Peb tuaj yeem tham nrog menyuam yaus txog kev sib deev yam tsis muaj kev txwv
Cov niam txiv: Los ntawm lub hnub nyoog li cas yog nws xav kom mus txog qhov kev kawm?
Sandra Franrenet: XNUMX Lab tus kiv cua tos koj rau Webtalk! Cov lus nug ntawm cov menyuam yaus txog kev pw ua ke tuaj txog thaum muaj hnub nyoog 3 xyoos, lawv nyiam nyob hauv lawv lub cev thiab ntawm cov poj niam cev xeeb tub. Lawv feem ntau sim pom lawv niam lawv txiv liab qab, kom nkag siab qhov sib txawv… Tab sis qhov ntawd tuaj yeem tshwm sim tom qab, tsis muaj txoj cai, txhua yam yog nyob ntawm tus menyuam. Cov niam txiv niaj hnub no mob siab ua lawv txoj haujlwm zoo, lawv xav tias "ua tus saib xyuas lub luag haujlwm ntawm kev kawm" thiab feem ntau mob siab rau tham txog txhua yam. Peb tsis tas yuav ua haujlwm! Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsis txhob cia siab tias yuav muaj cov lus nug, kom lawv tuaj, hwm txoj kev loj hlob thiab lub cev nqaij daim tawv ntawm koj tus menyuam. Yog tias peb tham txog nws thaum tus menyuam tsis thov lossis npaj mloog cov ntaub ntawv no, muaj kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev tsim kev poob siab uas tuaj yeem ua rau raug mob. Thaum ib tug me me nug "Yuav ua li cas yog kev hlub?" », Peb muab lus teb rau nws tab sis tsis mus rau hauv cov ntsiab lus. Peb tuaj yeem hais piv txwv: qhov no yog cov neeg laus ua vim lawv hlub ib leeg, vim nws ua rau lawv zoo siab thiab vim lawv xav ua. Yog hais tias kev sib deev yuav tsum tsis txhob txwv, peb yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib xyuas vim nws yog peb tus kheej, peb muab cov lus teb, tab sis peb tsis hais txhua yam.
Koj hais txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev tsim kom muaj kev ntseeg siab, vim li cas?
SF: Cov menyuam yaus xav paub txog qhov xwm txheej thiab kev xav txog kev sib deev yog qhov ntuj tsim, tab sis kom tus me nyuam tuaj yeem qhia nws tus kheej, nws yuav tsum xav tias hauv nws tsev neeg hais lus tau tso cai rau txhua yam uas cuam tshuam rau nws, suav nrog kev sib deev. . Thaum nws qhia ib yam dab tsi, piv txwv li tias nws tus phooj ywg Leo tau pom ib daim duab ntawm tus poj niam liab qab ntawm qhov chaw so thiab tias nws txaj muag, nws yuav nkag siab tias cov lus nug ntawm kev sib deev, "ntawm pob tw", yog txwv tsis pub. . Txawm nws nug, nws yuav tsum xav tias tsis muaj kev txwv lossis kev txiav txim rau koj. Qhov kev tshawb pom ntawm kev sib deev, nws yog ua tiav hauv tsev kawm ntawv nrog rau lwm cov menyuam yaus, nrog cov kwv tij thiab cov muam uas hais txog "qhuav", los ntawm kev saib cov ntawv tshaj tawm hauv txoj kev thiab qee qhov kev tshaj tawm kub heev hauv TV, los ntawm cov dab neeg thiab cov duab kos duab. "Kuv tus ntxhais muaj 5 xyoos nug kuv rau lwm hnub vim li cas Donkey Skin khiav tawm. Kuv hais rau nws tias nws khiav mus lawm vim nws tsis xav yuav nws txiv. Kuv tus ntxhais, xav tsis thoob, ntxiv tias: "Kuv yuav yuav txiv tom qab, peb tuaj yeem ua neej nyob ua ke! Nws muab sijhawm zoo rau kuv los tham nrog nws txog Oedipus thiab txwv tsis pub muaj kev sib deev.
Yuav ua li cas thiaj nrhiav tau cov lus zoo rau tus menyuam?
SF: Hais txog kev sib deev rau me nyuam yaus tsis yog hais txog kev sib deev ntawm cov laus. Lawv tsis xav tau cov lus qhia lossis kev qhia txog kev sib deev. Peb tuaj yeem piav qhia rau lawv tias cov neeg nyiam sib koom sib nyiam, hnia, puag thiab txaus siab. Thaum lawv nug tias, “Peb yuav ua li cas rau menyuam yaus? Lawv tsis xav tau cov ntsiab lus ntawm tus tsim. Qhia hais tias txiv leej tub thiab niam cov noob los ua ib tug me nyuam, tus me nyuam yuav loj hlob hauv niam plab mus txog thaum nws yug los txaus. Qhov txaus siab rau tus menyuam yog paub tias nws yog txiv ntawm nws niam nws txiv txoj kev hlub, uas lawv tau ntsib thiab sib hlub thiab qhov no yog nws zaj dab neeg.
Peb puas siv tau cov lus zoo li zizi, zézette, fooufoune, kiki?
SF: Peb tuaj yeem siv cov lus zoo li noog me, noov, qaib ntxhw… txhawm rau xaiv tus txiv neej thiab zézette, paj, zigounette los xaiv tus poj niam txiv neej. Tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tus me nyuam kuj paub cov ntsiab lus noov, testicles, vulva, thiab lawv cov ntsiab lus tseeb. Lub pob tw tsis muaj dab tsi ua rau qhov chaw mos, yog li lo lus no yuav tsum tau siv kom zoo.
Yuav ua li cas yog lawv nug cov lus xws li "porn" lossis "fellatio"?
SF Cov me nyuam yaus qee zaum coj rov qab los ntawm sab nraud cov lus uas tsis yog txhua yam rau lawv. Thawj qhov uas yuav tau ua yog nrhiav seb lawv txhais li cas los ntawm qhov ntawd, nug lawv seb nws txhais li cas. Pib los ntawm nws tus kheej kev paub tsis tsuas yog tso cai rau nws tsis txhob hais ntau tshaj qhov nws xav paub, tab sis kuj muab cov lus teb rau nws lub hnub nyoog. Peb yuav pom tseeb tsis muab nws cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib deev ntawm qhov ncauj. Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum qhia nws tias cov no yog yam uas cov neeg laus ua thaum lawv xav tias nws tsis piav qhia tias nws yog dab tsi. Koj tuaj yeem qhia nws tias koj yuav tham txog nws tom qab, thaum nws laus dua.
Yuav ua li cas yog lawv inadvertently pom cov duab nyoos hauv Internet?
SF Txhua leej txhua tus paub txog qhov ua tsis ncaj ncees ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas nyem cov duab ntawm "me me pussies" thiab tsaws ntawm qhov chaw porn, lossis raug porn DVD npog ntawm cov xov xwm uas tsis tso rau siab. Thawj qhov uas yuav tsum ua yog kom tus menyuam xav tsis thoob li qhov nws tau pom: “Koj pom tias nws qias neeg, tsis txhob txhawj, nws yog ib qho uas koj xav tsis thoob, Nws tsis yog koj qhov txhaum. Cov no yog cov kev coj ua uas qee cov neeg laus ua, tab sis tsis yog txhua tus neeg laus. Peb tsis tas yuav ua! Thaum koj yog ib tug neeg laus, koj yuav ua qhov koj xav tau, tsis txhob txhawj, nws tsis yog lub luag haujlwm. “
Yuav ua li cas ceeb toom me ntsis tawm tsam pedophiles?
SF: Kev ceeb toom tiv thaiv kev phom sij yog qhov zoo, tab sis peb tab tom ua "teeb" tiv thaiv. Cov niam txiv uas tham txog nws ntau kis lawv cov kev ntxhov siab rau lawv tus menyuam, lawv tshem tawm lawv tus kheej kev ntshai rau nws. Yog lawv tso siab rau lawv tus kheej, lawv tsis pab lawv tus menyuam, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws. Cov lus ceeb toom classic, xws li "Koj tsis tham nrog tus neeg laus koj tsis paub!" Yog tias peb muab khoom qab zib rau koj, koj tsis txhob nqa nws! Yog peb mus cuag koj, qhia rau kuv tam sim ntawd! Muaj txaus. Niaj hnub no muaj ib tug generalized suspicion rau cov neeg laus, peb yuav tsum tau ceev faj, tab sis tsis poob rau hauv paranoia. Txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws kom tsis txhob muaj teeb meem yog txhawb koj tus menyuam kom qhia koj txog dab tsi tshwm sim ntau zaus, nrog kev ntseeg siab.
Puas muaj ib lo lus tseem ceeb los qhia rau cov menyuam yaus?
SF: Hauv kuv lub tswv yim, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom qhia koj tus menyuam sai li sai tau tias nws lub cev yog nws, tsis muaj leej twg muaj cai kov nws, tsuas yog nws tus kheej thiab nws niam nws txiv. Koj yuav tsum qhia nws kom khaws nws tus kheej ntiag tug, txhawb kom nws ntxuav nws tus kheej kom sai li sai tau, thiab txawm thov nws tso cai thaij duab thiab tso nws cov duab hauv koj lub phab ntsa Facebook, piv txwv li.
Yog tias nws koom nrog cov tub ntxhais hluas uas nws cov duab zoo li nws lub cev muaj rau nws, tsis muaj leej twg tuaj yeem muab pov tseg yam tsis muaj nws qhov kev pom zoo, nws yuav paub hwm nws tus kheej thiab lwm tus. Qhov no yuav ua rau muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau nws txoj kev ua neej nyob nws txoj kev sib deev thaum hluas thiab kev laus. Thiab nws yuav muaj tsawg dua tom qab los ua tus neeg raug tsim txom ntawm cyber-stalker.