv los daws qhov teeb meem ntawm lawv tus kheej.
cuam tshuam yog menyuam tuaj tshuab
Cov belligerents yuav tsum tau muab cais tawm ntawm lub cev yog tias ib tug ntawm lawv pom nyob rau hauv txaus ntshai los yog yog ib txwm ib yam uas yog nyob rau hauv txoj hauj lwm ntawm kev xa. Tom qab ntawd coj tus neeg tawm tsam los ntawm caj npab, saib nws ncaj nraim ntawm lub qhov muag thiab nco qab cov cai: “Nws yog txwv tsis pub tuav ib leeg lossis thuam ib leeg hauv peb tsev neeg. “ Kev hais lus phem ntau npaum li kev tsim txom ntawm lub cev yuav tsum zam.
Rau txim los ntawm kev ncaj ncees
Tsis muaj dab tsi phem tshaj rau tus me me dua li raug txim txhaum, thiab vim nws nyuaj kom paub tseeb tias leej twg ua teeb meem loj dua, nws yog qhov zoo dua los xaiv qhov kev txiav txim siab rau txhua tus me nyuam. Zoo li, piv txwv li, kev cais tawm hauv chav pw ob peb feeb thiab tom qab ntawd kev ua tiav ntawm daim duab npaj rau nws tus tij laug lossis tus muam raws li kev cog lus ntawm cov lus ntawm kev sib haum xeeb thiab kev thaj yeeb. Vim yog tias koj rau txim hnyav dhau lawm, koj yuav muaj kev pheej hmoo ua rau kev tsis sib haum xeeb mus rau qhov kev chim siab tawv ncauj.
Kos rau lub sijhawm ntawm kev nkag siab zoo
Peb feem ntau mob siab rau lub sijhawm muaj kev kub ntxhov ntau dua li lub sijhawm ntawm kev sib haum xeeb. Thiab nws yog lawm. Thaum silence reigns nyob rau hauv lub tsev, qhia koj txaus siab : "Koj ua si zoo li cas, ua rau kuv zoo siab heev uas pom koj zoo siab ua ke!" » Muab lawv ua si los qhia. Peb biker ntau yog tias peb dhuav! Sim ua kom lawv lub hnub nrog kev ua kis las, tawm mus, taug kev, pleev xim, ua si hauv pawg, ua noj ...
Cov niam txiv puas muaj kev nyiam?
Raws li kev tshawb fawb British tsis ntev los no, 62% ntawm cov niam txiv tau soj ntsuam hais tias lawv nyiam ib tug ntawm lawv cov menyuam rau lwm tus. Raws li lawv, qhov kev nyiam txhais tau tias yog kev saib xyuas ntau dua thiab siv sijhawm ntau nrog ib tus menyuam yaus. Hauv 25% ntawm cov neeg mob, nws yog tus hlob tshaj plaws uas nyiam tshaj plaws vim tias lawv tuaj yeem koom nrog ntau yam kev ua ub no thiab nthuav kev sib tham nrog nws. Qhov kev tshawb fawb no yog qhov xav tsis thoob vim tias qhov muaj nyob ntawm tus hlub hauv tsev neeg yog ib qho kev txwv! Tus hlub cam hais tias cov niam txiv yuav hlub lawv cov me nyuam ib yam! Qhov no yog lus dab neeg vim hais tias tej yam yuav tsis zoo ib yam ntawm cov kwv tij, cov me nyuam yog cov tib neeg tshwj xeeb thiab yog li nws yog ib txwm saib lawv txawv.
Yog cov kwvtij nkauj muam khib heev txog tej cai ntawm niam txiv xaiv ib tug los yog ib tug uas lawv pom li ntawd, puas yog qhov chaw zoo tshaj? Yeej tsis yog! Kev lwj ib tug me nyuam ntau dhau thiab muab txhua yam rau nws tsis yog hlub nws tiag. Vim yog ua ib tug neeg laus ua tiav, tus me nyuam xav tau lub hauv paus thiab kev txwv. Yog hais tias nws coj nws tus kheej rau tus huab tais ntawm lub ntiaj teb no ntawm nws cov kwv tij thiab cov muam, nws muaj kev pheej hmoo los ua disillusioned sab nraum tsev neeg cocoon, vim hais tias lwm cov me nyuam, cov xib fwb, cov neeg laus feem ntau yuav ua rau nws zoo li txhua leej txhua tus. Overprotected, over-value, ignored the siab ntev, lub siab ntev, kam rau siab rau kev ntxhov siab, tus darling feem ntau pom nws tus kheej unsuited mus kawm ntawv ua ntej, ces mus ua hauj lwm thiab kev sib raug zoo lub neej. Hauv luv, ua tus nyiam tsis yog panacea, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws!