PSYchology

Tawm ntawm 10 tsab ntawv thov kev sab laj, 9 muaj kev thov hauv daim ntawv tsis zoo: "yuav ua li cas tshem tawm, yuav ua li cas, nres, yuav ua li cas, yuav ua li cas tsis quav ntsej ..." Lub hom phiaj tsis zoo yog ib qho kab mob ntawm peb cov neeg siv khoom. Thiab peb txoj hauj lwm, txoj hauj lwm ntawm cov kws pab tswv yim, yog kom accustom cov neeg siv, es tsis txhob tham txog yam lawv tsis nyiam, dab tsi lawv xav kom deb ntawm, tsim yam lawv xav tau, yam lawv xav tuaj, kom accustom lawv mus muaj peev xwm ua lub hom phiaj.

Nws kuj tseem yuav tsum tau coj mus rau hauv tus account tias qhov kev thov tsis zoo ntawm cov neeg siv khoom yooj yim ua rau lawv nkag siab, mus rau kev tshawb nrhiav vim li cas es tsis txhob nrhiav kev daws teeb meem, mus rau kev tshawb nrhiav tsis zoo rau cov teeb meem hauv lawv tus kheej.

Piv txwv ntawm cov lus tsis zoo:

Kuv xav nkag siab tias vim li cas kuv cov nyiaj tau los tsis loj hlob

Client: Kuv xav paub vim li cas kuv cov nyiaj tau los tsis loj hlob.

Tus Kws Pab Tswv Yim: Koj puas xav paub seb vim li cas koj cov nyiaj tau los tsis loj hlob, lossis koj puas xav pib ua qee yam kom koj cov nyiaj tau los loj hlob?

Client: Yog, yog lawm. Kuv tsis xav paub nws, Kuv xav kom kuv cov nyiaj tau los loj hlob.

Tus kws pab tswv yim: Okay, tab sis dab tsi, koj xav tias yuav tsum ua li cas rau qhov no?

Cov neeg siv khoom: Nws zoo li kuv tias kuv tseem sawv, tsis txhim kho. Kuv yuav tsum paub seb yuav ua li cas thiaj li tsis nyob twj ywm.

Yuav ua li cas tsis xyuam xim rau lawv gu.e.sti?

Kuv tus ntxhais muaj 13 xyoos thiab nws nyuaj rau kev sib txuas lus txij li qib thawj, nws tsuas yog tsis quav ntsej, nws zoo li tus neeg tawm tsam. Zoo li nws tsis ua dab tsi phem, tab sis nws twb ntshai hais ib yam dab tsi rau ib tug neeg, yog li ntawd lawv tsis txhob thuam nws dua. Kuv tham nrog cov ntxhais hauv chav kawm, tab sis lawv tsis tuaj yeem hais dab tsi meej. Nws ib txwm nyob rau hauv lub siab phem, thiab yog li kuv yog vim nws. Kuv xav tau tswv yim piav qhia rau nws kom nws kawm tsis txhob pom lawv, tsis txhob chim, tsis txhob mloog lawv gu.e.sti.

Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob ua tus kab mob parasite?

Tau qhov twg los: forum.syntone.ru

Nyob zoo Nikolai Ivanovich, yuav ua li cas STOP BEING PARASITE, Kuv twb mob ntawm nws feem ntau ((((Kuv ua haujlwm, kuv splurge feem ntau, IMHO, tab sis kuv nyiam ua qhov kuv nyiam xwb, thiab tsis yog qhov tsim nyog tiag tiag rau ua hauj lwm, thiab qhov amazing (tab sis, thaj, tsis yog rau cov cab), thaum ib yam dab tsi yog tsis tsim nyog ua, kuv rov wildly xav ua nws, nyob qhov twg cov hauv paus hniav ntawm xws li ib tug coj txawv txawv tus kheej-yuav, yuav ua li cas cais thiab rhuav tshem. lawv, lossis peb puas yuav tsum tau hloov tag nrho "system" thiab cuam tshuam tshwj xeeb nrog qhov no tsis muaj teeb meem?

Lwm lo lus nug, koj puas tuaj yeem qhia kuv yuav ua li cas kom tshem tau qhov kev ntshai ruam "Kuv yuav mus rau hauv kev ua kis las (txog tam sim no kuv zoo li nyias thiab noj qab nyob zoo, tab sis kuv tsis mob), Kuv tau mob sai sai, thiab tag nrho kev siv zog. yog nkim, tsis muaj dab tsi yuav ua hauj lwm tawm lawm, yog li nws yog qhov zoo dua tsis pib, tab sis siv sij hawm rau ib yam dab tsi tseem ceeb thiab tam sim ntawd them, zoo li phau ntawv "? Tiag tiag, qhov kev ntshai no tshwm sim, qhov no yog neeg siv khoom, txoj cai? lawv sib ntaus li cas?

Yuav ua li cas kom tshem tau tus kheej khawb?

Txij li thaum muaj hnub nyoog 13 xyoos, qhov kev xav ntawm introspection tsis tawm, dab tsi tau sau rau hauv koj tsab xov xwm qhia meej txog kuv tus mob, txhua yam rov ua dua nws tus kheej zoo li hauv lub voj voog. Yuav ua li cas kom tshem tau nws? Yuav ua li cas tsis txhob muab piv rau koj tus kheej nrog lwm tus neeg, tsis txhob khib thiab introspective? Yog vim li cas? Koj tau txais cov kev xav no los ntawm qhov twg???

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