Zentia (35 xyoo), yog niam ntawm Zoe (5 xyoos) thiab Harlan (3 xyoos). Nws tau nyob hauv Fabkis tau peb xyoos nrog nws tus txiv Laurent, uas yog Fabkis. Nws yug hauv Pretoria qhov chaw nws loj hlob. Nws yog urologist. Nws qhia peb tias cov poj niam tau ntsib lawv txoj kev ua leej niam li cas hauv South Africa, nws lub tebchaws tuaj.
Cov lus tim khawv ntawm Zentia, South African niam ntawm 2 tus menyuam
“'Koj tus menyuam tsuas hais lus Fab Kis xwb?', Kuv cov hluas nkauj South African ib txwm xav tsis thoob, thaum lawv tham nrog peb cov phooj ywg nyob Fab Kis teb. Hauv South Africa muaj kaum ib hom lus hauv tebchaws thiab txhua tus tau paub tsawg kawg yog ob lossis peb. Piv txwv li, kuv hais lus Askiv nrog kuv niam, German nrog kuv txiv, Afrikaans nrog kuv cov phooj ywg. Tom qab ntawd, thaum ua haujlwm hauv tsev kho mob, kuv tau kawm cov kev xav ntawm Zulu thiab Sotho, ob hom lus African tau siv ntau tshaj plaws. Nrog kuv cov menyuam, kuv hais lus German kom kuv txiv cov cuab yeej cuab tam.
INws yuav tsum tau hais tias South Africa tseem nyob, txawm tias qhov kawg ntawm apartheid (txoj kev ntxub ntxaug lwm haiv neeg tau tsim los txog rau xyoo 1994), Hmoov tsis zoo tseem muaj kev sib cais heev. Cov Askiv, Afrikaners thiab Africans nyob sib cais, muaj ob peb sib xyaw ua ke. Qhov sib txawv ntawm cov neeg nplua nuj thiab cov neeg pluag yog qhov loj, thiab nws tsis zoo li hauv Tebchaws Europe uas cov neeg los ntawm ntau haiv neeg tuaj yeem sib ntsib hauv tib lub zej zog. Thaum kuv tseem yau, cov neeg dawb thiab cov dub nyob sib nrug. Hauv zej zog, hauv tsev kawm ntawv, hauv tsev kho mob - txhua qhov chaw. Nws yog ib qho txhaum cai los sib xyaw, thiab ib tug poj niam dub uas muaj me nyuam nrog ib tug dawb yuav raug kaw. Tag nrho qhov no txhais tau hais tias South Africa paub txog kev sib faib tiag tiag, txhua tus muaj nws cov kab lis kev cai, nws cov kab lis kev cai thiab nws keeb kwm. Kuv tseem nco txog hnub uas Nelson Mandela raug xaiv. Nws yog kev xyiv fab tiag tiag, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog vim tsis muaj tsev kawm ntawv thiab kuv tuaj yeem ua si nrog kuv Barbies txhua hnub! Lub xyoo ntawm kev ua phem ua ntej uas cim kuv ntau, kuv ib txwm xav tias peb yuav raug tawm tsam los ntawm ib tug neeg nrog Kalashnikov.
Txhawm rau txo cov colic hauv South African menyuam yaus
Cov me nyuam mos yog muab rooibos tshuaj yej (liab tshuaj yej tsis muaj theine), uas muaj antioxidant zog thiab yuav txo tau colic. Cov menyuam yaus haus cov dej no los ntawm 4 lub hlis.
Kuv loj hlob hauv ib cheeb tsam dawb, nruab nrab ntawm cov lus Askiv thiab cov neeg Afrikaners. Hauv Pretoria, qhov chaw kuv yug los, huab cua ib txwm zoo (lub caij ntuj no nws yog 18 ° C, lub caij ntuj sov 30 ° C) thiab qhov xwm txheej tam sim no heev. Txhua tus menyuam yaus hauv kuv lub zej zog muaj lub tsev loj nrog lub vaj thiab lub pas dej, thiab peb siv sijhawm ntau sab nraum zoov. Cov niam txiv tau teeb tsa qee yam kev ua ub no rau peb, nws yog ntau tus niam uas tau koom nrog lwm tus niam tham thiab cov me nyuam ua raws. Ib txwm zoo li ntawd! Cov niam South African tau so thiab siv sijhawm ntau nrog lawv cov menyuam. Nws yuav tsum tau hais tias lub tsev kawm ntawv pib thaum muaj hnub nyoog 7 xyoo, ua ntej, nws yog "Kindergarten" (Kindergarten), tab sis nws tsis hnyav li nyob rau Fabkis. Kuv mus kawm kindergarten thaum kuv muaj 4 xyoos, tab sis tsuas yog ob hnub hauv ib lub lis piam thiab thaum sawv ntxov xwb. Kuv niam tsis ua haujlwm rau thawj plaub xyoos thiab qhov ntawd zoo li qub, txawm tias muaj kev txhawb nqa los ntawm tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg. Tam sim no ntau thiab ntau tus niam tau rov qab mus ua haujlwm sai dua, thiab qhov no yog qhov hloov pauv loj hauv peb cov kab lis kev cai vim tias South African haiv neeg muaj kev saib xyuas zoo. Lub tsev kawm ntawv xaus thaum 13 teev tsaus ntuj, yog li yog tias leej niam ua haujlwm nws yuav tsum nrhiav tus neeg zov me nyuam, tab sis hauv South Africa nws muaj ntau heev thiab tsis kim heev. Lub neej rau niam yog yooj yim dua nyob rau Fabkis.
Ua ib leej niam hauv South Africa: tus lej
Tus nqi ntawm cov me nyuam ib tug poj niam: 1,3
Pub mis niam tus nqi: 32% pub mis rau thawj 6 lub hlis
Hnub yug: 4 lub hlis
Nrog peb, "braai" yog lub koom haum tiag tiag!Qhov no yog peb lub npe nrov barbecue nrog "sheba", ib hom txiv lws suav-dos zaub xam lav thiab "pap" lossis "mielimiel", ib hom pob kws polenta. Yog koj caw ib tug neeg noj, peb ua tus braai. Thaum Christmas, txhua tus tuaj rau braai, thaum Xyoo Tshiab, dua lub braai. Mam li nco dheev, cov me nyuam noj nqaij los ntawm 6 lub hlis thiab lawv hlub nws! Lawv nyiam tais diav yog "boerewors", tsoos Afrikaans sausages nrog qhuav cilantro. Tsis muaj ib lub tsev tsis muaj braai, yog li cov menyuam yaus tsis muaj cov ntawv qhia nyuaj heev. Thawj lub tais rau me nyuam mos yog "pap", uas yog noj nrog "braai", los yog sweetened nrog mis nyuj, nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm porridge. Kuv tsis tau pap cov menyuam yaus, tab sis thaum sawv ntxov lawv ib txwm noj polenta lossis oatmeal porridge. Cov menyuam yaus South Africa noj thaum lawv tshaib plab, tsis muaj khoom noj txom ncauj lossis cov sijhawm nruj rau noj su lossis noj hmo. Hauv tsev kawm ntawv tsis muaj tsev noj mov, thaum lawv tawm mus, lawv noj hauv tsev. Nws tuaj yeem yog cov qhaub cij yooj yim, tsis tas yuav pib, chav kawm tseem ceeb thiab khoom noj qab zib zoo li hauv Fabkis. Peb kuj nbble ntau ntau.
Qhov kuv tau khaws cia los ntawm South Africa yog txoj kev hais lus rau menyuam yaus. Kuv niam thiab kuv txiv yeej tsis tau siv cov lus hnyav, tab sis lawv nruj heev. Cov neeg South Africa tsis hais rau lawv cov menyuam, zoo li qee cov neeg Fabkis, "tso tseg!". Tab sis hauv South Africa, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov neeg Afrikaans thiab Africans, kev qhuab qhia thiab kev sib raug zoo yog qhov tseem ceeb heev. Cov kab lis kev cai yog hierarchical heev, muaj qhov sib nrug tiag tiag ntawm cov niam txiv thiab cov menyuam, txhua tus nyob hauv nws qhov chaw. Nws yog ib yam dab tsi uas kuv tsis tau khaws cia nyob rau hauv tag nrho ntawm no, Kuv nyiam qhov tsawg framed thiab ntau spontaneous sab. “
Kev xam phaj los ntawm Anna Pamula thiab Dorothée Saada