Los ntawm cov lus ntawm chav kawm thiab los ntawm nws tus cwj pwm ib yam nkaus. Tus ntxhais yuav dhau mus rau lub sijhawm uas, npau suav ntawm kev kov yeej nws txiv, ntawm kev muaj nws tag nrho rau nws tus kheej, nws xav tso nws niam uas dhau los ua tus neeg sib tw: nws yog Oedipus.
Ces leej txiv yuav tsa qhov tseem ceeb txwv tsis pub teb rau nws tus ntxhais tias: “Kuv yuav yuav koj thaum kuv loj hlob tuaj”, “Kuv yog koj txiv thiab kuv hlub koj tab sis kuv yog niam txiv thiab thaum koj zoo koj yuav yuav. ib tug ntawm koj lub hnub nyoog ".
Nrog rau txhua yam kev ua phem rau pedophilia, cov niam txiv kev sib raug zoo muaj lus nug ntau ntxiv txog kev liab qab thiab saib xyuas lawv tus menyuam lub cev li cas, tab sis qhov ntawd tsis yog qhov phem.
Yog tias leej txiv tsis xis nyob, nws yuav tsum nug tus kws tshaj lij uas yuav piav qhia txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws los coj nws tus ntxhais (lossis tus tub). Tam sim no, koj yuav tsum paub tias rau kev tsim kho lub hlwb ntawm koj tus menyuam, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau puag nws, saib xyuas nws thiab hais lus qab zib rau nws.
Leej txiv puas ua lub luag haujlwm hauv kev txhim kho nws tus poj niam?
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas leej txiv paub txog qhov femininity ntawm nws tus ntxhais. Piv txwv li, nws yuav tsum qhia nws tias nws zoo nkauj, qhov hnav ris tsho zoo li no haum rau nws zoo, muab khoom plig rau poj niam (ntiv nplhaib, menyuam roj hmab…) rau nws hnub yug…
Yog hais tias nws tsis tau lees paub los ntawm nws txiv yog ib tug ntxhais lossis yog tias qhov tseeb tias nws yog poj niam yog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig, nws yuav pom tseeb tias nws nyuaj rau nws txoj kev loj hlob lossis txawm tias nws nkag mus rau nws txoj kev sib deev.