Thaum cov me nyuam pib txheeb tej yam ntawm lawv tus kheej, nws yog lub sij hawm los tuav lawv lub taub hau thiab quaj txog "cia peb nyob ua ke." Tab sis nws tuaj yeem ua rau lwm txoj hauv kev.
Lub Ib Hlis 27 2019
Cov kwv tij thiab cov muam muaj kev khib ntawm niam txiv rau ib leeg, sib cav sib ceg. Qhov no ua pov thawj tias txhua yam nyob hauv kev txiav txim hauv tsev neeg. Cov me nyuam koom ua ke tsuas yog nyob rau hauv lub ntsej muag ntawm ib tug yeeb ncuab, piv txwv li, nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv los yog camp. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, lawv tuaj yeem dhau los ua phooj ywg yog tias koj tsis txhawb kev sib tw thiab yuam kom txhua tus sib koom. Yuav ua li cas phooj ywg nrog cov muam thiab cov kwv tij, nws hais Katerina Demina, tus kws pab tswv yim txog kev puas siab puas ntsws, tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb hauv kev puas siab ntsws me me, tus sau phau ntawv.
Muab txhua tus kheej qhov chaw. Tsis muaj txoj hauv kev los daws cov chav sib txawv - tsawg kawg xaiv lub rooj, koj tus kheej txee hauv txee dai khaub ncaws. Cov khoom kim heev tuaj yeem ua tau, tab sis cov khaub ncaws, khau, tais diav tsis yog. Rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua ob xyoos thiab ib nrab xyoo, muab rau txhua tus lawv cov khoom ua si: lawv tsis tuaj yeem koom tes.
Teeb tsa cov cai thiab tshaj tawm rau hauv qhov chaw tseem ceeb. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum muaj cai tsis pub qhia yog tias nws tsis xav tau. Sib tham txog ib qho kev rau txim rau kev noj yam tsis tau nug lossis ua rau lwm tus khoom tsis zoo. Tsim cov txheej txheem tib yam rau txhua tus, tsis tas yuav luv nqi rau hnub nyoog. Tus me nyuam tuaj yeem nrhiav tau tus txwj laus phau ntawv hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab kos duab, vim nws nyuaj rau nws nkag siab txog nws tus nqi, tab sis nws tsis tsim nyog lees paub los ntawm qhov tseeb tias nws me me.
Siv sijhawm tete-a-tete. Qhov no yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tsim nyog rau cov tub hlob. Nyeem, taug kev, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsom rau tus menyuam kom tiav. Tus txwj laus tuaj yeem koom nrog kev mus ncig mus rau tom khw, tab sis tsis txhob hnov qab muab nqi zog, qhia nws tias: “Koj pab tau ntau, cia peb mus rau lub vaj tsiaj, thiab tus me nyuam yuav nyob hauv tsev, tsis pub menyuam yaus nyob ntawd. ”
Kev daws teeb meem tsis yog qhia los ntawm cov lus, tab sis kuj yog piv txwv.
Muab tus cwj pwm sib piv. Cov menyuam yaus txawm raug mob los ntawm kev thuam rau cov tsis muaj txiaj ntsig, piv txwv li, rau qhov tseeb tias ib tug mus pw, thiab lwm tus tseem tsis tau txhuam nws cov hniav. Tsis nco qab lo lus "tab sis": "Nws kawm tau zoo, tab sis koj hu nkauj zoo." Qhov no yuav txhawb nqa ib tus menyuam, thiab nws txiav txim siab rub nws txoj kev kawm, thiab lwm tus yuav poob kev ntseeg ntawm nws tus kheej. Yog tias koj xav txhawb kev ua tiav - teeb tsa tus kheej lub hom phiaj, muab rau txhua tus lawv tus kheej txoj haujlwm thiab khoom plig.
Kho kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi phem rau cov me nyuam sib cav. Yog tias lawv muaj hnub nyoog tib yam lossis qhov sib txawv me me, tsis txhob cuam tshuam. Tsim cov cai uas lawv yuav tau ua raws thaum sib ntaus sib tua. Sau cia tias qw thiab hu cov npe, pov hauv ncoo, piv txwv li, tso cai, tab sis tsis tom thiab ncaws. Tab sis yog tias ib txwm tau txais ntau dua, koj qhov kev koom tes yog qhov tsim nyog. Cov menyuam yaus pib sib ntaus sib tua ntau zaus, txawm hais tias lawv siv kev sib txuas lus ib txwm? Qee lub sij hawm cov menyuam mos coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo thaum lawv muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv tsev neeg, piv txwv li, lawv niam lawv txiv muaj kev sib raug zoo lossis ib tus neeg mob.
Tham txog kev xav. Yog tias ib tug ntawm cov me nyuam ua rau lwm tus, lees paub nws txoj kev xav: "Koj yuav tsum npau taws heev, tab sis koj ua qhov tsis yog." Qhia rau kuv seb koj tuaj yeem nthuav tawm kev ua phem txawv li cas. Thaum cem, ib txwm muab kev txhawb nqa ua ntej thiab tom qab ntawd rau txim.
Ua tus piv txwv. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau qhia kev sib koom tes, txhawb nqa ib leeg, muab rau hauv. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob yuam kev phooj ywg rau lawv, nws txaus los nyeem cov dab neeg, saib tas luav, ua si pab pawg.
Cov lus qhia rau cov niam cov menyuam uas muaj hnub nyoog me me sib txawv, ib tug ntawm cov uas muaj hnub nyoog qis dua ib thiab ib nrab xyoo.
Nrhiav ib pab neeg txhawb nqa. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas koj muaj cov poj niam nyob ib puag ncig koj uas tuaj yeem pab tau. Tom qab ntawd koj yuav muaj lub zog los cuam tshuam nrog txhua tus menyuam hauv hom uas nws xav tau. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog sib txawv - qhov xav tau sib txawv.
Taug kev ncig lub tsev hauv daim tiab ntev, cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau khi ib yam dab tsi. Qhov no ua rau lawv muaj kev nyab xeeb dua. Yog tias koj nyiam ris ntauv txhav, khi ib txoj hlua khi rau koj txoj siv.
Muab qhov nyiam rau cov khaub ncaws ua los ntawm cov ntaub ntawv uas xyaum cov ntaub plaub… Nws tau raug pov thawj tias kev kov cov ntaub so ntswg ua rau me nyuam muaj kev ntseeg siab: “Kuv tsis nyob ib leeg.”
Yog tus menyuam nug tias koj hlub leej twg, teb: “Kuv hlub koj”… Cov me nyuam tuaj ua ke thiab thov xaiv? Koj tuaj yeem hais tias: "Txhua tus hauv peb tsev neeg tau hlub." Kev thov tias koj hlub tib txoj kev yuav tsis daws qhov teeb meem. Sim xav seb vim li cas cov lus nug tshwm sim. Muaj ntau hom lus ntawm kev hlub, thiab tej zaum tus menyuam tsis hnov qab: koj puag nws, thaum cov lus pom zoo tseem ceeb dua rau nws.