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Christmas: ntau yam khoom plig rau peb cov menyuam?
Zoo li txhua xyoo ntawm Christmas, Fabkis yuav siv nyiaj feem ntau rau lawv cov menyuam. Raws li kev tshawb fawb TNS Sofres, cov niam txiv tau hais tias lawv cov menyuam yaus yuav tau txais qhov khoom plig nruab nrab ntawm 3,6. Hauv kev xyaum, cov tsev neeg yuav npaj lawv tus kheej los ntawm kev tsim ib daim ntawv teev npe tiav nrog cov kev xav tau ntawm cov menyuam yaus.“Rau kuv, rau kuv ob tug menyuam, ib daim ntawv teev npe tau npaj. Feem ntau lawv txiav tawm cov catalogs thiab lo lawv cov tswv yim ntawm ib daim ntawv zoo. tias lawv xa mus rau Santa Claus. Yog tsev neeg nug kuv tias dab tsi yuav ua rau lawv zoo siab, kuv qhia lawv hauv daim ntawv teev npe no. Lawv tau txais ib qho khoom plig los ntawm txhua tus, piv txwv li nyob ib ncig ntawm 5 txog 6 khoom plig rau txhua tus ", ua tim khawv Juliette, leej niam ntawm ob tug me nyuam hnub nyoog 3 thiab 5. Psychologist Monique de Kermadec lees tias, tseeb, ntawm Christmas, kev pauv khoom plig hauv tsev neeg yog ib feem ntawm kev lig kev cai."Nyob hauv ntau tsev neeg, cov npe tau raug coj los ua kev yuav khoom yooj yim dua, kom paub tseeb tias thov thiab tsis txhob poob siab.", qhia txog tus kws kho mob hlwb. Hauv qee pawg neeg, cov menyuam yaus xaus nrog kaum tsib lossis nees nkaum khoom plig.
Khoom plig los ntawm lub kaum os
Hauv kev xyaum, cov niam txiv cia daim ntawv teev npe mus, tsis tas nug ntau lo lus nug. Cov me nyuam yuav tau txais khoom plig ntau npaum li muaj neeg tuaj, lossis tsis yog rau lub Kaum Ob Hlis 24. “Kuv tus tub tau txais khoom plig ntawm 15 txog 20, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws pog yawg tuaj rau lub sijhawm. Tom qab ntawd, cov khoom plig tau txais thaum Christmas pab nws txhua xyoo. Ntxiv mus, nws nrhiav tau cov khoom ua si tshiab lub hlis tom qab lub Kaum Ob Hlis 25, ”piav Eve, leej niam ntawm ib tug me nyuam tub 5 thiab ib nrab xyoo. Tib zaj dab neeg rau Pierre, leej txiv ntawm me ntsis Amandine, 3 xyoos. “Nrog leej niam, peb ua hauj lwm los ntawm cov npe rau Christmas. Peb xa mus rau cov neeg hauv tsev neeg ntawm ob sab, uas peb xav tias peb tus ntxhais xav tau. Thiab nws muaj tseeb, nws xaus nrog txog kaum tsib khoom plig rau Christmas Eve, feem ntau yog ib tus neeg. Nws zoo li ntawd. Nws tsom mus rau ib qho khoom ua si, tsis tas yuav yog qhov loj tshaj plaws, rau thawj ob peb hnub. Thaum lub caij Christmas, peb txhawb kom nws ua si nrog txhua yam khoom ua si ”.
Rau Monique de Kermadec, kws kho mob hlwb, qhov tseem ceeb yog muab kev zoo siab yam tsis suav. “Yuav tsis muaj txoj cai nyuaj thiab nrawm. Qee tsev neeg muaj ntau dua li lwm tus, qee leej muaj peev nyiaj ntau dua, "nws piav qhia. Qee leej niam txawm xaiv tshaj tawm cov npe khoom plig rau ntawm lub vev xaib kev koom tes. "Kuv tau ua ib daim ntawv teev npe ntawm mesenvies.com rau kuv ob tug me nyuam. Tom qab ntawd, txhua tus tswv cuab ntawm tsev neeg xaiv ib lossis ntau lub txiaj ntsim, kom lawv paub tseeb tias lub hom phiaj yog thiab muaj qee yam rau txhua tus. Cov npe hloov tshiab zuj zus. Tab sis ntawm chav kawm lawv yog heev lwj! », Piav Claire, niam txiv hauv Facebook.
Vim li cas cov roob khoom plig no?
Monique de Kermadec hais tias "Nws zoo li nyuaj rau muab cov khoom plig tsim nyog rau ib tus menyuam yaus," Txawm li cas los xij, nws taw rau qhov khoom plig overabundance.“Cov niam txiv los ntawm kev ua qhov no zoo li xav qhia lawv txoj kev hlub npaum li cas. Tus menyuam koom nrog qhov khoom plig, cov khoom yuav khoom nrog cov cim ntawm kev hlub », qhia meej txog tus kws kho mob hlwb. “Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas cov niam txiv piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias cov khoom plig thiab tus nqi tsis yog pov thawj ntawm lawv txoj kev hlub. Txhua tsev neeg muaj nws cov kab lig kev cai thiab nws tus kheej txhais tau tias. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum hais komqhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev hlub, lub xub ntiag ntawm tsev neeg thiab lub sij hawm sib koom ua ke », piav qhia tus kws tshaj lij. Nws kuj yog qhov kev soj ntsuam ntawm lwm tus niam, Geraldine, uas yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws xav kom nws cov menyuam tau txais kev xav tsis thoob thiab hais tias lawv suav nrog tus nqi ntawm cov khoom. “Kuv muaj ob tug ntxhais hnub nyoog 8 thiab 11. Ob leeg ua ib lub npe zoo rau Santa Claus. Peb nyeem nws ua ke thiab kuv tso cai rau kuv tus kheej hais lus los xaiv thawj zaug, los ntawm kev hais tias, "tej zaum", Santa yuav tsis muaj peev xwm nqa tau ntau yam khoom plig. Nrog kuv tus txiv, peb muab cov npe rau hauv tus account thiab tib lub sijhawm peb muab khoom plig uas tsis nyob ntawm nws. Cov surprises no yuav tsum txaus siab rau lawv. Ntxiv rau, peb xav kom lawv nkag siab txog tus nqi ntawm cov khoom thiab peb tsis xav kom lawv lwj. Peb xav kom lawv txaus siab rau txhua qhov khoom plig thiab ua si nws ntau li ntau tau ”, qhia meej tus niam.
Qhov no kuj yog qhov kev xav ntawm psychologist: « Mloog koj tus me nyuam thaum lub xyoo, lub hli ua ntej hnub so. Sau qhov nws zoo li xav tau, tsis txhob maj mus yuav nws. Ib txwm tsim nyog thiab coj tsev neeg cov peev nyiaj mus rau hauv tus account », Nws qhia. Nws pom zoo kom xaiv me me kov lossis trinkets, ua kom tiav qhov khoom plig loj dua.
“Txhua tsev neeg muaj nws cov kab lig kev cai thiab nws tus kheej txhais tau tias. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum hais kom qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev hlub, muaj tsev neeg thiab lub sijhawm sib koom ua ke », Piav Monique de Kermadec, tus kws kho mob menyuam yaus.
Hla kev lig kev cai
Ua kom koj tus menyuam nkag siab tias Christmas tsis yog lub sijhawm yuav khoom ntau dhau, Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tau npaj tej yam me me nrog nws uas yuav ua rau nws zoo siab. “Ua khoom dai rau tsob ntoo Christmas nrog tus yau, khoom plig rau pog lossis phauj Isabelle, ci ncuav qab zib lossis ncuav qab zib. Koom nrog lawv sai li sai tau thiab qhia rau lawv paub txog kev muab thiab saib xyuas lwm tus, ”tus kws tshaj lij qhia. Tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws hais ntxiv tias cov niam txiv tuaj yeem “thov kom tus menyuam xaiv ib qho khoom plig me me uas yuav muab rau tus menyuam pluag. Qhov no tuaj yeem xaiv los ntawm cov khoom ua si qub uas tau muab tshem tawm tab sis nyob rau hauv qhov zoo, lossis muab los ntawm cov khoom plig tau txais ”.
La nyeem ntawvyog lwm lub sijhawm muaj cai uas peb tuaj yeem tham txog yam peb yuav muab rau Christmas. “Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem siv cov dab neeg lossis cov dab neeg los qhia cov lus tseem ceeb, tab sis kuj tseem qhia tau cov khawv koob ntawm festive moments thiab tsev neeg rov sib ntsib rau lawv cov menyuam ”Monique de Kermadec xaus lus.