6 Cov teeb meem coj tus cwj pwm hauv menyuam yaus koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tsis quav ntsej

Hauv nws txoj kev xyaum kaum xyoo, tus kws kho mob hauv tsev neeg Leanne Evila tau txheeb xyuas ntau yam teeb meem kev coj cwj pwm hauv cov menyuam yaus uas yuav tsum tau teb rau niam txiv tam sim.

1. Nws cuam tshuam

Koj tus menyuam zoo siab txog ib yam dab tsi thiab xav tham txog tam sim ntawd. Yog tias koj tso cai rau nws los cuam tshuam hauv kev sib tham thiab cuam tshuam koj, ces koj qhia meej tias qhov no tso cai. Yog li ntawd koj yuav tsis qhia koj tus menyuam kom xav txog lwm tus thiab nrhiav ib yam dab tsi ua rau nws tus kheej. Lwm zaus koj tus menyuam sim cuam tshuam koj, qhia rau nws paub tias koj tsis khoom. Qhia seb nws ua tau dab tsi.

2. Nws exaggerates

Txhua yam pib nrog tej yam me me. Thaum xub thawj, nws hais tias nws ua tiav nws cov zaub, txawm tias qhov tseeb nws nyuam qhuav kov lawv. Qhov kev dag me me no, tau kawg, tsis muaj kev phom sij rau leej twg, tab sis tseem cov lus ntawm tus menyuam tsis sib haum rau qhov tseeb. Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias qhov no yog qhov tsis muaj tseeb, tab sis txoj kev xav dag tuaj yeem nce ntxiv rau lub sijhawm.

Muaj tseeb tiag, nws tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob mus rau plaub xyoos, tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau to taub qhov tseeb thiab kev dag dab tsi. Qhuas cov me nyuam thaum lawv qhia qhov tseeb. Qhia lawv kom ncaj ncees, txawm tias thaum nws ua rau lawv muaj teeb meem.

3. Nws ua txuj tsis hnov

Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob rov hais kom tus menyuam tso cov khoom ua si los yog nkag mus rau hauv lub tsheb. Tsis quav ntsej koj qhov kev thov ntawm nws ib feem yog kev tawm tsam rau lub zog. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, qhov no tsuas yog zuj zus.

Kom nws hais tias, "Okay, Niam (Dad). Yog tias koj tus menyuam tab tom saib TV, koj tuaj yeem tua nws. Yog tias tsim nyog, raws li kev rau txim, koj tuaj yeem deprived tus me nyuam ntawm kev lom zem - piv txwv li, txo lub sij hawm siv gadgets los ntawm ib teev mus rau ib nrab ib teev.

4. Nws ruam dhau thaum ua si.

Yog tias koj tus tub hlob ntaus nws tus kwv yau, ib txwm koj yuav cuam tshuam. Tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem tig qhov muag tsis pom qhov tsis pom tseeb ntawm kev ua phem - piv txwv li, yog tias nws thawb nws tus tij laug lossis tsis quav ntsej nws. Cov cwj pwm zoo li no yuav tsum raug tso tseg thaum muaj hnub nyoog ntxov, txwv tsis pub nws tsuas yog mob hnyav dua tom qab. Yog tias koj tso cai rau koj tus menyuam coj tus cwj pwm zoo li no, zoo li qhia nws tias nws tso cai rau lwm tus ua phem.

Muab koj tus tub tso tseg thiab piav qhia rau nws tias qhov no tsis yog txoj hauv kev ua. Tsis txhob cia nws ua si nrog cov kwv tij thiab cov muam mus txog thaum nws kawm coj tus cwj pwm zoo.

5. Nws noj khoom qab zib yam tsis tau nug

Nws yog qhov yooj yim thaum tus tub lossis tus ntxhais rub ib yam dab tsi los noj thiab qhib TV yam tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam rau koj. Thaum tus me nyuam muaj ob xyoos mus txog rau lub ncuav qab zib pw ntawm lub rooj, nws zoo li ntxim hlub. Txwv tsis pub, nws yuav saib thaum muaj yim xyoo, nws los yog nws ntawm ib tog pib lob khoom qab zib yam tsis tau tso cai. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau tsim qee cov cai hauv tsev thiab xyuas kom cov menyuam paub lawv zoo.

6. Nws yog neeg ruam

Cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem pib ua phem thaum ntxov raws li hnub nyoog preschool. Lawv coj tus cwj pwm ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv thiab saib lawv cov tshuaj tiv thaiv. Cov niam txiv feem ntau tsis mloog, xav tias qhov no yuav dhau mus. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj tso cai rau koj tus menyuam coj tus cwj pwm tsis saib xyuas, dhau sij hawm qhov xwm txheej yuav dhau los ntawm kev tswj hwm.

Qhia rau tus me nyuam paub tias koj pom li cas nws defiantly dov nws ob lub qhov muag. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas nws yuav txaj muag ntawm nws tus cwj pwm. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, piav qhia tias koj pom zoo nrog nws tham thaum nws npaj siab los hais lus zoo thiab hwm.