Puas muaj tsev kawm ntawv tso cov tub hluas?
Lub Rau Hli 28, 2007 - Lub tsev kawm ntawv tsis txaus siab rau cov tub hluas, yog li tsis muaj kev txaus siab ntawm ntau tus ntawm lawv txoj kev kawm ntxiv.
Qhov no yog qhov kev soj ntsuam ntawm psychologist William Pollack1, los ntawm Harvard University Tsev Kawm Ntawv Tshuaj Kho Mob. Cov qauv no tuaj yeem pom ntau npaum li hauv Tebchaws Meskas thiab Canada ib yam li nyob rau ntau lub tebchaws sab hnub poob.
Quebec tsis muaj qhov tshwj xeeb: "Xya tawm ntawm kaum tawm yog txiv neej," nws hais. Tus nqi kawm ntawv tau nce siab hauv cov tsev neeg tsis zoo: 43% ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas Quebecers los ntawm cov keeb kwm no tsis muaj daim ntawv kawm tiav high school.
Txawm tias ua ntej tawm mus, cov tub hluas nrhiav tau lawv qhov chaw nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv nyuaj. "Txawm li cas los xij, lawv tau txais kev pab ob zaug ntau npaum li cov ntxhais", thov William Pollack. Hauv Tebchaws Meskas, cov menyuam yaus tabtom tawm tsam cov chav kawm tshwj xeeb â € "qhov twg cov menyuam yaus ntsib kev nyuaj. Lawv sawv cev tsis pub tsawg dua 70% ntawm cov lej hauv cov chav kawm no.
Peb kawm li cas? “Muaj ntau tus ntxhais kawm los ntawm kev mloog lawv cov kws qhia lossis kev soj ntsuam. Raws li cov tub hluas, lawv nyiam kawm los ntawm kev sim - los ntawm kev ua lawv tus kheej. Cov chav kawm feem ntau tsis haum rau txoj kev ua no. Yog li ntawd, ib tug me nyuam tub tej zaum yuav dhuav los yog nyob tsis tswm thiab raug sau nrog cov teeb meem ntawm kev coj cwj pwm, kev tsis pom kev tsis txaus siab, los yog kev mob siab rau.2. " William Pollack |
“Lawv puas muaj peev xwm tsawg dua thaum yug los? ", Tshaj tawm William Pollack hauv daim ntawv tso dag. Tus kws kho hlwb tsis teb nws cov lus nug ncaj qha. Tab sis cov piv txwv uas nws muab los qhia txog nws lub ntsiab lus qhia meej tias nws tsis ntseeg nws.
Raws li nws, lub tsev kawm ntawv system tsis hwm cov kev xav tau tshwj xeeb ntawm cov tub. Lub sijhawm so yog qhov piv txwv zoo. Txhawm rau kom ua tiav lawv qhov xav tau txav mus los, cov tub ntxhais kawm cov txiv neej yuav tsum muaj tsib lub sijhawm so. “Tab sis nws tsis yog qhov phem thaum lawv muaj ib qho. Thiab qee zaum tsis muaj dab tsi hlo li, ”nws hais nrog kev tu siab.
Hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab
Qhov kev tsis sib xws ntawm cov ntxhais thiab cov tub hluas txuas ntxiv mus txog rau qib siab. "Lawv ua tau zoo dua thiab zoo dua thaum lawv tsis muaj kev vam meej dua li kaum xyoo dhau los," tus kws tshawb fawb Asmeskas tau hais.
Thoob plaws tebchaws Western, 33% ntawm cov poj niam hnub nyoog 25 txog 45 xyoos tau kawm tiav tsev kawm qib siab piv rau 28% ntawm cov txiv neej hauv tib pab pawg hnub nyoog3. Qhov sib txawv yog li ntawd yuav nthuav dav ntxiv nyob rau ob peb xyoos tom ntej no.
William Pollack hais txog kev tshawb fawb ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Cov qub devote NW nyuam qhuav peb teev rau lawv cov kev kawm nyob rau hauv ib lub lis piam. Cov ntxhais hluas ua tsib zaug ntxiv!
Ua si los ua "cov txiv neej tiag tiag"
Vim li cas cov menyuam yaus thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas ntsib kev nyuaj siab heev ntawm txoj kev mus rau kev kawm tiav? William Pollack piav txog nws hauv kab lus uas tsis txaus ntseeg: “Lawv xav tias 'tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam' ntawm lawv tus kheej thiab los ntawm zej zog. “
Qee lub sij hawm tsis nco qab, tsev neeg thiab tsev kawm ntawv qhia lawv kom ua raws li tus txiv neej " tawv, tseem ceeb, "macho" yuav tsum yog, raws li nws. Qhov tshwm sim: lawv kawm zais lawv cov kev xav tiag tiag. "Muaj ntau tus tub tu siab, cais thiab ntxhov siab txawm tias lawv zoo li thaum xub thawj siab tawv, zoo siab lossis ntseeg siab," nws hais hauv nws phau ntawv muag khoom zoo tshaj plaws, Cov tub tiag4.
Qhov kev pheej hmoo yog qhov zoo heev, rau lawv, ntawm kev poob hauv av. Txawm hais tias peb xav txog kev quav yeeb tshuaj, kev nyuaj siab lossis kev tua tus kheej uas lawv nthuav tawm ntau dua, nco qab tus kws tshawb fawb.
Reconnect nrog lawv
Yuav ua li cas thiaj pab tau lawv? "Muaj kev sib koom siab," nws hais. Cov niam txiv thiab cov kws qhia ntawv ib yam nkaus yuav tsum, raws li nws hais, rov txuas nrog cov tub hluas: ua si nrog lawv, mloog lawv yuav tsum hais… muaj nuj nqis heev rau menyuam yaus.
William Pollack tau mob siab rau kev sim ua los txhawb kev kawm tiav rau cov menyuam kawm ntawv5, suav nrog kev cob qhia. “Nyob rau hauv txhua lub tsev kawm ntawv uas tau muab kev cob qhia, tus nqi kawm ntawv tau poob qis. Txhua tus tub tuaj yeem tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog nws tus kws cob qhia, ”nws hais. Qhov cuam tshuam tau loj heev.
"Peb muaj zog heev," tus kws tshawb fawb txog kev puas siab puas ntsws txuas ntxiv mus. Peb muaj peev xwm tig tau tus dej ntws… thiab pab peb cov menyuam tsis yog thaum muaj hnub nyoog 4 lossis 5 xyoos xwb, tab sis thoob plaws hauv lawv lub neej! “
Cov me nyuam txawj ntse thiab zoo siab? Kev mob siab rau cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem them nyiaj loj. William Pollack ua rau peb nco txog qhov no los ntawm kev qhia txog qhov kev hlub thiab kev sov siab ntawm tsev neeg thiab tsev kawm ntawv tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau menyuam txoj kev vam meej.
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1. William Pollack yog tus sau Cov tub tiag, ib phau ntawv uas ntaus US bookstore thaum lig 1990s. Nws kuj tau sau Tub Ntsuag Lub Suab et Phau Ntawv Tub Hluas. Nws tau hais lus qhuab qhia hauv lub moj khaum ntawm 13e ib tsab ntawm Montreal Conference uas tau tshwm sim thaum Lub Rau Hli 18 txog 21, 2007.
2. Dawb txhais lus, rho tawm los ntawm Cov tub tiag : www.williampollack.com [accessed June 27, 2007].
3. Cov ntaub ntawv los ntawm Lub Koom Haum rau Kev Lag Luam Kev Lag Luam thiab Kev Txhim Kho (OECD), hais los ntawm William Pollack.
4. Cov tub tiag tau luam tawm hauv Fab Kis: Pollack W. Cov txiv neej tiag, Varennes, Editions AdA-Inc, 2001, 665 p.
5. William Pollack tau hais txog kev ua haujlwm ntawm Robert Pianta ntawm University of Virginia. Ib qho piv txwv: Hamre BK, Pianta RC. Kev qhia ntawv thiab kev txhawb siab hauv chav kawm thawj zaug puas tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev sib txawv rau cov menyuam yaus uas muaj kev pheej hmoo ntawm tsev kawm ntawv tsis raug?, Tus Menyuam Dev, 2005 Sep-Oct;76(5):949-67.