Rov qab mus kawm ntawv: kuv tus menyuam tseem tsis tau huv!

Kuv tus menyuam, tseem tsis huv rau lub xyoo kawm ntawv pib

Pib xyoo kawm ntawv tab tom los thiab koj tus menyuam tseem tsis huv. Yuav ua li cas qhia nws rau potty kev cob qhia yam tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab rau nws? Marielle Da Costa, tus kws saib xyuas neeg mob hauv PMI, muab tswv yim rau koj…

Qhov twg ua tau, yuav tsum tau maj mam ua. Qhov no yog vim li cas Marielle Da Costa qhia cov niam txiv, yog tias lawv tuaj yeem ua tau ua nws sab sauv. "Kuv pom ntau tus niam uas tso txhua yam mus txog thaum lawv muaj 3 xyoos, thiab tom qab ntawd nws yog kev ntxhov siab." Txawm li cas los xij, tsis txhob txhawj ! Los ntawm muab tso rau hauv ib co rituals, koj yuav muaj peev xwm pab kom tau txais kev huv ntawm koj tus me nyuam.

Kev huv: nrog koj tus menyuam tham, tsis txhob maj nws

Yog tias, ob peb lub lis piam ua ntej pib xyoo kawm ntawv, koj tus menyuam tseem tab tom nqos lub lauj kaub, nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj teeb meem rau rushing nws. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los tham nrog nws calmly. “Qhov uas cov niam txiv so ntau dua, cov me nyuam yuav ua tau zoo dua. Yog tias cov neeg laus muaj kev ntxhov siab, tus menyuam yuav hnov ​​​​nws, uas tuaj yeem thaiv nws ntxiv. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog tshwj xeeb ntseeg nws », Piav Marielle Da Costa. "Qhia rau nws tias nws tau loj hlob tam sim no, thiab nws yuav tsum mus rau hauv lub lauj kaub lossis chav dej." Nws kuj tuaj yeem tshwm sim tau tias cov menyuam yaus muaj mob plab me me, teeb meem plab hnyuv me. Hauv qhov no, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau txhawb nws, ua si hauv qhov xwm txheej ntawm nws tus menyuam uas tuaj yeem txhawj xeeb, "tus kws tshaj lij hais.

Kuj xav txog tshem daim pawm thaum nruab hnub, thaum sawv ntxov. “Cov niam txiv yuav tsum coj lawv tus menyuam mus rau chav dej ua ntej thiab tom qab pw tsaug zog. "Nws yog los ntawm kev noj qhov kev xav no kom cov me nyuam paub txog dab tsi tshwm sim hauv lawv lub cev", piav qhia Marielle Da Costa. "Peb pib maj mam, tshem cov ntaub qhwv thaum tsaug zog, tom qab pw tsaug zog thiab thaum hmo ntuj. » Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum kom xis nyob. Yog tias nws tsis nyiam lub potty, nyiam lub tso zis tso quav uas nws yuav xav tias ruaj khov dua. “Yog tias lawv nyob zoo, tus menyuam me yuav nyiam ua rau lub plab lossis tso zis. “

Kuv tus menyuam puas tuaj yeem ntxuav tau ob peb hnub?

Txhawm rau pab koj tus menyuam mos kom huv, tab sis kuj ua rau nws ntseeg siab, tsis txhob yig txhawb nws (tsis ua ntau dhau lawm). “Tshwj tsis yog cov menyuam yaus uas raug kev txom nyem los ntawm qhov teeb meem ntawm lub cev, kev nrhiav kom huv si tuaj yeem ua tiav sai. Cov me nyuam twb laus lawm nyob rau theem neurological, lawv lub hlwb muaj kev kawm, nws yog txaus rau nqis mus rau rituals. Thiab tom qab ntawd, txawm tias tsis nco qab, tus menyuam txhawj xeeb txog kev huv. Yog li ntawd tseem yog cov neeg laus ua haujlwm rau lawv tus kheej los ntawm kev muab lawv tus menyuam muaj kev ywj pheej thiab qhia lawv tus kheej tias lawv tsis yog menyuam yaus lawm. Nws kuj yog qhov zoo rautxais yuav tus cwj pwm zoo ib yam thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, tsis txhob rov qab los ntawm kev tso rau ntawm daim pawm thaum nruab hnub, piv txwv li, "piav qhia Marielle Da Costa.

Tau txais kev huv huv los ntawm kev ua si

Thaum kev cob qhia potty, qee cov me nyuam yuav nyiam tuav rov qab. Hauv qhov no, "nws yuav nthuav rau ua si dej, los ntawm kev tig tus kais rau thiab tawm, lossis los ntawm kev sau thiab tig cov thawv hauv chav da dej, piv txwv li. Qhov no tso cai rau cov menyuam yaus nkag siab tias lawv tuaj yeem ua ib yam nrog lawv lub cev. Nrog rau lub caij ntuj sov, cov niam txiv nrog lub vaj kuj tuaj yeem siv sijhawm los qhia lawv tus menyuam lub vaj hose ua haujlwm li cas, kom lawv paub txog kev tswj tus kheej uas lawv muaj peev xwm muaj dhau ntawm lawv lub cev.

Kev Ua Kom Huv Huv: Txais Kev Ua Tsis Taus

Thawj ob peb hnub ntawm kev cob qhia potty, cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem tau txais hauv lub ris. Ib qho kev thim rov qab tuaj yeem tshwm sim nws tus kheej thaum pib xyoo kawm ntawv lossis txawm tias thawj hnub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv. Thiab rau qhov laj thawj zoo, qee cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem yooj yim heev nyuaj siab los ntawm qhov chaw tshiab no, lwm tus tau sib cais los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv thawj zaug. Tab sis qhov xwm txheej me me kuj tshwm sim thaum me nyuam yaus koom nrog lawv cov kev ua si. Txawm li cas los xij, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis txhob " txhob chim, lees txais kev ua tsis tiav. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los qhia rau cov me nyuam tiaspeb muaj txoj cai tsis muaj zog, thaum hais rau lawv tias lwm zaus lawv yuav tau xav txog kev mus rau chav dej. Thaum kawg, peb yuav tsum piav qhia rau lawv tias, zoo li cov neeg laus, lawv tsis tuaj yeem txo lawv tus kheej nyob txhua qhov chaw, "tus kws tshaj lij xaus lus.