Dab tsi ua rau tib neeg yeem mus rau cov koom haum tshwj xeeb uas lawv raug thab plaub? Tus tswv ntawm qhov chaw sib tham zais cia tau tshawb nrhiav lub hauv paus ua rau sadomasochism tau ntau xyoo. Thiab ntawm no yog qhov nws pom.
Koj puas tau nyeem ib phau ntawv uas koj tsis tuaj yeem muab tso rau ntawm nplooj ntawv nqos tom qab nplooj ntawv hauv subway, tom qab ntawd ntawm tus escalator, tom qab ntawd ntawm koj lub rooj? Los yog lawv puas tau npaj "serial marathon" rau lawv tus kheej ntawm ib hnub so, saib cov yeeb yaj kiab tom qab tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam?
Tib yam muaj tseeb thaum lub sijhawm sib tham. Qhov kev xav tias lub sijhawm koj tseem muaj sia nyob, tag nrho koj cov kev xav tau ua haujlwm ntawm lawv qhov siab tshaj plaws thiab tag nrho cov kev xav thiab koj lub siab tau muab tag nrho rau qhov kev xav ntawm kev ntxhov siab.
Ua li cas tom ntej no?
Tus subordinate tsis paub qhov no, nws tau muab tag nrho tswj rau tus thawj tswj hwm.
Nws tsis tas yuav xav txog dab tsi thiab tsis tas yuav txiav txim siab nyuaj.
Nws tsis tas yuav ua dab tsi hlo li. Txawv txawv raws li nws yuav suab, tib neeg tuaj rau kuv lub club kom hnov zoo li hauv yoga lossis kev xav.
Lawv saib xyuas nws, saib xyuas nws. Nws muaj ib tug txiv neej uas nws tsis indifferent…
Yuav tsum nyob rau lub sijhawm no, kom paub txog nws nrog txhua lub cell ntawm koj lub cev. Cov kws ntaus nkauj thiab cov neeg ncaws pob tau ntsib qhov no nyob rau lub sijhawm ntawm qhov siab tshaj plaws thaum lub sijhawm ua yeeb yam, thaum lub ntiaj teb tag nrho tsis muaj nyob thiab tsuas muaj qhov lawv tau ntsib tam sim no, thib ob los ntawm ob.
Lawv tau xaiv txoj kev nyuaj rau qhov no, dhau los ntawm kev cob qhia thiab ua tsis tiav. Tus masochist xaiv nws tus kheej txoj kev, uas zoo nkaus li rau nws tsuas yog ua tau.
Nov yog qhov lawv rov qab los rau. Txhua yam koj yuav tsum ua yog mloog thiab "ua raws li qhov ntws."
Nyob rau theem kev puas siab puas ntsws, masochist tau tso siab rau kev tswj hwm tus khub tseem ceeb thiab zoo siab rau nws tiag tiag thaum nws "ua tib zoo" khawm cov pob rau ntawm nws.
Nws ua raws li thaum nws hais kom nws tsis txhob ua pa, zoo li thaum nws tseem yau thiab nqos tshuaj hnoos.
Lawv saib xyuas nws, saib xyuas nws. Nws muaj ib tug neeg mob siab rau nws. Thiab tus txiv neej no paub qhov nws xav tau.
Cov masochist puas paub qhov no? Zoo li cov lus teb yog qhov tseeb.
Lub luag haujlwm ntawm Dominatrix yog siv nws cov yeeb yam los ua rau ib tus neeg subordinate rau nws mus rau hauv lub xeev uas nws txoj kev xav tob, uas nws tsis tau qhia rau leej twg txog thiab nws tuav rov qab, tuaj yeem tawm.
Ua li no, nws lub paj hlwb muaj lub siab zoo siab los ntawm kev ua yeeb yam. Slaps thiab siv tshuab, hais lus tsim txom (thiab, raws li, thov kev hlub tshua) yog ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib kho, uas dhau sij hawm nws twb pib tos ntsoov rau.
Thaum lub rooj sib tham, tus masochist muaj kev txaus ntshai. Nyob rau theem physiological, qhov no txhais tau hais tias cov qog adrenal tsim adrenaline ntau heev.
Tom qab ntawd, sai li sai tau thaum nws paub tias qhov txaus ntshai dhau lawm, endorphins raug tso tawm. Cov no yog tej yam ntuj tso analgesics, ib tug mob reliever, uas nyob rau hauv lem muab peb nrog opioids, coj ib tug zoo siab, so, so kom txaus.
Morgese, uas yog tus kws tshaj lij Dominatrix ntawm 55, hais tias, "Tom qab kev sib tham tas lawm, lawv zoo siab, zoo siab."
Nws yog qhov kaj thiab mob siab heev uas nws zoo nkaus li rau lawv tias lawv tau xyaum ntab saum av.
Lub xeev ntawm euphoria tom qab kev sib kho tuaj yeem kav ntev li ib teev lossis txawm lub lis piam. Tom qab thawj zaug surge ntawm euphoria, nws yog hloov los ntawm ib lub sij hawm thaum lub subordinate ntsib ib tug poob ntawm kev xav, nws kub yuav poob sharply tom qab qhov kawg ntawm kev tua.
Ecstatic txoj kev xav tau hloov los ntawm kev tsaug zog thiab so kom tob. Tus subordinate muaj lub siab xav, sib sib zog nqus hlub, uas nws xav tau, thiab, coj txawv txawv li nws suab, kev hlub.
Ib qho kev sib raug zoo tshwj xeeb tshwm sim ntawm tus khub tseem ceeb thiab nws tus neeg saib xyuas, vim lawv tau ntsib nrog cov kev xav tsis zoo thiab txwv tsis pub leej twg tab sis lawv tus kheej paub txog. Lawv paub txog tej yam ntawm ib leeg lub neej uas tsis muaj leej twg paub txog.
Hais txog tus kws tshaj lij: Sandra La Morgese yog blogger thiab tus sau ntawm 5 kauj ruam rau kev sib txuas lus zoo dua, kev sib deev thiab kev zoo siab.