txheem
Ib qho kev rho tawm los ntawm kev noj qab haus huv tau hais los ntawm Anne-Laure Benattar, tus kws kho mob hlwb. Nrog Louise, tus ntxhais muaj 7 xyoo uas tab tom rhuav nws cov plaub hau tawm…
Louise yog ib tug ntxhais zoo nkauj thiab luag ntxhi, txawm tias nws nervousness manifests nws tus kheej sai heev, nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm annoyance. Nws niam piav rau kuv tias Louise pib nws "kev qaug dab peg" txij thaum nws nyuaj sib cais nrog leej txiv ntawm tus me ntxhais.
Lub decryption ntawm Anne-Laure Benattar
Thaum qee qhov kev xav tsis tuaj yeem zom tau tom qab muaj kev mob tshwm sim lossis kev raug mob loj, lawv tuaj yeem qhia los ntawm cov tsos mob.
Kev sib tham nrog Louise, coj los ntawm Anne-Laure Benattar, tus kws kho mob hlwb
Anne-Laure Benattar: Kuv xav nkag siab tias koj yuav ua li cas nrog koj niam koj txiv txij li lawv sib cais. Koj puas zoo siab nrog lawv?
Louise: Kuv hlub kuv niam kuv txiv heev, tab sis lawv npau taws heev, ua rau kuv nyuaj siab thiab npau taws, thiab kuv muab kuv cov plaub hau tshem tawm.
A.-LB: Koj puas qhia lawv tias koj xav li cas?
Louise: Me ntsis, tab sis kuv tsis xav ua phem rau lawv. Lawv yuav quaj yog lawv paub kuv xav li cas rau lawv! Lawv zoo li menyuam yaus!
A.-LB: Yuav ua li cas yog tias peb nug koj txoj kev tu siab thiab kev npau taws? Zoo li nws yog tus cwj pwm?
Louise: Aw yes! tus cwj pwm no hu ua Chagrin.
A.-LB: Zoo heev! Nyob Zoo Tu Siab! Koj puas tuaj yeem qhia peb tias vim li cas Louise rhuav nws cov plaub hau, siv nws li cas?
Louise: Chagrin hais tias nws yog los qhia Louise cov niam txiv tias qhov xwm txheej no nyuaj dhau los ua neej nyob nrog thiab tsis nkag siab!
A.-LB: Ua tsaug rau koj tu siab rau qhov kev piav qhia no. Tam sim no cia saib seb koj qhov kev muaj tswv yim muaj tswv yim lossis kev daws teeb meem los hloov tus cwj pwm no, thiab qhia koj niam koj txiv sib txawv dab tsi cuam tshuam koj. Txhua yam uas hla koj lub siab!
Louise: Tus miv ntxim hlub heev, seev cev, hu nkauj, qw, liab, huab, puag nrog niam thiab txiv, tham nrog kuv niam thiab txiv.
Anna-Laure Benattar cov lus qhia
Tshawb xyuas seb dab tsi tshwm sim hauv tus menyuam lub neej thaum cov tsos mob tshwm sim thawj zaug yuav pab kom nkag siab zoo dua qhov tom qab nws.
A.-LB: Zoo heev! Muaj tswv yim dab tsi! Koj tuaj yeem ua tsaug rau koj qhov muaj tswv yim! Tam sim no cia saib nrog Chagrin qhov kev xaiv twg yuav haum nws zoo tshaj plaws: tus miv ntxim hlub? Ua las voos? Hu nkauj? Yees? Sim xav rau txhua qhov kev daws teeb meem seb Kev Tu Siab puas ua tau lossis tsis?
Louise: Rau tus miv, nws yog ... Dancing, hu nkauj, qw, nws tsis yog!
A.-LB: Puas yog liab? Ib huab? Ib puag ncig niam thiab txiv? Tham nrog koj niam koj txiv?
Louise: Rau liab, huab thiab puag, yog ib tug loj yog. Thiab tham nrog kuv niam thiab txiv kuj yog… tab sis kuv ntshai me ntsis ib yam!
A.-LB: Tsis txhob txhawj, cov kev daws teeb meem yuav ua haujlwm ntawm lawv tus kheej thaum lub sijhawm. Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau nruab rau hauv koj cov kev daws teeb meem hu ua miv, liab, huab, cuddle nrog niam thiab txiv, thiab tham nrog koj niam koj txiv, kom Tu siab yuav sim lawv ob lub lis piam. Tom qab ntawd nws tuaj yeem xaiv ib lossis ntau dua los hloov tus cwj pwm koj xav hloov.
Louise: Nws yog me ntsis txawv koj qhov kev ua si, tab sis tom qab ntawd, kuv yuav tsis rhuav kuv cov plaub hau?
A.-LB: Yog lawm, nws tuaj yeem pab koj nrhiav cov kev daws teeb meem kom tau txais kev zoo dua thiab tso tawm cov txheej txheem uas tau muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw.
Louise: Zoo heev! Kuv tos tsis tau kom zoo dua!
Koj yuav pab tau tus menyuam li cas kom tsis txhob rhuav lawv cov plaub hau? Cov lus qhia los ntawm Anne-Laure Benattar
NLP kev ua si
Cov txheej txheem no cropping nyob rau hauv 6 kauj ruam (simplified) tso cai rau koj txais tos qhov uas ua rau cov tsos mob thiab muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw daws teeb meem los hloov nws, txhawb lub hom phiaj tom qab tus tsos mob lossis tus cwj pwm.
Hais lus
Nrhiav seb tus menyuam puas hnav zais siab tawm ntawm kev ntshai ntawm nws niam nws txiv cov tshuaj tiv thaiv lossis tsis ua rau lawv raug mob.
Bach Paj
Ib tug ntse ntawm Mimulus rautso tawm kev ntshai, Crab kua hloov tus cwj pwm thiab Lub hnub qub ntawm Npelehees los kho cov qhov txhab yav dhau los tej zaum yuav txaus siab rau Louise hauv qhov xwm txheej no (4 tee 4 zaug / hnub dhau 21 hnub)
* Anne-Laure Benattar tau txais cov menyuam yaus, cov hluas thiab cov neeg laus hauv nws qhov kev xyaum "L'Espace Thérapie Zen". www.therapie-zen.fr