Nws yog ib txwm rau peb kom txaj muag niam. Rau dab tsi? Yog, rau txhua yam. Ua kom txaus siab rau txhua tus yog txoj haujlwm tsis yooj yim sua. Koj hnav koj tus menyuam sov heev lossis hnyav dhau, koj tus menyuam tsis txaus ntseeg ntsiag to lossis nrov nrov, plump dhau lossis zoo li tsis muaj zaub mov. Yuav ua li cas, nws twb yog ib xyoos thiab ib nrab lawm, thiab koj tseem tsis coj nws mus kawm Montessori? Koj tsis yog leej niam kiag li! Cuckoo!
Koj puas xav tias koj yog leej niam uas qias neeg? Damn txoj cai, koj hais yog kiag li!
Thiab qhov no tsis yog vim qee yam tsis raug rau koj. Yuav tsuas muaj ib tus neeg uas yuav tsis nyiam koj txoj kev ua niam ua txiv. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, lawv tus kheej kev saib xyuas (thov txim rau qhov tautology tu siab) yuav tso cai rau lawv hais tawm lawv cov lus thov rau koj tus kheej.
"Lub hnub qub xwm txheej" tsis yog ib qho amulet tiv thaiv kev thuam. Thiab txawm tias ntawm qhov tsis sib xws: nws zoo li khaub ncaws liab rau tus nyuj. Cov piv txwv tsis ntev los no suav nrog Anfisa Chekhova, uas nws cov neeg siv khoom tau poob siab tias nws tus tub tau noj cov nplej zom nrog nws txhais tes. Thiab txawm nrog cov duab tas lauv! Ua txhaum, koj tsis tuaj yeem zam txim. Los yog Maxim Vitorgan, uas yuav luag "noj ciaj sia" rau qhov ua rau mob siab rau koom nrog "phom sij" ntaus kis las nrog nws tus tub. Thiab Ksenia Sobchak? Yuav ua li cas twv nws tso lub xov tooj ntawm qee yam kev tawm dag zog, thaum nws tau zaum hauv tsev thiab ua viav vias nws tus tub. "Dab tsi yog lub npe ruam," cov thwjtim sau ntawv mus rau Anna Sedokova thaum lawv kawm tias nws lub npe nws tus tub Hector.
Koj puas xav tias tus cwj pwm no yog qhov tshwj xeeb ntawm kev xav ntawm Lavxias? Cia peb poob siab. Cov niam nyob thoob plaws lub ntiaj teb raug kev txom nyem los ntawm "kev xav tau zoo". Qhov tshwm sim no nyob rau sab Hnub Poob txawm tuaj nrog lub npe “mumshaming” (los ntawm lo lus txaj muag - txaj muag).
Dab tsi niam tau hnov ntawm lawv tus kheej rau lub sijhawm ntev tam sim no tau lees paub los ntawm kev txheeb cais. Txoj kev tshawb fawb no tau ua hauv Tebchaws Meskas los ntawm kev xaj ntawm Charles Stuart Mott Children's Hospital. Cov poj niam nrog menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua tsib xyoos tau xam phaj - qhov no, raws li nws tau muab tawm, yog cov neeg tuaj saib "yooj yim tshaj plaws". Thiab ntawm no yog peb lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb:
1. Tag nrho, ob feem peb ntawm cov niam (thiab yuav luag tsib caug ntawm lawv tau koom nrog hauv daim ntawv tshuaj ntsuam) raug thuam hauv kev cuam tshuam nrog lawv cov menyuam.
2. Feem ntau, niam raug thuam los ntawm lawv tsev neeg.
3. Peb qhov kev thuam feem ntau yog: qhuab qhia, noj zaub mov zoo, pw tsaug zog.
Tam sim no rau cov ntsiab lus. Feem ntau (61% ntawm cov neeg teb) niam hluas yeej raug thuam los ntawm cov txheeb ze: tus txiv, niam-txiv, txawm yog niam. Muab piv rau daim duab no, kev thuam ntawm cov phooj ywg thiab cov phooj ywg, txawm hais tias nws nyob hauv qhov thib ob, zoo li yuav luag tsis raug - tsuas yog 14%. Qhov thib peb yog "niam" los ntawm chaw ua si. Cov uas ib txwm paub yuav ua li cas tsa menyuam yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab tsis txhob ua siab deb hais lus rau tus neeg txawv. Ntxiv mus, ntawm qhov me me - cov lus tawm tswv yim ntawm kev sib tham hauv network thiab kws kho mob hauv tsev kho mob.
Thiab nws yog ib nrab qhov teeb meem yog tias txhua tus phooj ywg no tau tawm tsam ib leeg. Txawm li cas los xij, txhua tus niam plaub tus xam phaj tau lees tias nws raug tawm tsam los ntawm cov neeg sawv cev ntawm peb lossis ntau pawg sib txawv ntawm cov neeg thuam.
Dab tsi yog qhov uas cov neeg ntxub tsis nyiam? Ua ntej tshaj plaws, tau kawg, tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam. Qhov no tau sau tseg los ntawm 70 feem pua ntawm cov neeg teb. Suab nrov dhau, nrov nrov, tsis zoo, ib yam nkaus ... Qhov tsis zoo ntawm koj tus menyuam tau npaj los saib yuav luag txhua yam.
Qhov thib ob thiab thib peb yog qhov kev thuam ntawm kev noj zaub mov thiab pw tsaug zog. Peb cog lus tias, pog yawg nyob ib leeg ntawm no. Tom qab ntawd muaj "kev tawm tsam" ntawm cov neeg txhawb nqa thiab tawm tsam kev pub niam mis.
Cov niam ua dab tsi thaum lawv raug thuam? Kuv xav qhia rau peb tias cov lus tsis txaus ntseeg raug tsis quav ntsej. Tab sis tsis Lawv cov lus hais txog. Ntau tus pib nrhiav cov ntaub ntawv ntawm cov ncauj lus ntawm lawv tus kheej lossis nug tus kws kho mob cov lus nug kom paub tseeb tias lawv raug lossis yog tus neeg sib tw. Me ntsis ntau dua li ib feem peb ntawm cov poj niam hais tias kev thuam thuam lawv kom hloov pauv lawv txoj kev xav txog kev saib xyuas menyuam lossis tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam.
Tib lub sijhawm, 42 feem pua ntawm cov niam uas tshawb fawb tau lees paub: lawv pib muaj kev nyab xeeb ntau dua tom qab kev thuam, txawm tias tsis muaj qhov tseeb. 56 feem pua nres thuam lwm tus poj niam tom qab ntsib nws zoo li cas. Thiab daim duab kawg-ib nrab ntawm cov niam tsis txhob sib txuas lus nrog "kev xav tau zoo" thiab sim zam lawv. Yog li, yog tias koj yog tus paub-nws-txhua yam, xav txog qhov koj nyiam tshaj: qhia kev xav lossis khaws tus phooj ywg zoo.