"Ntawm no, cov menyuam yaus tsis tau hais kom ua zoo."
"Koj puas tuaj yeem ua kuv ncuav mog qab zib rau 80 tus menyuam?" “, Kuv nug ib tug neeg ua mov ci. Hauv Ixayees, koj kawm qhia ntxov heev. Rau hnub yug ntawm peb cov menyuam, peb caw tag nrho lawv cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm (feem ntau, lawv muaj 40), uas feem ntau tuaj nrog lawv cov kwv tij thiab cov muam, lossis cov neeg nyob ze. Cov niam Israeli ib txwm yuav ob npaug ntawm cov zais pa thiab cov phaj yas, thiab feem ntau ci ncuav ib tuj!
Kuv tus menyuam ntxaib, Palma thiab Onyx yug hauv Paris tsib lub lis piam ua ntej. Lawv me me (tsawg dua 2 kg), thiab ib tug ntawm lawv tsis ua pa. Tam sim ntawd tom qab yug me nyuam, lawv raug xa mus rau lwm lub tsev kho mob. Nws tshwm sim sai heev uas tsis muaj leej twg piav dab tsi rau kuv. Nyob rau hauv cov neeg Ixayees, tus niam hluas yog ib puag ncig: midwives, kws kho mob thiab doulas (poj niam nrog niam thaum cev xeeb tub) nyob ntawd los mloog nws.
Hauv Ixayees, cov chaw zov me nyuam yog kim heev, qee zaum txog li € 1 ib hlis.
Txhua tsev neeg muaj nws cov zaub mov txawv thiab kev kho mob, tsis muaj ib qho kev khiav hauj lwm hom. Piv txwv li, Ashkenazim, los ntawm Eastern European lub teb chaws, tsis kho lawv cov me nyuam ib yam li cov Sephardim, los ntawm North Africa. Thawj zaug yuav muab ib rab diav ntawm cov cawv muaj zog nrog qab zib rau mob plab (txawm rau cov menyuam yaus), lwm tus, ib diav ntawm txiv roj roj tiv thaiv hnoos.
Pediatricians qhia peb kom pib noj zaub mov txawv nrog ib yam khoom qab zib (xws li applesauce). Kuv, kuv pib nrog zaub, ib txwm organic thiab raws caij nyoog. Thaum muaj ib xyoos, kuv cov ntxhais twb tau noj txhua yam, txawm tias hummus. Lub sij hawm noj mov tsis tas. Feem ntau nyob ib ncig ntawm 10 teev sawv ntxov, cov menyuam yaus noj "aruchat esser" (khoom noj txom ncauj) thiab tom qab noj su hauv tsev. Rau lub sijhawm so, nws hloov tau yooj yim heev. Cov menyuam mos pw thaum tav su, tab sis txij li qib kindergarten mus, lawv tsis tsaug zog lawm. Nws hloov los ntawm huab cua zoo. Cov tsev laus yeej tsis pub dawb, cov chaw ntiav ntiav tuaj yeem raug nqi sib npaug ntawm € 1 ib hlis. Thiab peb tau txais kev pab me me.
Ntawm cov Ashkenazim, thaum ib tug me nyuam muaj mob plab, lawv tau muab ib diav ntawm cov cawv muaj zog. Ntawm Sephardim, ib diav ntawm txiv roj roj tiv thaiv hnoos…
Pacifiers thiab cov khoom ua si muag muag tsis tshua muaj, peb cov menyuam muaj 4 xyoos tau kawm ua dab tsi thaum muaj kev tawm tsam. Qee leej niam yeej ib txwm ceeb toom, Kuv so ntau dua los ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Ib tug phooj ywg ntawm kuv, thaum lub sij hawm tsis sib haum xeeb kawg, tsuas yog rov qab los qhov twg nws yooj yim mus nkaum nrog ib tug stroller. Nyob ntawd, koj kawm ceev nrooj tsis txhob ntshai thiab ua tib zoo mloog. Qhov kev ntshai loj tshaj plaws ntawm cov niam Israeli yog cov tub rog (ib leej niam leej twg hais tias nws zoo siab xa nws cov menyuam mus ua rog dag!).
Tib lub sijhawm, cov menyuam yaus hauv tebchaws Ixayees muaj kev ywj pheej ntau : Thaum muaj hnub nyoog 4 xyoos, lawv mus kawm ntawv lawv tus kheej lossis mus rau lawv cov phooj ywg cov tsev tsis nrog. Thaum ntxov heev, lawv muaj ntau cov lus teb rau cov neeg laus. Nws feem ntau yog txhais yuam kev thiab peb pom lawv coj tsis zoo. Tab sis peb tsis muaj tib yam kev coj ncaj ncees, cov menyuam yaus tsis tas yuav hais "ua tsaug" rau txhua yam. Kuv cov ntxhais ua lawv lub neej, kuv cia lawv nrhiav tau lub ntiaj teb no. Qee zaum lawv tsis tuaj yeem tiv taus, tab sis kuv pom lawv ua tiav thiab zoo siab! Hauv Fab Kis, kuv hnov cov niam txiv hais tias: “Koj hais lus dag, tso tseg tam sim ntawd! Cov Yixayee cia nws plam yooj yim dua. Tej zaum kuv kuj taw tes rau kuv laxity, tab sis tsuas yog hais tias nyob rau hauv kuv lub teb chaws, peb tsis xav tias tus me nyuam yog ntse los yog tsis. Tsis muaj tseeb yog ib feem ntawm menyuam yaus. Ntawm qhov tod tes, txhua tus mus rau qhov ntawd rau lawv cov lus qhia. Tib neeg muaj kev xav txog txhua yam thiab tsis yig los muab nws. Kuv xav tias nws yog vim muaj, muaj kev nkag siab zoo ntawm zej zog, zoo li peb koom nrog ib tsev neeg loj heev.
Thaum kuv cov ntxhais kub taub hau, kuv muab lawv cov thom khwm tso rau hauv vinegar thiab muab tso rau ntawm lawv txhais taw. Nws yog super npaum!