Los teb cov lus nug "Kuv yog leej twg?" peb feem ntau siv rau kev sim thiab typologies. Txoj hauv kev no txhais tau hais tias peb tus cwj pwm tsis hloov pauv thiab molded rau hauv ib hom ntawv. Psychologist Brian Little xav tias lwm yam: ntxiv rau cov khoom lom neeg "core", peb kuj muaj ntau cov khaubncaws sab nraud povtseg. Ua hauj lwm nrog lawv yog tus yuam sij rau kev vam meej.
Loj hlob tuaj, peb tau paub lub ntiaj teb thiab sim nkag siab tias peb tuaj yeem nyob hauv nws li cas - yuav ua li cas, nyiam leej twg, nrog leej twg ua phooj ywg. Peb sim ua kom paub txog peb tus kheej hauv kev sau ntawv thiab cov yeeb yaj kiab, ua raws li cov qauv ntawm cov neeg nto moo. Cwm pwm typologies tsim los ntawm psychologists thiab sociologists nyiam ua rau peb txoj hauj lwm yooj yim dua: yog tias peb txhua tus muaj nyob rau ntawm kaum rau hom, nws tsuas yog nrhiav peb tus kheej thiab ua raws li "cov lus qhia".
Nws txhais li cas rau koj tus kheej?
Raws li kws tshawb fawb txog kev puas siab puas ntsws Brian Little, txoj hauv kev no tsis suav nrog kev xav ntawm tus kheej. Thoob plaws hauv lub neej, peb muaj kev kub ntxhov, kawm kom kov yeej cov teeb meem thiab kev poob, hloov kev taw qhia thiab qhov tseem ceeb. Thaum peb ua raws li kev koom tes nrog txhua qhov xwm txheej hauv lub neej nrog tus cwj pwm coj tus cwj pwm, peb tuaj yeem poob lub peev xwm los daws cov teeb meem muaj tswv yim thiab ua qhev rau ib lub luag haujlwm.
Tab sis yog tias peb tuaj yeem hloov tau, ces mus rau qhov twg? Brian Little thov kom saib tus cwj pwm raws li ntau txheej txheej tsim, tsim raws li "matryoshka" hauv paus ntsiab lus.
Thawj, qhov tob tshaj plaws thiab tsawg tshaj plaws mobile txheej yog biogenic. Qhov no yog peb lub hauv paus genetic moj khaum, uas txhua yam yog tuned. Cia peb hais yog tias peb lub hlwb tsis zoo txais dopamine, peb xav tau kev txhawb nqa ntxiv. Yog li ntawd - kev ntxhov siab, nqhis dej rau qhov tshiab thiab kev pheej hmoo.
Thoob plaws hauv lub neej, peb muaj kev kub ntxhov, kawm kom kov yeej cov teeb meem thiab kev poob, hloov kev taw qhia thiab qhov tseem ceeb
Cov txheej tom ntej yog sociogenic. Nws yog zoo li tus kab lis kev cai thiab upbringing. Cov neeg sib txawv, nyob rau hauv ntau txoj kev sib raug zoo, cov neeg ua raws li kev cai dab qhuas sib txawv muaj lawv tus kheej lub tswv yim hais txog yam uas tsim nyog, tsim nyog thiab tsis lees txais. Cov txheej txheem sociogenic pab peb taug kev hauv ib puag ncig uas paub txog peb, nyeem cov cim thiab tsis txhob ua yuam kev.
Qhov thib peb, txheej txheej, Brian Little hu ua ideogenic. Nws suav nrog txhua yam uas ua rau peb tshwj xeeb — cov tswv yim, qhov tseem ceeb thiab cov cai uas peb tau tsim los rau peb tus kheej thiab peb ua raws li lub neej.
Cov peev txheej rau kev hloov pauv
Kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov khaubncaws sab nraud povtseg no tsis yog ib txwm (thiab tsis tas yuav) sib haum xeeb. Hauv kev xyaum, qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb sab hauv. Brian Little hais ib qho piv txwv hais tias "Kev nyiam lom zem rau kev coj noj coj ua thiab kev tawv ncauj tuaj yeem cuam tshuam nrog kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev coj ua thiab kev hwm rau cov txwj laus,"
Yog li ntawd, tej zaum, feem coob thiaj li npau suav ntawm kev khiav tawm ntawm tsev neeg saib xyuas. yog lub sijhawm tos ntev los hloov kho cov txheej txheem sociogenic superstructure rau lub hauv paus biogenic, kom tau txais kev ncaj ncees sab hauv. Thiab qhov no yog qhov uas peb muaj tswv yim "Kuv" los pab peb.
Peb yuav tsum tsis txhob qhia peb tus kheej nrog ib tus cwj pwm zoo, hais tias tus kws kho mob hlwb. Yog tias koj tsuas yog siv ib qho kev coj cwj pwm (piv txwv li, introverted) rau txhua qhov xwm txheej, koj nqaim koj qhov kev muaj peev xwm. Cia peb hais tias koj tuaj yeem tsis kam hais lus rau pej xeem vim koj xav tias nws yog "tsis yog koj li" thiab koj zoo dua ntawm kev ua haujlwm ntsiag to.
Peb tus cwj pwm tus cwj pwm yog hloov tau
Koom nrog peb ideogenic sphere, peb tig mus rau tus kheej cov yam ntxwv uas tuaj yeem hloov pauv. Yog lawm, yog tias koj yog ib tus neeg introvert, nws tsis zoo li tias tib qho kev cuam tshuam tshwm sim hauv koj lub hlwb li extrovert thaum koj txiav txim siab ua kom paub ntau li ntau tau ntawm ib tog neeg. Tab sis koj tseem tuaj yeem ua tiav lub hom phiaj no yog tias nws tseem ceeb rau koj.
Tau kawg, peb yuav tsum coj mus rau hauv tus account peb cov kev txwv. Lub luag haujlwm yog suav koj lub zog kom tsis txhob yuam kev. Raws li Brian Little, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum tau muab sijhawm rau koj tus kheej kom so thiab rov ua kom rov zoo, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum koj ua ib yam dab tsi txawv txawv rau koj. Nrog kev pab los ntawm xws li "qhov chaw nres tsheb" (nws tuaj yeem yog thaum sawv ntxov dhia hauv ntsiag to, mloog koj cov nkauj nyiam lossis tham nrog tus neeg hlub), peb muab peb tus kheej so thiab txhim kho lub zog rau cov neeg tshiab.
Es tsis txhob hloov peb lub siab nyiam rau kev tsim kho ntawm peb "hom", peb tuaj yeem nrhiav cov peev txheej rau lawv txoj kev paub hauv peb tus kheej.
Saib ntxiv tom Kev tshawb fawb ntawm peb.