Serendipity: yuav ua li cas thiaj nyiam hmoov zoo?

Qee tus ntseeg hauv koob hmoov thiab ua raws li cov txheej txheem nyuaj ntawm kev cai thiab kev coj ua kom nyiam thiab khaws cia. Ib tug neeg, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, ntseeg tsuas yog nyob rau hauv cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev mob siab rau, thiab suav tias hmoov zoo yog kev ntseeg. Tab sis kuj muaj peb txoj hauv kev. Nws cov neeg txhawb nqa ntseeg tias hmoov tsis muaj nyob ua ib qho kev ywj pheej, cais tawm ntawm peb. Lub ntsiab lus yog nyob rau hauv peb tus kheej: thaum peb lub hom phiaj xav txog ib yam dab tsi, txhua yam uas yog consonant nrog peb txoj kev xav, nws tus kheej poob rau hauv peb lub zeem muag. Lub tswv yim ntawm serendipity yog raws li qhov no.

Lo lus nws tus kheej tau tsim nyob rau xyoo pua XNUMX los ntawm Horace Walpool. Sylvie Satellan, tus kws tshawb fawb txog kab lis kev cai thiab tus kws sau ntawv Serendipity - Los ntawm Fairy Tale rau lub tswv yim hais tias "Nws siv nws los piav txog kev kos duab ntawm kev tshawb pom uas pub rau nws tus kheej," "Lub npe yog los ntawm zaj dab neeg "Peb Tus Tub Vaj Ntxwv ntawm Serendip," uas peb cov kwv tij tuaj yeem piav qhia txog cov cim ntawm tus ntxhuav ploj los ntawm ib tus hneev taw me me ua tsaug rau lawv qhov kev pom."

Yuav ua li cas thiaj paub tus muaj hmoo

Peb txhua tus tau muaj xwm txheej hauv peb lub neej thaum muaj hmoo tig los ntsib peb. Tab sis peb puas tuaj yeem hais tias hmoov zoo rau peb ib txhia ntau dua li lwm tus? "Kev tshawb fawb los ntawm University of Hertfordshire hauv tebchaws Askiv tau qhia txog cov yam ntxwv uas yog tus yam ntxwv ntawm "cov neeg muaj hmoo," hais tias Eric Tieri, tus sau phau ntawv Me Me ntawm Kev Muaj hmoo.

Nov yog qhov ua rau cov neeg no txawv:

• Lawv nyiam lees txais qhov tshwm sim rau lawv raws li kev kawm paub thiab pom tib neeg thiab cov xwm txheej ua lub sijhawm rau kev loj hlob.

• Lawv mloog lawv qhov kev xav thiab ua yam tsis muaj ncua sijhawm.

• Lawv yog cov optimists thiab yeej tsis tso tseg qhov lawv pib, txawm tias txoj kev vam meej me me.

• Lawv tuaj yeem hloov pauv tau thiab kawm los ntawm lawv qhov yuam kev.

5 Tus yuam sij rau Serendipity

Qhia koj lub hom phiaj

Txhawm rau teeb tsa lub radar sab hauv, koj yuav tsum tau teeb tsa koj tus kheej lub hom phiaj meej lossis tsom mus rau qhov kev ntshaw tshwj xeeb: nrhiav koj txoj hauv kev, ntsib "koj" tus neeg, tau txais txoj haujlwm tshiab ... cov ntaub ntawv raug, peb yuav pib pom tias cov neeg raug thiab cov kev xaiv nyob ze. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tsis txhob kaw koj tus kheej tawm ntawm txhua yam "tsis cuam tshuam": qee zaum cov tswv yim zoo tshaj plaws tuaj "los ntawm lub qhov rooj rov qab."

Qhib rau qhov tshiab

Txhawm rau pom cov cib fim zoo, koj yuav tsum ua kom koj lub siab qhib. Ua li no, koj yuav tsum tau thawb koj tus kheej mus tas li tawm ntawm lub voj voog ib txwm muaj thiab cov ntsiab lus, nug cov kev ntseeg uas txwv peb. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj tab tom ntsib teeb meem, tsis txhob ntshai rov qab los, saib nws los ntawm lwm lub kaum sab xis, txhawm rau nthuav dav ntawm qhov muaj peev xwm. Qee zaum, kom tawm ntawm qhov tsis txaus ntseeg, koj yuav tsum muab qhov xwm txheej no rau hauv cov ntsiab lus sib txawv thiab paub txog qhov txwv ntawm koj lub hwj chim tshaj nws.

Cia siab rau koj qhov kev xav

Peb sim txwv qhov kev xav hauv lub npe ntawm kev ua yeeb yam. Qhov no ua rau peb nco cov ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb thiab tsis pom cov lus zais. Txhawm rau rov qab sib cuag nrog intuition txhais tau tias lees txais cov khawv koob uas nyob ib puag ncig peb, kom pom qhov txawv tshaj plaw hauv qhov qub. Xyaum ua kom lub siab xav xav - nws pab koj kho koj tus kheej cov kev xav thiab ua kom koj cov kev xav.

Tsis txhob poob rau hauv kev tuag

Muaj ib tug laus Japanese hais tias nws yog pointless mus tua ib tug xub yam tsis muaj lub hom phiaj, tab sis nws kuj yog tsis txawj ntse siv tag nrho cov xub ntawm ib lub hom phiaj. Yog tias peb ua tsis tiav, peb tsuas kaw ib lub sijhawm rau peb tus kheej xwb. Tab sis yog tias peb tsis khaws peb lub zog thiab tsis saib ib puag ncig ib ntus, kev ua tsis tiav tuaj yeem ua rau peb tsis muaj zog thiab ua rau peb lub siab nyiam.

Tsis txhob txaj muag ntawm koob hmoov

Txawm hais tias peb tsis tuaj yeem kwv yees thaum twg peb lub sijhawm yuav los, peb tuaj yeem tsim cov xwm txheej rau nws tshwm sim. Cia koj tus kheej tso tseg, lees txais qhov tshwm sim rau koj, nyob rau lub sijhawm tam sim no, tos qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb. Es tsis txhob tawm tsam, yuam koj tus kheej los yog obsessing tshaj ib yam dab tsi, saib lub ntiaj teb nrog qhib qhov muag thiab xav.