Kuv tus me nyuam hlub

Nws thawj kev hlub

3-6 xyoo: lub hnub nyoog ntawm kev hlub thawj zaug

Thawj romantic idylls yug ntxov heev nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam. "Cov kev xav no tshwm sim sai li sai tau thaum lawv pib muaj kev sib raug zoo, thaum muaj hnub nyoog 3 txog 6 xyoo. Thaum lub sijhawm no, lawv nyiam nyiam. hlub paj", Qhia tus me nyuam puas hlwb Stéphane Clerget. “Thaum lawv nkag mus hauv tsev kawm ntawv, lawv paub tias lawv muaj peev xwm xav tau kev hlub rau lwm tus uas tsis yog cov uas saib xyuas lawv txhua hnub: niam txiv, tus neeg saib xyuas… Ua ntej theem no, lawv tsis tig mus. tshaj ntawm lawv tus kheej thiab lawv tsev neeg. “

Yuav kom poob rau hauv kev hlub, lawv kuj yuav tsum dhau qhov Cape ntawm lub Oedipus complex thiab nkag siab tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem yuav lawv niam lawv txiv ntawm kev sib deev.

6-10 xyoo: phooj ywg ua ntej!

“Ntawm cov hnub nyoog 6 thiab 10, cov menyuam yaus feem ntau tso lawv txoj kev hlub. Lawv tsom mus rau lwm qhov kev txaus siab, lawv txoj haujlwm nyiam… Ntxiv mus, yog tias kev sib raug zoo romantic coj mus rau ntau qhov chaw nyob rau lub sijhawm no, qhov no tuaj yeem ua tiav ntawm tus nqi ntawm tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob. Cov niam txiv tsis tas yuav txhawb nqa lawv cov xeeb ntxwv hauv av no. Peb yuav tsum hwm qhov latency no hauv kev hlub. ”

Tswj txoj kev hlub loj ntawm peb cov me nyuam

Kev xav zoo heev

Stéphane Clerget hais tias "Thawj qhov kev xav nyiam nyiam nyiam heev zoo ib yam li cov neeg laus xav tau, muaj kev sib deev tsawg dua," hais txog Stéphane Clerget. "Nruab nrab ntawm 3 thiab 6 xyoo, cov kev xav no yog ib qho qauv, a kev hlub tiag kev tshoov siab, uas yog maj mam muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob ua rau cov menyuam yaus thiab tsis txhob ua rau cov neeg laus muaj kev paub txog kev hlub no. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob thuam koj tus kheej los yog mob siab rau, uas yuav txhawb kom lawv kaw lawv tus kheej. ”

Nws multiplies lub conquests

Koj tus menyuam puas tau hloov nws tus hlub thiab nws lub tsho? Rau Stéphane Clerget, nws tsis txhob muab credit ntau dhau rau cov menyuam yaus kev sib raug zoo. “Nws tuaj yeem tshwm sim tias qhov no qhia txog tsev neeg tsis txaus siab. Ib tug ntawm kuv cov neeg mob hluas xav tias nws txiv muaj extramarital affairs thiab txhais li ntawd, tab sis ib tug me nyuam uas hloov lovers feem ntau yuav tsis yog ib tug poj niam tom qab! Yog tias, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, koj tus menyuam tsis tau muaj kev hlub zoo li nws cov phooj ywg, koj yuav tsum xub nug seb nws puas muaj phooj ywg hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Yog tias nws nyob ib leeg, thim rov qab rau hauv nws tus kheej, nws yuav tsum tau ua los pab nws sib txuas lus. Ntawm qhov tod tes, yog nws tsis muaj ib tug hlub vim nws tsis nyiam nws, tab sis nws yog sociable, tsis muaj dab tsi txhawj txog. Qhov ntawd yuav los tom qab ”…

Thawj qhov mob siab heev

Tu siab, tsis muaj leej twg dim nws. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog coj tej kev nyuaj siab no tiag. Raws li Stéphane Clerget piav qhia, "tiv thaiv" cov menyuam yaus tiv thaiv kev mob siab thoob plaws kev kawm. “Tsis muaj qhov tseem ceeb hauv kev npaj lawv ua ntej. Qhov tseeb, nws yog los ntawm kev nrhiav kev txwv rau nws omnipotence, txij li thaum ntxov, uas tus menyuam tau npaj zoo tshaj plaws rau kev mob siab. Yog tias nws tseem siv los muab txhua yam rau nws, nws tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab tias nws tus hlub tsis hlub nws, ua rau nws lub siab xav tau thiab yuav nyuaj heev. “

Kev piav qhia rau cov menyuam yaus tias koj tsis tuaj yeem yuam tus phooj ywg me me ua si nrog koj thiab koj yuav tsum hwm lwm tus txoj kev xaiv kuj tseem ceeb. “Thaum tus menyuam ntsib qhov xwm txheej no, niam txiv yuav tsum tham nrog nws, nplij nws, txhawb nws, tso nws rov qab mus rau yav tom ntej“, Qhia tus me nyuam puas hlwb.

Thawj flirt

Thaum nkag mus kawm ntawv qib siab, tej yam feem ntau yuav hnyav dua. Tus menyuam tuaj yeem kaw nws tus kheej hauv nws chav los tham ntau teev hauv xov tooj lossis hauv social media nrog nws tus hluas nraug. Yuav ua li cas?

“Txawm hais tias nws yog kev sib tham nrog cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm lossis lawv tus hluas nraug, cov niam txiv yuav tsum, thaum saib xyuas lawv tus menyuam txoj kev ceev ntiag tug, txwv cov sij hawm siv rau pem hauv ntej ntawm lub computer lossis hauv xov tooj. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau nws txoj kev loj hlob. Cov neeg laus yuav tsum pab nws muab nws tus kheej rau lwm yam. “

Thawj qhov hnia tshwm sim thaum muaj hnub nyoog 13 xyoos thiab sawv cev rau ib kauj ruam ntawm kev sib deev rau cov neeg laus. Tab sis nyob rau hauv lub neej no qhov twg cov hluas muaj kev sib deev ntau dua, peb puas yuav tsum koom nrog thawj flirtation thiab thawj kev sib deev?

“Cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau qhia lawv cov menyuam thiab tsim lub hauv paus. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los npaj cov tub ntxhais hluas rau lawv lub neej kev sib deev yav tom ntej, thaum hais tias kev sib deev feem ntau yog thaum muaj hnub nyoog 15 xyoos, thiab kom txog rau thaum lawv loj hlob tuaj, lawv tuaj yeem flirt. “

Ntshai muaj kev phem kev qias, kev npam... niam txiv tsis nyiam hluas nraug...

Stéphane Clerget piav qhia tias "Yog tias koj tsis nyiam nws lub ntsej muag, tsuas yog tsis txhob muab qhov tseem ceeb rau koj thawj zaug kev sib raug zoo,". “Nej cov niam txiv, ntawm qhov tod tes, yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib xyuas lawv tus hluas nraug. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias lawv tsis nyiam nws, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws tos txais nws kom paub nws, ntsib nws niam nws txiv. Kev sib cuag nrog nws yog txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws rau cov neeg laus los tswj thiab pom tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim. ”