txheem
Kev npau taws, ntshai, kev xyiv fab, kev zoo siab… Cov me nyuam yog lub siab lub ntsws! Thiab qee zaum, peb xav tias lawv cia lawv tus kheej dhau los ntawm qhov dej ntws no. Catherine Aimelet-Périssol *, kws kho mob thiab kws kho mob hlwb, pab peb tso lus ntawm cov xwm txheej muaj kev ntxhov siab… thiab muab cov kev daws teeb meem rau kev noj qab haus huv ntawm cov menyuam yaus, nrog rau cov niam txiv!
Nws tsis xav pw ib leeg hauv nws chav
>>Nws ntshai monsters…
DECRYPTION. “Tus menyuam nrhiav kev nyab xeeb. Txawm li cas los xij, nws chav pw tuaj yeem dhau los ua qhov chaw tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb yog tias nws tau muaj kev tsis zoo nyob rau ntawd, muaj kev npau suav phem nyob ntawd… Nws xav tias tsis muaj kev cia siab thiab nrhiav pom tus neeg laus nyob, ", piav qhia Catherine Aimelet-Périssol *. Qhov no yog vim li cas nws fantasies overflow: nws ntshai hma, nws ntshai ntawm qhov tsaus ntuj… Tag nrho cov no yog ntuj thiab aims kom nyiam cov niam txiv kom reassured.
Tswv yim: Lub luag haujlwm ntawm niam txiv yog mloog qhov kev ntshai no, qhov kev ntshaw rau kev nyab xeeb. Tus kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws qhia kom rov ua kom tus me nyuam los ntawm kev qhia nws tias txhua yam raug kaw. Yog tias tsis txaus, nrog nws mus kom nws tus kheej teb rau nws qhov kev xav tau kev nyab xeeb. Nug nws, piv txwv li, nws yuav ua li cas yog tias nws pom dab. Yog li nws yuav nrhiav txoj hauv kev los "tiv thaiv nws tus kheej". Nws txoj kev xav zoo nkauj yuav tsum yog ntawm nws qhov kev pabcuam. Nws yuav tsum kawm siv nws los nrhiav kev daws teeb meem.
Koj txwv tsis pub nws pom daim duab tas lauv
> > Nws npau taws
DECRYPTION. Tom qab kev npau taws, Catherine Aimelet-Périssol piav qhia tias tus menyuam muaj siab tshaj txhua yam kev ntshaw rau kev lees paub: "Nws hais rau nws tus kheej tias yog nws tau txais qhov nws xav tau, nws yuav raug lees paub tias yog ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm subordination nrog nws niam nws txiv. Nws vam khom rau lawv kom paub txog ”. Tus me nyuam tau qhia txog kev xav saib cov duab tas luav vim nws xav tau, tab sis kuj yog rau nws txoj kev xav kom paub.
Tswv yim: Koj tuaj yeem hais rau nws tias, “Kuv pom tias daim duab no tseem ceeb npaum li cas rau koj. Kuv paub tias koj npau taws npaum li cas. » Tab sis tus kws tshaj lij hais txog qhov tseeb tias peb yuav tsum ua raws li txoj cai : tsis muaj cartoon. Tham nrog nws qhia rau koj paub tias nws hlub npaum li cas txog zaj movie no. Yog li nws muaj peev xwm qhia tau nws saj, nws rhiab heev. Koj hijack txoj kev uas nws pom kom paub (saib cov tas luav), tab sis koj coj mus rau hauv tus account qhov xav tau kev lees paub ntawm tus me nyuam, thiab nws soothes nws.
Koj tau npaj mus ncig ua si nrog koj cov kwv tij txheeb ze
>>Nws tawg nrog kev xyiv fab
DECRYPTION. Kev xyiv fab yog ib qho kev xav zoo. Raws li tus kws tshaj lij, rau tus menyuam, nws yog hom khoom plig tag nrho. “Nws qhov kev tshwm sim tuaj yeem dhau los. Ib yam li tus neeg laus luag, nws tsis tuaj yeem piav qhia, tab sis qhov kev xav no nyob ntawd. Peb tsis tswj peb txoj kev xav, peb ua neej nyob. Lawv yog cov ntuj tsim thiab yuav tsum muaj peev xwm qhia lawv tus kheej, " piav qhia Catherine Aimelet-Périssol.
Tswv yim: Nws yuav nyuaj rau tiv thaiv qhov dej ntws. Tab sis tus kws tshaj lij tshaj tawm los tawm tsam tus menyuam yaus ntawm qhov nugget uas ua rau nws muaj kev xyiv fab thiab piques peb xav paub. Nug nws seb dab tsi ua rau nws zoo siab tiag tiag. Puas yog qhov pom nws cov kwv tij? Mus rau lub zoo? Vim li cas? Tsom ntsoov rau qhov laj thawj. Yog li koj yuav coj nws mus qhia, rau npe, dab tsi yog qhov txaus siab rau nws. Nws yuav txheeb xyuas nws txoj kev xav thiab tso siab rau thaum tham.
"Ib txoj kev zoo rau kuv tus tub kom ua siab ntev"
Thaum Ilies pissed tawm, nws stutters. Txhawm rau kom nws siab, tus kws kho mob hais lus tau pom zoo siv cov txheej txheem "rag Doll". Nws yuav tsum squat, ces nyem nws ob txhais ceg nyuaj, rau 3 feeb, thiab so kom txaus. Ua haujlwm txhua lub sijhawm! Tom qab ntawd, nws tau so thiab tuaj yeem qhia nws tus kheej kom zoo. ”
Noureddine, leej txiv ntawm Ilies, 5 xyoo.
Nws tus dev tuag lawm
> > Nws tu siab
DECRYPTION. Nrog kev tuag ntawm nws tus tsiaj, tus me nyuam kawm kev tu siab thiab kev sib cais. “Kev tu siab kuj yog vim muaj kev xav tsis thoob. Nws tsis tuaj yeem ua dab tsi tawm tsam nws tus dev tuag, "hais Catherine Aimelet-Périssol.
Tswv yim: Peb yuav tsum nrog nws nyob hauv nws txoj kev tu siab. Rau qhov ntawd, nplij nws los puag thiab puag nws. “Cov lus yog khoob khoob. Nws yuav tsum hnov qhov kev sib cuag ntawm lub cev ntawm cov neeg nws hlub, kom muaj sia nyob txawm tias nws tus dev tuag, "tus kws tshaj lij ntxiv. Koj tuaj yeem xav ua ke txog yam koj yuav ua nrog tus dev ua lag luam, tham txog qhov nco koj nrog nws… Lub tswv yim yog pab tus menyuam pom tias nws muaj peev xwm ua rau kev sib ntaus. nws txoj kev pab tsis tau.
Nws nyob hauv nws lub ces kaum ntawm nws lub tsev hais plaub ntaus pob tesniv
> > Nws ntshai
DECRYPTION. “Tus menyuam tsis txaus siab kom ntshai thaum ntsib qhov xwm txheej tiag. Nws txoj kev xav tau qhib thiab siv sijhawm. Nws xav tias lwm tus neeg phem. Nws muaj ib tug devalued sawv cev ntawm nws tus kheej, "hais tias psychotherapist. Nws yog li ntawd xav tias lwm tus muaj lub siab xav phem, yog li nws kaw nws tus kheej hauv nws txoj kev ntseeg. Nws kuj ua xyem xyav nws tus kheej muaj nqis rau lwm tus thiab ntshai ua rau nws tuag tes tuag taw.
Tswv yim: Tus kws kho mob ceeb toom tias "Koj tsis txhob hloov tus me nyuam txaj muag mus rau hauv tus me nyuam extroverted uas ua rau tag nrho lub koom txoos luag," “Koj yuav tsum tau sib haum xeeb nrog nws txoj kev ua. Nws txoj kev txaj muag tso cai rau nws siv nws lub sijhawm los txheeb xyuas lwm tus. Nws kev txiav txim siab, nws qhov chaw rov qab yog tus nqi tiag tiag thiab. Koj tsis tas yuav sim tawm ntawm nws. Txawm li cas los xij, nws tuaj yeem txwv koj qhov kev cia siab los ntawm kev mus rau koj tus kheej mus rau tus kws qhia lossis tus menyuam, piv txwv li. Koj muab nws nrog lwm tus tham kom nws xis nyob. Cov nyhuv pab pawg tuaj yeem ua tau zoo. Koj tus menyuam yuav raug hem tsawg dua yog tias lawv ua siab ntev rau ib lossis ob tus menyuam yaus.
Nws tsis raug caw tuaj koom Jules lub hnub yug
> > Nws poob siab
DECRYPTION. Nws yog ib qho kev xav ze heev rau kev tu siab, tab sis kuj rau kev npau taws. Rau tus me nyuam, tsis tau caw los ntawm nws tus hluas nraug yog tsis tau lees paub, hlub. Nws qhia nws tus kheej tias nws tsis txaus siab thiab tuaj yeem ntsib nws raws li kev tsis lees paub.
Tswv yim: Raws li tus kws tshaj lij, nws yuav tsum tau lees paub tias nws xav tau qee yam ntawm tus nqi. Nug nws txog nws qhov kev ntseeg: “Tej zaum koj xav tias nws tsis hlub koj lawm? » Nug seb puas muaj tej yam koj ua tau los pab nws. Nco ntsoov tias nws tus hluas nraug tsis tuaj yeem caw txhua tus mus rau nws lub hnub yug, uas nws yuav tsum xaiv. Ib yam li koj tus menyuam thaum nws caw phooj ywg. Qhov no yuav pab nws nkag siab tias kuj tseem muaj cov txheej txheem uas piav qhia tias yog vim li cas nws thiaj tsis raug caw, vim li cas thiaj tsis muaj kev xav. Hloov nws lub siab thiab nco nws txog nws qhov zoo.
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