PSYchology

Client: Kuv tus ntxhais, nws muaj 16 xyoo. "Yuav tsum tau tham"

Thov: “Peb tsib leeg yog phooj ywg. Ntawm peb yog ib tug ntxhais uas tsis muaj nuj nqis rau peb kev phooj ywg. Txhua leej txhua tus tau npau taws los ntawm nws, tshem tawm nws ntawm cov phooj ywg nyob rau hauv kev sib cuag. Kuv yuav ua li cas kom kuv cov phooj ywg nrog nws sib raug zoo?” Kev txhawb siab ntawm sab ntsuj plig, kub qhov muag. Txaus siab tham thiab txiav txim siab ib qho tseem ceeb.

Kuv tabtom piav qhia qhov kev thov: “Nws txhais li cas tias nws tsis muaj nuj nqis rau kev phooj ywg? Vim li cas koj xav tias koj yuav tsum sib haum xeeb rau lawv?»

- Nws muaj lwm tus phooj ywg - ib lub tuam txhab txawv. Nws siv sijhawm ntau nrog lawv. Nws tsis ua raws li nws tej lus: nws qhia peb tias nws yuav nrog peb mus, ces nws tsis kam nrog nkawd mus. Vim li cas kuv thiaj xav sib haum xeeb? Nws tus kheej nug kuv, vim ua ntej kuv ib txwm nrog nws nrog lawv sib raug zoo, tab sis lub sij hawm no kuv tus kheej tau chim rau nws, tsis sib haum. Tab sis kuv tsis tau rho tawm ntawm Cov Phooj Ywg Hauv Kev Sib Txuas.

Koj puas xav tias nws txhawj xeeb txog qhov no?

Tswv yim. Yog tias tus kws pab tswv yim xav nug seb tus phooj ywg puas muaj kev txaus siab tiag tiag lossis xav kom muaj kev phooj ywg, uas yog, txog kev txaus siab los ua, cov lus nug yuav yog qhov zoo. Lo lus nug ntawm kev xav yog ib lo lus nug rau hauv qhov khoob.

- Kev txhawj xeeb, tab sis tsis heev. Nws muaj lwm lub tuam txhab. N. txhawj xeeb dua vim nws nyiam nws. Nws yog thawj tus uas rho tawm nws ntawm Kev Tiv Thaiv.

— Lwm tus xav li cas txog nws?

Tswv yim. Cov lus nug yog dab tsi thiab yog vim li cas? Koj tuaj yeem tham txog kev xav tau ntev. Ib lo lus nug uas tsim nyog yuav yog: nws puas muaj tseeb los kho lawv? Tus ntxhais pom lub cib fim twg rau qhov no?

“Lawv txhawb nws. Thiab tam sim ntawd tom qab nws, lawv tshem nws ntawm cov phooj ywg. Tab sis kuv yuav tsis rho tawm lawm. Peb tseem tham nrog nws. Yog tias peb tsis sib txuas lus ntev, tej zaum kuv yuav rho tawm.

Zoo, tsis txhob rho tawm nws. Lwm tus xav li cas txog nws?

—Zoo. Kuv xav tias lawv tab tom tos kuv los kho lawv.

- Koj puas xav tau nws?

Tswv yim. Tus ntxhais xav ua ib yam dab tsi, nws nquag, vim li cas yuav tsum tau tua? Tsis txhob tham txog "vim li cas koj xav tau qhov no," nws yog qhov zoo dua los muab ib txoj kev npaj rau kev sib haum xeeb rau lawv. Ntsib ib tug phooj ywg, qhia rau nws paub vim li cas nws npau taws, tham txog seb nws puas npaj kho cov phooj ywg zoo dua, thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog - yog tias koj pom zoo ntsib, ces tuaj, tsis txhob dynamize koj cov phooj ywg ... Nws yog qhov zoo dua ua thiab hloov siab lees txim dua. tsis txhob ua thiab hloov siab lees txim. Zoo dua los sim thiab kawm dua li tsis ua dab tsi thiab xav.

Yog li kuv tsis sib cav nrog nws. Kuv tsis nyiam tias nws tsis khaws nws cov lus, tab sis nws tuaj yeem ua phooj ywg nrog leej twg. Thiab kuv tsuas yog yuav tsis cia siab rau nws cov lus cog tseg thiab tag nrho. Yog tias nws ua haujlwm - zoo, yog tias nws tsis ua haujlwm - nws tsis tsim nyog.

- Yog tias koj tsis cog lus, N. tsis xav tso, nws tsis ua thawj kauj ruam, yog vim li cas koj xav tau nws? Koj puas xav kom lawv sib haum xeeb tiag tiag? Tej zaum ib yam dab tsi tshwm sim ntawm lawv uas koj tsis paub txog? Tab sis koj yog phooj ywg, tham nrog txhua tus, nrhiav seb lawv tab tom tos, nws ua rau lawv mob hnyav npaum li cas. Yog tias lawv tsis xav tso tseg, tawm txhua yam raws li nws yog - txuas ntxiv kev sib txuas lus zoo li yav dhau los, yog tias nws xav ua thawj kauj ruam lossis tsawg kawg qhia qee qhov kev ntshaw hauv qhov kev coj no - pab nws. Yog tias tsis yog, lub sijhawm yuav muab txhua yam hauv nws qhov chaw. Koj tsis tuaj yeem tsa nws, nws twb muaj 16…

— Mloog…

Tswv yim. Nws muab tawm - emptiness. Kev txaus siab ploj mus, cov lus qhia hauv lub neej tsis tau kawm. Nws yog qhov ua tau thiab tsim nyog kom nkag siab txog kev xav thaum nws tsis tuaj yeem muab ib yam dab tsi ntawm qib kev ua. Lub sijhawm no, koj tuaj yeem tsom mus rau kev ua, tham txog kev ua, kev ua, kev ua!

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