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- 11 lub tswv yim npaj rau tus menyuam tuaj txog
- Qhia rau nws yam tsis tau hla dhau
- Cia siab rau nws
- Kom nws koom
- Nco ntsoov tus nqi ntawm tus qauv
- Tsis txhob sib cais thaum yug menyuam
- Saib cov duab / yeeb yaj kiab ntawm nws tus menyuam
- Nrog nws poob siab
- Cia nws regress
- Txhawb koj qhov chaw ua tus laus
- Tsim cov kwv tij
- Pab, me nyuam loj hlob tuaj
11 lub tswv yim npaj rau tus menyuam tuaj txog
Qhia rau nws yam tsis tau hla dhau
Koj tuaj yeem qhia koj tus menyuam tias koj tab tom tos menyuam thaum twg koj xav tau. Tsis tas yuav tos qhov kev tswj hwm peb lub hlis. Cov menyuam yaus hnov txog tej yam thiab yuav muaj kev ntseeg siab dua tias tsis muaj kev zais thiab ntxhi. Txawm li cas los xij, thaum tshaj tawm, cia koj tus menyuam hnov qab raws li lawv xav tau thiab tsuas yog rov qab los rau nws yog tias lawv nug. Cuaj hlis yog ib lub sij hawm ntev, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau ib tug me me, thiab tham txhua lub sij hawm txog ib tug me nyuam mos yuav txaus ntshai. Qhov tseeb, nws yog feem ntau thaum lub plab yog qhov sib npaug uas cov lus nug rov tshwm sim thiab peb pib tham txog lawv tiag tiag.
Cia siab rau nws
Niam lub siab tsis muab faib los ntawm cov menyuam uas nws muaj, nws txoj kev hlub sib npaug nrog txhua qhov yug. Nov yog qhov koj tus menyuam yuav tsum hnov… thiab hnov dua. Txoj kev khib nws yuav txhim kho rau tus menyuam yog qhov qub thiab tsim qauv, thiab sai li sai tau thaum nws tshaj nws, nws yuav tawm ntawm nws loj hlob. Tseeb tiag, nws kawm qhia, tsis yog nws niam nws txiv xwb, tab sis kuj yog nws ib puag ncig thiab nws txoj kev hlub. Ntawm koj sab, tsis txhob xav tias txhaum. Koj tsis ntxeev siab rau nws, txawm tias nws tsis zoo siab rau ib pliag, koj tab tom txhim tsa tsev neeg rau nws, kev sib raug zoo tsis sib haum xeeb… cov kwv tij! Nco ntsoov, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, tias koj tus menyuam hlob yuav tsum xav tias nws yog thiab tseem yog qhov kev zoo siab rau koj thiab nws txiv, yog li tsis txhob yig qhia nws thiab ua rau nws xav.
Kom nws koom
Koj tus me nyuam pom koj "tsis khoom" nyob ib ncig ntawm txhua yam ntawm tus menyuam hauv plab thiab qee zaum xav tias tawm mus. Qee yam kev ua, xws li kev mus ntsib ua ntej yug menyuam, tau tshwj tseg rau cov neeg laus, koj tuaj yeem koom nrog cov txwj laus hauv lwm txoj kev. Npaj chav tsev piv txwv, nug nws lub tswv yim, tejzaum nws muab rau nws (tsis yuam nws) qiv lossis muab cov tsiaj ntim khoom… Ib yam li ntawd, tej zaum koj tau khaws qee qhov ntxhua khaub ncaws rau koj thawj tus menyuam: txheeb nws nrog tus menyuam hlob. Qhov no yog lub sijhawm los piav qhia ntau yam rau nws: nws yog nws ua ntej, koj tau muab lub tsho xiav me me no rau lub sijhawm zoo li no, tus menyuam mos liab no nyob hauv nws lub txaj thaum nws nyob hauv tsev kho mob…. Lub sijhawm zoo los tham nrog nws txog koj qhov kev paub nrog nws dua.
Nco ntsoov tus nqi ntawm tus qauv
Yog tias koj tus menyuam tam sim no tsuas yog ib leeg hauv tsev neeg, koj tuaj yeem qhia nws cov qauv ntawm cov kwv tij, ntawm tsev neeg uas tau loj hlob. Qhia nws txog nws cov phooj ywg me uas muaj ib tug nus muag. Thiab qhia nws txog koj tsev neeg, qhia koj cov kev nco thaum yau nrog koj cov kwv tij. Txhawb nqa qhov kev ua si, kev ntseeg siab, cov lus piav qhia funny, giggles. Tsis txhob zais kev sib cav thiab kev khib kom nws nkag siab tias, yog tias qhov uas tos nws tsuas yog kev zoo siab xwb, nws txoj kev khib siab yeej zoo kawg nkaus. Thaum kawg, siv ntau phau ntawv uas muaj nyob rau ntawm yug me nyuam kwv tij los yog muam thiab qhov uas ua tau zoo heev. Lawv feem ntau dhau los ua phau ntawv txaj txaj rau cov laus yav tom ntej.
Tsis txhob sib cais thaum yug menyuam
Nws tsis yog ib txwm pom tseeb tab sis qhov zoo tagnrho thaum yug menyuam yog hais tias tus hlob nyob nrog nws txiv nyob rau hauv nws ib txwm nyob ib puag ncig. Qhov no tso cai rau nws tsis txhob hnov qab los yog xav tias ib yam dab tsi zais ntawm nws. Nws tuaj yeem koom nrog los ntawm kev tuaj ntsib nws niam thiab tus menyuam tshiab ntawm lub tsev laus maternity, thiab nws yuav xav tias muaj nuj nqis los koom noj hmo loj nrog txiv thaum yav tsaus ntuj los. Nws tsis yog ib txwm ua tau li no, tab sis qhov tseem ceeb yog piav qhia tias yuav ua li cas, koj yuav tsis mus ntev npaum li cas, vim li cas koj nyob hauv tsev kho mob nrog tus menyuam, leej txiv ua dab tsi thaum lub sijhawm no. sijhawm…
Saib cov duab / yeeb yaj kiab ntawm nws tus menyuam
Cov menyuam yaus nyiam sib ntsib dua thiab nkag siab tias lawv kuj muaj lawv ” lub sijhawm muaj yeeb koob ". Yog hais tias koj khaws cia, qhia nws cov khoom plig me me uas nws tus kheej tau txais, cov lus zoo siab. Piav rau nws seb koj tau ua dab tsi nrog nws thaum nws tseem yog menyuam yaus, koj saib xyuas nws li cas... Qhia nws seb nws nyob li cas, nws hlub thiab qhia nws tias koj hlub nws thiab nws yog ib tug me nyuam zoo nkauj: vim qhov ntawd yog qhov nws txhais tau ntau heev rau tus yug tshiab!
Nrog nws poob siab
Thaum kawg, tus me nyuam no tsis lom zem! Nws tsis txav, tsis koom nrog hauv kev ua si, tab sis tiag tiag monopolizes niam. Ntau tus niam tau hnov cov lus qab no ” thaum twg peb coj nws rov qab? ». Yog Al uas suab zoo nkauj rau kuv, Zoo li BT tsis yog rau kuv thiab. Cia nws qhia nws txoj kev poob siab. Tsis muaj lus nug txog kev hlub nyob ntawd. Koj tus menyuam tsuas yog qhia qhov xav tsis thoob thiab tsis txaus siab. Nws tau muaj lub tswv yim meej tias yuav ua li cas thiaj li muaj ib tug kwv tij lossis ib tug muam thiab tej yam tsis mus raws li nws tau npaj tseg. Nws kuj tseem yuav paub sai sai tias, rau lub sijhawm no, tus menyuam tsis tau txais nws qhov chaw txij li nws tseem tsis tau zoo li nws.
Cia nws regress
Muaj ib txwm lub sij hawm ntawm regression thaum me me tuaj txog. Thaum lawv hlub, cov me nyuam txheeb nrog ib leeg. Yog li ntawd thaum nws ntub lub txaj los yog thov ib lub raj mis, koj tus hlob tab tom rov los ua "zoo li tus menyuam ntawd" uas txhua tus nyiam. Tab sis nws kuj xav ua zoo li nws tus kwv vim nws hlub nws. Peb yuav tsum tsis txhob txwv tab sis hais lus. Qhia rau nws tias koj nkag siab tias yog vim li cas nws thiaj xav kom muaj lub raj mis piv txwv (tsis yog tus menyuam mos). Nws ua si thaum nws yog menyuam yaus, thiab koj lees txais qhov ntawd rau qee yam. Cov theem no, ib txwm muaj, feem ntau dhau los ntawm nws tus kheej thaum tus menyuam paub tias nws tsis yog lom zem heev rau menyuam yaus!
Txhawb koj qhov chaw ua tus laus
Tus hlob ntawm tsev neeg muaj cai tsis tas yuav tsum tau faib nws niam thaum nws tseem yog menyuam yaus. Qee zaum nws yog qhov zoo kom nco qab nws, nrog rau daim duab lossis zaj duab xis rov qab nws. Tsis tas li ntawd, tib txoj kev nws tau pom sai sai tias nws tsis txaus nyiam ua si me nyuam, koj tus hlob yuav nkag siab sai npaum li cas yog "tus loj", tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj pab nws. Qhia rau txhua lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb uas koj lossis txiv muaj nrog nws tshwj xeeb (vim tias koj tsis tuaj yeem nrog tus menyuam). Mus noj mov, ua si, saib tas luav…. Nyob rau hauv luv luv, ua loj muab nws zoo uas tus me tsis muaj.
Tsim cov kwv tij
Txawm hais tias koj khaws lub sijhawm " siab Nrog tus txwj laus, qhov thim rov qab yog qhov tseem ceeb. Tsev neeg yog ib qho chaw. Ua duab ob tug me nyuam ua ke. Tus me nyuam yog lub hnub qub, tab sis tsis txhob saib qhov loj dua. Qee lub sij hawm nws yuav pab tau ntau yam khoom plig rau menyuam roj hmab thiab txawm tias me me stroller rau tus menyuam loj los ua rau lawv xav tias lawv tau sib qhia zaj dab neeg yug tiag tiag. Kuj txhawb kom nws pab koj yog tias nws xav tau: muab lub raj mis, mus nqa daim pawm ... Thaum kawg, tom qab ob peb lub lis piam, da dej yog thawj qhov haujlwm tiag tiag uas cov nus muag tuaj yeem sib koom.
Pab, me nyuam loj hlob tuaj
Nws yog thaum tus yau tshaj yog nyob nruab nrab ntawm 1 thiab 2 xyoos uas tej yam nyuaj heev. Nws siv ntau qhov chaw, coj nws cov khoom ua si, qw nrov nrov… Hauv luv luv, peb pom nws thiab qee zaum nws ua rau tus menyuam hlob tsis nco qab. Feem ntau kev khib siab yog nyob rau hauv lub ncov ntawm lub sij hawm no, raws li tus me nyuam sim coj nws qhov chaw nyob rau hauv cov kwv tij thiab nyob rau hauv lub siab ntawm cov niam txiv. Tam sim no yog ntau dua li lub sijhawm los qhia kev ua ub ua no nrog nws, ua rau nws xav tias nws tshwj xeeb thiab tshwj xeeb npaum li cas.