Zoo li ntau tus niam txiv, koj xav paub tias dab tsi yog tus cwj pwm zoo los txais yuav thaum ntsib "pee poo" ntawm tus tij laug lossis cov lus tsis zoo ntawm cov txwj laus. Ua ntej koj ua, siv sijhawm los nkag siab tias cov lus no nkag mus rau hauv koj tus menyuam cov lus li cas. Lawv puas tau hnov hauv tsev, tom tsev kawm ntawv, uas yog ib feem ntawm kev ua ub no ntxiv? Thaum cov lus nug no tau qhia meej, kev ua haujlwm "tshem cov lus phem" tuaj yeem pib.
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Txij thaum muaj hnub nyoog 4 xyoos, "ntshav hnyuv ntxwm poo" thiab nws cov derivatives ua rau lawv zoo li. Lawv txuas nrog rau kev loj hlob ntawm tus menyuam, uas sib haum mus rau theem kawg ntawm kev ua kom huv. Dab tsi hauv qab lub lauj kaub lossis hauv chav dej, nws xav kov, tab sis nws txwv tsis pub. Tom qab ntawd nws hla dhau qhov thaiv no nrog cov lus. Lawv raug hais kom lom zem thiab sim cov kev txwv los ntawm cov neeg laus. Nws yog nyob ntawm koj, ntawm lub sijhawm no, piav qhia tias cov kab lus no "hloov ntawm cov phooj ywg" tsis muaj chaw nyob hauv tsev. Tab sis tsis txhob txhawj, tus naas ej "ntshav hnyuv ntxwm poo" muaj nws hnub thiab ploj mus.
Txawm li cas los xij, lawv yuav raug hloov los ntawm cov lus coarser. Feem ntau, tus menyuam tsis paub lub ntsiab lus. “Koj yuav tsum qhia tus menyuam tias lo lus cog lus txhais li cas thiab qhov ua rau lawv raug mob dab tsi. Kev rau txim tsis yog kev daws teeb meem. ”Elise Machut, tus kws qhia ntawv ntawm cov menyuam yaus hais tias.
Nws kuj yog nyob ntawm koj, cov niam txiv, coj kev tshawb xyuas: nws puas tau hais cov lus tsis zoo rau "copy ib tug neeg", qhov no puas yog qhov xav tau kev ntxeev siab lossis ib txoj hauv kev qhia nws kev ua phem? “Nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam yaus, muaj kev hais lus phem feem ntau txuas nrog tsev neeg cov ntsiab lus. Koj yuav tsum lees koj qhov yuam kev thiab ua piv txwv rau koj tus menyuam. Yog nws tseem hais tej lus phem hauv tsev kawm ntawv, cia nws lav ris. Txhawb kom nws los ua "tus yam ntxwv zoo" ntawm nws cov phooj ywg ", qhia txog Elise Machut.
Xav txog kev tsim nrog nws a code siv cov lus tsis zoo :
> yam txwv tsis pub. Koj tsis tuaj yeem tham nrog cov neeg zoo li ntawd, txwv tsis pub nws dhau los ua kev thuam thiab ua rau mob hnyav heev.
> uas tsis mob hnyav. Lo lus qias neeg uas khiav hauv qhov xwm txheej ntxhov siab. Cov no tsis zoo nkauj heev swear lus uas ua rau koj pob ntseg thiab hais tias koj yuav tsum kawm tswj.
Txawm li cas los xij, kev coj tus cwj pwm zoo yog los teb tam sim ntawd thiab hais kom tus menyuam thov txim. Nws kuj yuav tsum yog ib qho ntawm koj qhov kev xav yog tias kev foom tsis zoo tawm hauv koj lub qhov ncauj, nyob rau hauv kev nplua ntawm kev poob txhua qhov kev ntseeg siab nrog koj cov menyuam yaus.