Thaum nws los txog hauv tsev, tus menyuam dev sib cais los ntawm nws niam, nws cov nus muag thiab qhov chaw uas nws paub. Tus menyuam dev yuav hloov qhov txuas uas nws muaj rau nws niam rau koj. Yog li, koj qhov tsis tuaj yeem yog qhov kev ntxhov siab rau nws. Qhov kev ntxhov siab no yuav tshwm sim raws li menyuam dev quaj thaum hmo ntuj lossis quaj qw txhawm rau nrhiav koj lub tuam txhab thiab kev nplij siab.

Koj nyob rau theem ntawm kev kawm thiab kawm txog kev kho siab. Leej niam ib txwm pib tshem tawm cov menyuam dev ib puag ncig 4 lub hlis. Cov menyuam dev tau txais yuav cov hluas, koj yuav tsum ua haujlwm koj tus kheej thiab qee zaum ntxov, vim tias koj tsis nyob ntawd 24 teev nyob rau ib hnub hauv tsev. Peb tuaj yeem nkag siab yog vim li cas nws thiaj pom zoo kom saws tus menyuam dev ntawm 3 lub hlis.

Ua ntej sib cais nrog koj tus menyuam dev, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom paub tseeb kom tau raws li txhua qhov lawv xav tau: kev ua si, kev tawm dag zog lub cev, tawm mus sab nrauv, taug kev, ua kom muaj kev nyab xeeb thiab txaus siab rau qhov chaw pw, cov khoom ua si muaj los ntawm kev qaug zog, noj mov, thiab lwm yam.

Nws tag nrho pib ntawm thawj hmo nws siv ib leeg. Qhov kev sib cais no, txawm tias koj nyob hauv tib lub tsev, yog qhov ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab rau tus menyuam dev. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav tawv tawv thaum hmo ntuj, quaj thiab quaj kom hu koj. Ib tug menyuam dev quaj los yog dev squealing ua rau koj xav kom muaj kev ntseeg siab. ntau tsis quav ntsej nws kiag li thiab tsis teb nws cov lus. Tsis txhob mus ntsib nws lossis tham nrog nws. Yog tias koj muab rau, koj txhawb nws tus cwj pwm, thiab nws yuav txhawb nqa tias yog nws yws lossis yws koj yuav mus rau nws, uas yuav ua rau muaj kev tawm tsam ntau ntxiv thiab nws yuav tsis kawm kom nyob ib leeg. Ua siab ntev, tus menyuam dev yuav kawm sai.

Txawm nyuaj rau tus menyuam dev: koj tsis tuaj thaum nruab hnub. Peb yuav tau pab nws "de-dramatize" lub sijhawm no. Yog li, thaum koj tawm mus, tsis txhob tsim kev cai dab qhuas. Tus menyuam dev ceeb toom sai sai rau koj tus cwj pwm ua ntej tso nws, xws li hnav khaub ncaws, tuav tus yuam sij, lossis tsis zoo cov kab lus me me xws li "tsis txhob txhawj, Kuv yuav rov qab tam sim ntawd", lossis txawm tias khawm ntau dhau ua ntej nws. tawm. Qhov no tshaj tawm lub sijhawm ntshai ua ntej thiab ua rau nws ntxhov siab. Tsis quav ntsej 15 feeb ua ntej tawm mus, tom qab ntawd tawm sai sai, txawm tias koj xav hnav khaub ncaws sab nraud. Ib yam nkaus, thaum koj rov qab los, tsis quav ntsej tus menyuam dev kom txog thaum nws nqig. Koj tseem tuaj yeem tsim qhov pib tsis raug, ua rau tus dev tsis txaus siab rau koj qhov kev npaj ua ntej tawm mus (co cov yawm sij, tso rau hauv koj lub tsho loj thiab tshem nws tawm, ntaus lub qhov rooj yam tsis tawm mus ...). Nco ntsoov nqa nws tawm ua ntej tso nws thiab muab cov khoom ua si kom tsis txhob nkees. Qee lub sij hawm tso cov khoom ua si nrog zaub mov pab ua rau kev sib cais lom zem thiab kom tsis txhob muaj kev ntxhov siab ntawm kev sib cais.

Txhawm rau pab kom lub sijhawm saws me nyuam, peb tuaj yeem nqa los ntawm kev yug me nyuam ib daim ntaub uas tsis muaj ntxhiab tsw ntawm tus bitch uas ua rau kom sai sai rau tus menyuam dev. Koj tseem tuaj yeem siv pheromones hluavtaws. Lawv ua raws li kev so kom txaus pheromones lactating bitch uas calms thiab ntxiv dag zog rau kev ntseeg siab hauv lawv menyuam dev. Cov pheromones no tuaj hauv diffusers lossis hauv dab tshos kom hnav tsis tu ncua los ntawm tus menyuam dev. Kuj tseem muaj cov zaub mov ntxiv uas ua rau tus dev ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab. Koj tus kws kho tsiaj yuav nyob hauv txoj haujlwm zoo tshaj los pab koj xaiv txoj kev kho tshwj xeeb.

Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, tsis muaj lub ntsiab lus qw ntawm tus menyuam dev tawv tawv koj yuav tsuas yog ua rau nws muaj kev nyuaj siab. Tus menyuam dev uas tsis tau kawm kom nyob ib leeg yuav tig mus rau hauv kev quaj, dev quaj thaum koj tsis tuaj.

Kev sib cais kev ntxhov siab yog feem ntau coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo hauv cov neeg laus dev. Nws qhia nws tus kheej hauv ntau txoj kev. Feem ntau, tus dev quaj thiab quaj tsis tu ncua thaum tsis muaj tus tswv. Qhov no feem ntau suav nrog kev puas tsuaj, nyob tsis tswm thiab tso quav thiab tso zis, qee zaum txawm tias ua rau tus kheej puas tsuaj (licking ntawm nqua). Tsuas yog kev rov qab los ntawm tus tswv ua rau tus dev xis nyob. Cov dev no nyob ze rau lawv tus tswv thiab feem ntau nyob nrog lawv. Lawv ua raws lawv txhua qhov chaw txawm tias nyob hauv tsev. Qhov no yog a hyperattachement.

Qhov tsis zoo ntawm tus cwj pwm no tuaj yeem tshwm sim thaum kev tshem tawm ntawm tus menyuam dev los ntawm nws tus tswv tsis tau ua tiav kom raug. Tus tswv dhau los teb rau tus menyuam dev qhov kev thov thiab ua rau muaj kev xav ntawm kev xav. Qhov teeb meem no tseem tuaj yeem tshwm sim tom qab hloov pauv ib puag ncig ntawm tus tsiaj (tuaj txog ntawm tus menyuam, txav chaw, hloov pauv ntawm lub neej…) lossis thaum laus. Txhawm rau kho qhov kev coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo no, koj yuav tsum siv tib txoj cai ib yam li nrog tus menyuam dev: ua tau raws li qhov nws xav tau (kev tawm dag zog, kev ua si, thiab lwm yam), nres qhov kev tawm mus thiab rov ua kev cai dab qhuas tshwj xeeb, tsis txaus siab los ntawm kev tsim cuav pib, qhia tus dev kom tsaug zog. ib leeg thiab yuav tsum nyob hauv ib chav cais. Txhawm rau pib qhov thib ob, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob teb rau txhua qhov nws thov kev sib cuag. Nws nyob ntawm koj kom pib sib tham.

Kev sib cais yuav tsum yog maj mam thiab nws yuav tsum tau xyaum txawm tias nyob hauv tsev. Peb maj mam ncua lub sijhawm tam sim thiab muab nqi zog rau tus dev thaum nws nyob twj ywm. Yog tias koj rov qab los tus dev tau ua qee yam ruam, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis txhob rau txim rau nws lossis muab nws tso rau ntawm nws qhov kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev txhawb nws qhov kev ntxhov siab.

Yog tias qhov no tsis ua haujlwm, nws zoo dua mus ntsib koj tus kws kho tsiaj lossis txawm tham nrog tus kws kho tsiaj tus cwj pwm. Tom qab ntsuas koj tus dev, lawv yuav tuaj yeem muab cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb rau koj raws li koj qhov xwm txheej. Qee zaum txawm tias qhov kev coj tus cwj pwm no yuav ntxiv los ntawm kev kho mob rau daws qhov kev ntxhov siab ntawm kev quaj thiab tus dev quaj.

Tus quaj thiab quaj dev tuaj yeem qhia kev ntxhov siab vim sib cais, keeb kwm ntawm qhov uas los ntawm qhov tsis xws luag ntawm tus menyuam dev los ntawm nws tus tswv. Tus menyuam dev yuav tsum kawm nyob ib leeg thiab cais nws tus kheej ntawm nws tus tswv. Qee tus dev yuav muaj kev nyiam ntau dua li lwm tus. Nws yog kev coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo uas tuaj yeem ua los ntawm kev tawv ncauj rau kev sib cav nrog cov neeg zej zog. Tab sis, nws tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau koj tus dev qhov kev qhia ntawm kev ntxhov siab, uas nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tau saib xyuas sai. Yog tias koj muaj kev quaj, dev quaj, tham nrog koj tus kws kho tsiaj txog kev kho tus cwj pwm zoo tshaj plaws rau koj tus khub.