Thawj lub hlis ntawm tsev kawm ntawv, koj yuav ua li cas paub yog tias txhua yam mus zoo?

Rov qab mus kawm ntawv: muab sijhawm rau nws los hloov kho

Nws yog ib qho qub rau thawj ob peb lub lis piam rau tus menyuam kom pom cov cim txawv txawv uas qhia txog nws nyuaj adaptation, nws kev nyuaj siab nyob rau hauv lub ntsej muag ntawm novelty ”… Kev nkag mus rau hauv ntu me me ntawm qib kindergarten thiab qib thib ib yog ob theem uas yuav tsum muaj lub sijhawm hloov pauv ntau. Txog li ob peb lub hlis! Elodie Langman, tus kws qhia ntawv hauv tsev kawm tau hais. Kuv ib txwm piav qhia rau niam txiv tias mus txog rau lub Kaum Ob Hlis, lawv tus menyuam yuav tsum yoog raws. Txawm hais tias muaj cov cim qhia tias nws tsis xis nyob, lossis tias nws poob me ntsis hauv kev kawm, thawj ob peb lub hlis tsis tshua pom. “ Tab sis yog tias qhov no txuas ntxiv lossis loj dhau Christmas, peb tau txhawj xeeb! Thiab so assured. Nquag, yog tus kws qhia ntawv pom ib yam dab tsi hauv tus cwj pwm lossis kev kawm, nws qhia rau cov niam txiv thaum lub Kaum Hli.

Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob quaj tom tsev kawm ntawv?

Nws muaj ntau heev nyob rau hauv me me. Nathalie de Boisgrollier qhia peb tias: “Yog hais tias nws quaj thaum tuaj txog, qhov ntawd tsis yog lub cim qhia tias yam tsis raug. Nws qhia qhov tseeb tias nws nyuaj rau nws cais tawm ntawm koj. “ Ntawm qhov tod tes, nws tseem yog a cov ntaub ntawv kos npe yog tias tom qab peb lub lis piam nws tseem tab tom tuav koj thiab qw. Thiab "Peb yuav tsum ceev faj kom peb cov neeg laus kev ntshai thiab kev ntxhov siab tsis hnyav rau peb cov menyuam lub hnab ev ntawv! Tseeb tiag, lawv ua rau kev kawm nyuaj dua ”, nws piav. Yog li ntawd peb muab nws puag loj, peb hais tias "muaj kev lom zem, nyob zoo!" ". Zoo siab, qhia rau nws paub tias tsis muaj dab tsi phem rau peb.

Cov kab mob "me ntsis" los saib xyuas

Nyob ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm tus me nyuam, cov ntaub ntawv ntawm manifestation ntawm "Rov qab mus kawm ntawv syndrome" txawv. Lawv txhua tus qhia txog kev ntxhov siab, nyuaj dua lossis tsawg dua hauv kev kov yeej qhov tshiab thiab lub neej tom tsev kawm ntawv. Lub tsev noj mov, tshwj xeeb, feem ntau yog qhov kev ntxhov siab rau cov menyuam yaus. Npau suav phem, tshem tawm rau hauv tus kheej, mob plab, mob taub hau thaum sawv ntxov, cov no yog cov tsos mob uas rov qab los ntau dua. Los yog, nws tau huv si txog tam sim no thiab tam sim ntawd nws tau ntub lub txaj. Yog tsis muaj laj thawj kev kho mob (los yog tuaj txog ntawm tus viv ncaus), nws yog kev ntxhov siab rau kev mus kawm ntawv! Tsis tas li ntawd, nws yuav tsis xis nyob, chim siab dua li niaj zaus. Kev piav qhia los ntawm Nathalie de Boisgrollier: “Tus menyuam mos liab tau mob siab rau, nws tuav nws tus kheej zoo, thiab tswj hwm, mloog cov lus qhia txhua hnub. Nws yuav tsum tau tso siab. Muab sij hawm los tso pa tawm. “ Li no qhov tseem ceeb ntawm coj nws mus rau lub square or rov qab mus tsev los ntawm ko taw tom qab kawm ntawv! Nws pab txo kev ntxhov siab.

Txhawb koj lub siab

Txhua yam nws tau ua yog saib nruj heev los ntawm tus kws qhia lossis qhov tsis kam ntawm ib tug phooj ywg los ua si nrog nws thaum so hnub ntawd, tsis yog nyob hauv ib chav kawm li nws tus phooj ywg xyoo tas los, thiab ntawm no yog qee qhov "Cov ntsiab lus me me" uas ua rau nws ntxhov siab. Rau qhov tiag. Txawm li cas los xij, peb yuav tsum tsis txhob xav tias nws yog qhov txaus ntshai hauv tsev kawm lossis nyuaj rau nws. Koj yuav tsum nrog koj tus menyuam mus txais tos koj tej kev xav. Cov menyuam yaus hauv kindergarten thiab thaum pib lub tsev kawm ntawv theem pib tsis tas yuav tsum muaj cov lus lossis kev paub txog qhov tshwm sim hauv lawv, piav qhia Nathalie de Boisgrollier. “Nws muaj kev xav ntawm txoj kev chim siab, tu siab, ntshai, uas nws yuav qhia los ntawm tus cwj pwm ntawm somatization los yog tsis tsim nyog rau koj, xws li aggression piv txwv. “ Nws yog nyob ntawm peb los pab nws qhia nws tus kheej li qhov ua tau, los ntawm kev hais lus nws txoj kev xav: “Koj puas ntshai (ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv, ntawm tus menyuam yaus uas ua rau koj…)? Tsis txhob qhia nws "tab sis tsis yog, tsis muaj dab tsi", uas tsis lees paub qhov kev xav thiab kev pheej hmoo ua rau nws kav ntev. Ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, reassure nws los ntawm mloog lus : “Yog koj tu siab, yog koj tus hluas nkauj loj me ntsis ntshai koj, nws tshwm sim. Tham txog koj tus kheej kev paub hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Thiab yog tias nws tsis hais dab tsi, yog tias nws raug txwv, tej zaum nws tuaj yeem qhia nws tus kheej los ntawm kev kos duab.

Sim nrhiav seb nws ua dab tsi hauv tsev kawm ntawv

Peb pab tsis tau nws! Thaum yav tsaus ntuj, nyuam qhuav dhau lub qhov rooj ntawm lub tsev, peb maj nrawm rau ntawm peb tus tub kawm tshiab, thiab hauv lub suab zoo siab, peb hais tus nto moo "Yog li hnub no koj ua dab tsi, kuv tus qaib?" »… Silence. Peb nug cov lus nug dua, ib qho tad ntau intrusive ... Tsis txawm nres ua si, nws muab rau peb ib tug "zoo, tsis muaj dab tsi" raws li pom tseeb! Peb ua siab ntev: nws ntxhov siab, tab sis tsis txhawj xeeb! "Yog hais tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nug koj tus menyuam cov lus nug ntau los qhia nws tias peb nyiam nws hnub, nws yog ib qho uas nws tsis teb, vim nws nyuaj rau nws, tsom xam Elodie Langman. Nws yog ib hnub ntev. Nws yog tag nrho ntawm kev xav, zoo los tsis yog, kev soj ntsuam, kev kawm, thiab lub neej txhua lub sijhawm, rau nws thiab nyob ib puag ncig nws. Txawm tias cov menyuam hais lus los yog leej twg hais tau yooj yim txaus qhia me ntsis txog cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev kawm. “ Nathalie de Boisgrollier ntxiv: "Thaum muaj 3 xyoos thaum nws muaj 7 xyoos, nws nyuaj vim nws tsis paub cov lus, lossis nws xav txav mus los, lossis nws yuav tsum tso tawm chav ..."Cov. Yog li, cia nws tshuab ! Feem ntau nws yog hnub tom qab, thaum noj tshais, cov ntsiab lus yuav rov qab los rau nws. Thiab pib los ntawm kev qhia koj tus kheej zaj dab neeg! Nug cov lus nug tshwj xeeb, nws yuav tau nyem! "Koj ua si nrog leej twg?" “,” Lub npe ntawm koj zaj paj huam yog dab tsi? »… Thiab rau cov me nyuam yaus, thov kom nws hu nkauj zaj nkauj uas nws tab tom kawm. Zoo dua: "Koj puas tau ntaus pob lossis leapfrog?" "Nws yuav teb koj txhua lub sijhawm" oh yog, Kuv tau seev cev! ".

Tos tsis txhais hais tias tsis ua dab tsi

“Yog tias nws tsis mus lossis koj muaj kev tsis ntseeg, nws yog qhov tsim nyog teem caij ntxov heev, txawm tias lub Cuaj Hlis, los piav qhia rau tus kws qhia txog qhov tshwj xeeb ntawm koj tus menyuam, thiab nws paub tias muaj cov cim me me ntawm qhov tsis xis nyob, qhia Elodie Langman. Tias nws tsis loj thiab muaj lub sijhawm ib txwm hloov kho, thiab qhov tseeb ntawm kev tiv thaiv lub koom haum ntawm cov teeb meem me me tsis yog qhov sib txawv! Xwb, thaum tus tswv los yog poj niam paub hais tias tus me nyuam yog kev chim siab, los yog ntxhov siab, nws yuav ceev faj. Tsis tas li ntawd yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj kev nkag siab zoo thiab nws ntshai nws tus kws qhia, nws tseem ceeb heev kom ntsib nws. "Qhov no yuav pab tsim kom muaj kev nyab xeeb ntawm kev ntseeg siab", xaus tus kws qhia ntawv!