PSYchology

Feem ntau peb muab rau peb tus kheej: noj ib yam dab tsi qab, tab sis muaj teeb meem, ncua qhov tseem ceeb rau tom qab, pw ntxiv 15 feeb, thiab tom qab ntawd khiav mus ua haujlwm. Tus kws sau ntawv David Kane muab txoj hauv kev zoo los pab koj tswj koj tus kheej thiab koj lub neej zoo dua.

Nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm kuv lies ib tug zoo nkauj txiv tsawb. Tsis muaj stains, daj zoo meej. Txiv tsawb zoo meej thiab kuv paub tias nws yuav tsis ua rau kuv poob siab thaum kuv noj nws.

Kuv xav noj, kuv tsis xav tias kuv tuaj yeem txav mus rau qhov thib plaub los ntawm kev noj nws hauv ib teev lossis 4 teev thiab nws yuav ua rau kuv zoo siab thiab muab kuv cov poov tshuaj tib yam. Kuv tsis nco qab tias yog kuv noj tam sim no, yav tom ntej David yuav tsis tau dab tsi. Yog li ntawd, kuv pamper David-ntawm-thiab-tam sim no ntawm tus nqi ntawm Future David.

Raws li qhov tshwm sim, yav tom ntej David kuj tseem yuav txaus siab rau txiv tsawb ntau dua li David ntawm no thiab tam sim no. Yog hais tias txiv tsawb tsis tau siav, tag kis nws yuav tau mus txog qhov zoo tagnrho.

Thiab tseem David-ntawm no-thiab-tam sim no pov npav rau nws txoj kev nyiam thiab twb tau tshem tawm ntawm daim tawv nqaij. Thaum kuv laus lawm, kuv pom tias David-no-thiab-tam sim no tau ua siab dav rau nws cov npoj yaig los ntawm yav tom ntej. Kuv vam tias muaj ib hnub nws yuav kho tau tag nrho cov Das Vis ib yam li nws kho nws tus kheej.

Tsuav yog Davi qhov kev xav tau-ntawm no-thiab-tam sim no tseem yog qhov tseem ceeb. Qhov no yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum kuv tsis quav ntsej siv nyiaj ntau rau qee qhov tsis muaj tseeb, thiab David yav tom ntej yuav tsum nruj nws txoj siv vim nws tsis tuaj yeem ua rau nws them nyiaj.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau kawm kho koj tus kheej yav tom ntej nrog tib txoj kev hlub uas peb kho peb tus kheej tam sim no.

Kuv feem ntau khaws David los ntawm yav tom ntej kom txaus siab rau David-ntawm no-thiab-tam sim no whims. Tab sis maj mam kuv pib nkag siab tias David-ntawm-lub-tom ntej yuav nyob rau qee lub sijhawm dhau los ua David-ntawm-thiab-tam sim no. Txawm yog li ntawd los, kuv twb yog Daviv lub neej yav tom ntej, uas cov Daviv yav tag los feem ntau tau fij rau lawv tus kheej.

Piv txwv li, tam sim no David tuaj yeem muaj nyiaj ntau dua thiab leaner yog tias Davids-ntawm-lub- yav dhau los tsis siv nyiaj ntau heev rau cawv thiab khoom qab zib. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau kawm kho koj tus kheej yav tom ntej nrog tib txoj kev hlub uas peb kho peb tus kheej tam sim no.

Nco ntsoov qhov kev sim marshmallow uas tau ua thaum xyoo 60s ntawm Stanford? Cov kws tshawb fawb zaum tsib xyoos nyob rau pem hauv ntej ntawm marshmallow thiab muab lawv xaiv: noj tam sim ntawd los yog tos lwm 15 feeb thiab tau txais ob lub marshmallows. Tom qab ntawd, lawv tso cov me nyuam nyob ib leeg nrog kev ntxias.

Tam sim no Davi yuav muaj nyiaj ntau dua thiab muaj zog dua yog tias Daviv yav dhau los tsis siv nyiaj ntau ntau rau cawv thiab khoom qab zib.

Tsuas yog ib feem peb ntawm lawv tuaj yeem siv sijhawm li 15 feeb thiab tau txais qhov thib ob marshmallow. Thaum cov kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws tau taug qab txoj hmoo ntawm cov menyuam no 15 xyoo tom qab, nws tau pom tias lawv txhua tus tau txais kev kawm siab thiab ua tiav.

Yuav kawm li cas los saib xyuas lub neej yav tom ntej? Kuv muaj ob lub tswv yim:

Txais qhov tseeb tias koj tam sim no twb yog koj lub neej yav tom ntej. Niaj hnub no koj tab tom sau cov txiv hmab txiv ntoo ntawm kev ua yav dhau los. Yog tias koj xav ua kom muaj kev vam meej hauv lub neej, xav txog koj tus kheej ntawm no-thiab-tam sim no nws tus kheej tso cov ntaub pua plag liab rau koj Tus Kheej Yav Tom Ntej. Cov neeg muaj kev qhuab qhia siab yog cov uas tuaj yeem khav tau ntawm cov txiaj ntsig tau txais los ntawm lawv txoj kev saib xyuas thiab kev txawj ntse ntawm yav dhau los.

- Khaws lub sijhawm thaum koj tso koj Tus Kheej Yav Tom Ntej. Feem ntau lawv tshwm sim thaum koj mus ncig ua si, saib TV, tshem tawm txhua yam khoom siv, lossis nias lub tswb nrov. Lwm pawg ntawm french fries los yog donuts yog ib qho tshuaj lom uas koj xa hauv ib pob rau yav tom ntej.

Ntseeg kuv: Koj lub neej yav tom ntej Nws yog koj li, thiab tsis yog ib qho kev paub daws teeb meem. Thiab nws yuav tau them nws cov nqi lossis txaus siab rau lub neej, nyob ntawm seb kuv-no-thiab-tam sim no yuav ua li cas.

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