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Nov yog qee yam uas tshwm sim sai lossis tom qab rau txhua tus: peb yuav tsum ua rau pem hauv ntej ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib. Thiab rau qee qhov kev hais lus pej xeem dhau los ua qhov kev sim loj. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj qee qhov kev dag ntxias los pab koj daws nrog nws. Thiab txawm nrog kev vam meej.
Nyob rau hauv lub era ntawm Youtube thiab lwm yam video channel, ntau yam kev nthuav qhia, lectures thiab muag khoom, muaj peev xwm mus yaum kom ua ib qho kev xav tau ceev. Txawm hais tias cov neeg siab mos thiab nyob ntsiag to yuav tsum tau dov lawv lub tes tsho thiab ua haujlwm ntawm lawv cov duab thiab lub suab.
Nws yog qhov zoo uas muaj kev dag ntxias uas pab nrog qhov no. Cov neeg ua yeeb yam thiab tus kws qhia Luc Tessier d'Orpheu, uas tau qhia cov kws ua yeeb yam tshaj li peb caug xyoo, qhia rau peb paub txog cov lus zais ntawm kev npaj rau pej xeem kev ua yeeb yam.
1. Npaj
Xav tias koj tuaj yeem ua yam tsis muaj kev npaj? Tom qab ntawd nco ntsoov cov lus ntawm tus Thawj Fwm Tsav Tebchaws nto moo tshaj plaws hauv ntiaj teb, Winston Churchill: "Ib qho lus hais tsis tu ncua yuav tsum tau sau peb zaug."
Vim li cas peb thiaj ncav cuag lwm tus? Nov yog cov laj thawj tseem ceeb: qhia qee yam, kom nkag siab, qhia kev xav. Txawm li cas los xij, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom txiav txim siab raws nraim li cas cov lus koj xav qhia thiab seb cov neeg tuaj saib qhov kev cia siab yuav zoo li cas.
Nqa ib tus cwj mem thiab ntawv thiab sau txhua yam uas los rau hauv koj lub siab los teb rau lo lus nug: yog li koj yuav tham txog dab tsi? Tom qab ntawd tsim koj cov khoom.
Ib txwm pib nrog lub tswv yim tseem ceeb, nrog cov lus tseem ceeb. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tau txais kev mloog ntawm cov interlocutors (neeg mloog) txij thaum pib. Tom qab ntawd nthuav koj cov tswv yim kom nthuav dav hauv plaub mus rau rau lub ntsiab lus, raws li lawv qhov tseem ceeb rau koj thiab kev nthuav qhia yooj yim.
Pib nrog qhov tseeb thiab tom qab ntawd qhia koj lub tswv yim. Qhov kev txiav txim rov qab ua rau cov lus tsis muaj zog thiab cuam tshuam cov neeg tuaj saib.
2. Nrhiav qhov nrawm nrawm
Cov neeg ua yeeb yam pib los ntawm kev nco cov ntawv nrov nrov, lawv mloog thiab hais nws hauv cov yuam sij sib txawv, lub suab qis thiab siab, kom txog thaum lawv kawm tiav. Ua raws li lawv tus yam ntxwv, taug kev ncig thiab hais cov kab lus kom txog thaum lawv pib "khiav tawm ntawm koj cov hniav".
Thaum koj tau npaj koj cov lus, lub sijhawm pib mus rau qhov kawg - hais nws txoj hauv kev koj yuav hais rau pem hauv ntej ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib. Thaum ua tiav, ntxiv 30% ntawm qhov tshwm sim (piv txwv li, txuas ntxiv 10-feeb hais lus los ntawm 3 feeb), tsis tas yuav nce cov ntawv nyeem, tsuas yog ncua.
Dab tsi rau? Nws tau raug pov thawj tias "machine-phom" cov lus hais tsis tshua muaj siab ntseeg. Qhov kev sib cav thib ob: hauv kev ua yeeb yam lawv hais tias cov neeg mloog ua pa tag nrho. Thiab tuav nws ua tsis taus pa raws li pace ntawm tus hais lus. Yog tias koj hais sai sai, koj cov neeg tuaj saib yuav ua pa sai thiab thaum kawg pib choke. Los ntawm kev qeeb koj cov lus, koj yuav tau txais kev mloog ntawm koj cov neeg mloog thiab qhia koj cov tswv yim zoo rau lawv.
Ncua Sijhawm - lawv kos xim rau ib nqe lus tshwj xeeb. Pauses qhia txog yam koj xav hais txog. Koj tuaj yeem nres tom qab nqe lus kom muab sijhawm rau cov neeg mloog los xav txog nws. Los yog nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm ib yam dab tsi koj xav kom highlight.
3. Tsim kev txaus siab
Txhua leej txhua tus pom zoo tias tsis muaj dab tsi dhuav ntau dua li kev hais lus monotonous. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias nws yog overloaded nrog cov ntsiab lus, digressions thiab piav qhia ntawm tus kheej impressions thiab yog pronounced nyob rau hauv ib tug nyuam qhuav hnov lub suab. Txhawm rau ua kom koj qhov kev nthuav qhia ua tiav, hais lus raws li koj xav qhia zaj dab neeg nthuav dav - nrog kev ncua thiab nyob ntawm qhov raug, thiab tseem muaj lub suab nrov nrov nrog kev nplua nuj intonations.
Clear articulation yog lub hauv paus ntawm oratory. Xyaum, hauv Is Taws Nem nws yog ib qho yooj yim mus nrhiav tus nplaig twisters rau ntau yam dej num: xyaum nyuaj ua ke ntawm cov ntawv thiab kawm tsis txhob nqos cov suab. Paub txog thaum yau, zoo li "Muaj nyom hauv vaj ...", thiab niaj hnub: "Nws tsis paub meej tias cov khoom lag luam yog kua los yog tsis ua kua."
Ncua tseg, hais txog tej yam tseem ceeb, nug thiab teb cov lus nug, tab sis lo rau koj tus kheej style.
Cov kev hloov hauv intonation pab qhia cov kev xav (tsis yog yuav tsum tsis meej pem nrog kev xav: constricted caj pas, incoherent hais lus) - qhov no yog li cas koj yuav qhia ib tug fairy taleas rau cov me nyuam, hloov lub suab nyob rau hauv cov zaj duab xis twists. Los ntawm txoj kev, cov me nyuam xav tau tam sim ntawd thaum lawv hais ib yam dab tsi mechanically.
Qhia koj tus kheej tias cov neeg tuaj saib zoo li menyuam yaus. Ncua tseg, hais txog cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb, nug thiab teb cov lus nug, tab sis ua raws li koj tus kheej style (tsis txhob ua rau koj tus kheej saib lom zem lossis txias yog tias koj tsis xav li ntawd). Ua ntej koj hais lus, yawn ob peb zaug nrog lub suab los zaws koj lub suab thiab muab koj lub suab nplua nuj thiab puv.
4. Ua haujlwm nrog lub cev
Tom qab koj tau ua haujlwm nrog cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev hais lus thiab koj lub suab, saib xyuas lub cev. Qhov no yuav pab koj 5 tus yuam sij.
1.Qhib: ncaj koj nraub qaum thiab qhib koj txhais tes zoo li koj tau txais ib yam dab tsi.
2.Luag nyav: luag ntxhi txo qhov kev ntxhov siab ntawm tus hais lus thiab calms cov neeg mloog. Nws tau raug pov thawj tias cov neeg luag nyav tsis nruj dua li cov pej xeem loj.
3. Ua pa: Ua ntej hais lus, ua pa ntev rau hauv thiab tawm, qhov no yuav txo koj qhov nro.
4.Saib: saib cov neeg mloog tag nrho, thiab tom qab ntawd saib ob peb tus neeg - lossis txhua tus, yog tias cov neeg mloog tsis tshaj kaum. Qhov zoo li no txhawb kev sib txuas.
5.Cov kauj ruam: lub sijhawm koj pib hais lus, ua ib kauj ruam me me rau cov neeg mloog. Yog tias tsis muaj chaw (piv txwv li, koj tab tom sawv ntawm lub sam thiaj), qhib koj lub hauv siab thiab rub koj lub caj dab me ntsis. Qhov no yuav pab tsim kom muaj kev sib txuas ntawm cov neeg mloog-hais lus.
5. Rov Sib Tham
Nyob rau hauv lub theatre ua ntej lub premiere muaj ib txwm ib tug hnav ris tsho rehearsal. Nws pab ua kom tiav qhov kov. Ua tib yam los ntawm kev nyiam cov neeg koj hlub uas yog phooj ywg thiab xav txog. Qhia koj cov lus rau lawv ib yam li koj hais rau cov neeg tuaj saib.