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Qhov chaw ua si: qhov chaw nruj
Kev so yog lub sijhawm so ntawm lub sijhawm uas cov menyuam yaus tawm mus rau lawv tus kheej cov khoom siv. Nyob deb los ntawm cov neeg laus saib, lawv yog li poob tag nrho txoj kev xav ntawm kev tswj hwm thiab tso tawm chav ntawm lawv tus kheej, uas feem ntau ua rau cov neeg muaj zog tshaj plaws los siv lawv lub hwj chim tshaj qhov rhiab tshaj plaws. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj hnub nyoog no, lawv tseem tsis paub qhov txawv ntawm kev ua si nrog lwm tus menyuam thiab thawb nws, thawb nws, ntaus nws. Ceev faj tsis txhob dramatize qhov teeb meem sai heev, vim hais tias cov tensions thiab Teeb meem uas tshwm sim hauv chaw ua si kuj tso cai rau tus menyuam loj hlob.
Decipher cov cim ntawm kev tsis xis nyob
Npau suav phem, tu siab, mob plab, ntshai mus kawm ntawv, hloov tus cwj pwm hauv tsev… yog tag nrho cov cim qhia tias koj tus menyuam raug kev txom nyem ntawm unease. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov no tuaj yeem yog vim kev ua phem los ntawm lwm cov menyuam yaus hauv chaw ua si nrog rau ntau yam teeb meem. Tsuas yog koj qhov ceev faj thiab tham nrog koj tus menyuam yuav txiav txim siab yog qhov no kev ua siab phem yog qhov ua rau nws tsis xis nyob.
Pab koj tus menyuam kom lees paub nws tus kheej hauv tsev kawm ntawv
Thaum uas qhia koj qhov kev txhawb nqa, ceev faj tsis txhob xauv koj tus menyuam nyob rau hauv txoj haujlwm cov neeg raug. Ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, txhawb nws hauv nws txoj kev ywj pheej los ntawm kev thawb nws mus nrhiav nws tus kheej, hauv nws cov peev txheej, yuav daws qhov teeb meem no li cas. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog kom tshem tawm nrog nws dab tsi tuaj yeem ua rau qhov xwm txheej no kom nws nkag siab qhov laj thawj ntawm nws. Koj tuaj yeem qhia nws hauv qab kev ua si daim ntawv, los ntawm kev ua lub luag haujlwm ntawm tus neeg raug tsim txom thiab koj tus menyuam ntawm tus neeg ua phem, yuav ua li cas yog tias qhov xwm txheej rov tshwm sim, yuav ua li cas hu rau cov neeg laus nyob ze thiab tiv thaiv koj tus kheej tawm tsam. Los ntawm kev ntxiv dag zog rau lawv tus kheej kev ntseeg siab, koj tus menyuam yuav tswj kom tsis txhob ua cov cim ntawm kev ua siab phem no ntxiv lawm, thiab tsis txhob cia lawv tus kheej kov lawv. thuam thiab thaum kawg ua rau lwm tus phooj ywg.
Txhaum kev cais
cov ib cov niam cov txiv yog leej twg tsis kam taug kev hauv tsev kawm ntawv, tsis txhob hais lus rau lwm tus niam txiv ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm, lossis rau tus kws qhia ntawv, tsim kom cov menyuam raug tsim txom yooj yim dua. Qhov kawg no rov tsim dua tus cwj pwm ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv los ntawm kev nyob hauv lawv lub ces kaum ntawm kev so lossis them nyiaj los ntawm kev nruj kev tsiv. Lawv yog li pom los ntawm lwm cov me nyuam, vim hais tias lawv twb posed li txawv, uas nyiam lub luag hauj lwm ntawm scapegoat. Yog li ntawd, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas cov niam txiv tuaj sib tham thiab tsis txhob yig mus ntsib tus kws qhia, tab sis tsis txhob ua ntau dhau, vim cov niam txiv uas muaj ntau dhau lawm tseem pheej hmoo pom lawv tus menyuam raug thuam thiab raug hu ua menyuam yaus hauv chaw ua si.
Koom nrog tus kws qhia ntawv
Tus kws qhia ntawv siv rau qhov teeb meem no thiab nws feem ntau muaj kev pom tseeb ntawm qhov txaus ntshai. Yog li ntawd nws tuaj yeem qhia rau koj yog tias nws tau pom tseeb tias koj tus menyuam raug coj mus ua haujlwm los ntawm ib tus phooj ywg hauv chav kawm lossis pib saib xyuas thiab qhia koj paub. Qhov no yuav ua rau nws yooj yim dua rau koj tham txog nws nrog koj tus menyuam raws li cov ntaub ntawv nws muab rau koj. Tsis tas li ntawd, koj daim ntawv qhia kuj yuav tso cai rau tus kws qhia ntawv Mus cuam tshuam nrog cov me nyuam incriminated yog tias qhov xwm txheej tseem muaj. Ntawm qhov tod tes, tsis txhob sim daws cov dab neeg ntawm koj tus kheej los ntawm kev mus ntsib lawv niam lawv txiv kom tsis txhob muaj kev pheej hmoo rov tsim dua nrog lawv qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov menyuam yaus.
Xav txog kev hloov tsev kawm ntawv
Yog hais tias tus xib fwb tsis hnov, tsis txhob yig tig mus tus thawj tswj tsev kawm ntawv. Thiab yog tias koj tus menyuam raug mob hnyav, lossis txawm raug tsim txom, thiab lawv qhov kev tsis xis nyob tsis raug coj los xav, ces koj yuav tsum xav txog nws. hloov chaw. Qhov kev xaiv no yuav tsum tsis txhob xav tias nyob rau hauv ib tug maj, tab sis nyob rau hauv kawg tuamyeem thiab tsis muaj dramatizing, thiaj li tsis mus tswj nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam no tsis zoo duab ntawm cov neeg raug tsim txom thiab scapegoat.