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Thaum cov me nyuam xav paub txog lawv tus poj niam los txiv neej
Cov menyuam yaus cov lus nug txog kev sib deev yog qhov tseem ceeb, vim tias nws muaj hnub nyoog ntawm 3 thiab 6 xyoo uas lawv tso lub hauv paus ntawm lawv cov neeg laus kev sib deev. Tab sis yuav ua li cas teb lawv? Cov khoom ntshiab, nrog cov lus tsim nyog rau lawv lub hnub nyoog.
Txij li 2 xyoos, cov menyuam yaus xav paub txog lawv tus kheej kev sib deev. Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau txhawj xeeb tias lawv cov phooj ywg me tsis zoo li lawv txhua txoj hauv kev. Thaum nws pom lub cev ntawm tus ntxhais me, tus me nyuam yaus xav tsis thoob thiab txhawj xeeb: yog tias nws tsis muaj noov, tej zaum nws yog vim nws tau poob thiab nws kuj tuaj yeem plam nws? Qhov no yog lub npe nrov "castration complex". Ib yam li ntawd, tus hluas nkauj tau txais "kais" thiab xav tias nws yuav thawb tom qab. Muab qhov tseeb: cov ntxhais, zoo li cov tub, muaj poj niam txiv neej, tab sis nws tsis zoo ib yam. Cov ntxhais ntawd pom tsawg dua vim nws nyob hauv (los yog zais). Txawm li cas los xij, qhov noov yog ib feem ntawm lub cev, nws tsis zoo li yuav tawm. "Kuv puas yuav dhau los ua niam, txiv?" Tus me nyuam me nyuam qhuav pom qhov sib txawv ntawm poj niam txiv neej. Txhawm rau tsim nws tus kheej kev sib deev, nws yuav tsum paub tias koj yog ib tug ntxhais lossis ib tug tub mus ib txhis. Tus me nyuam yuav los ua ib tug poj niam uas muaj peev xwm nqa tau ib tug me nyuam hauv plab thiab ua ib tug niam. Rau qhov nws yuav xav tau cov noob me me ntawm tus txiv neej uas yuav ua li no los ua txiv. Qhov tseem ceeb yog txhawm rau txhim kho lub luag haujlwm ntawm txhua tus neeg.
3-4 xyoos: cov lus nug txog kev xeeb tub
“Cov me nyuam ua li cas? “
Thaum lub hnub nyoog no, cov menyuam yaus muaj lus nug ntau txog lawv lub hauv paus chiv keeb thiab kev xav. Hais txog kev hlub thiab kev sib koom siab : “Thaum neeg nyiam sib hlub thiab sib khawm liab qab, ua rau lawv txaus siab heev. Qhov no yog thaum lawv ua tau ib tug me nyuam: txiv lub noov (los yog noov) tso ib tug me me noob nyob rau hauv niam lub slit (los yog qhov chaw mos), txiv lub noob raws li niam lub, thiab nws muab ib lub qe uas, zoo sheltered nyob rau hauv niam lub tsev menyuam, loj hlob tuaj. ib tug me nyuam. » Qhov ntawd yog qhov txaus rau nws!
"Kuv tau tawm ntawm koj lub plab li cas?" “
Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau ua kom pom tseeb: tus menyuam tawm los ntawm lub qhov me me uas yog ib feem ntawm niam txiv. Qhov no tsis yog lub qhov uas cov ntxhais pee los ntawm, nws yog lwm qhov me me tom qab, thiab uas yog elastic, uas yog, thaum tus me nyuam npaj tawm los, txoj kev nthuav dav rau nws thiab nruj tom qab ntawd. Ua raws li qhov kev xav thiab kev zoo siab uas koj muaj thaum yug.
4-5 xyoos: Cov menyuam yaus nug lawv niam lawv txiv txog kev sib deev thiab kev hlub
"Puas tag nrho cov lovers hnia ntawm lub qhov ncauj?" “
Txog tam sim no, thaum nws pom cov neeg nyiam hnia, nws txaj muag thiab pom tias nws qias neeg heev. Piav rau nws tias lovers xav tau nws, uas ua rau lawv zoo siab, thiab hais tias nws, Nws yuav nyob rau hauv lem nrhiav tau thiab txaus siab rau tus taw ntawm kev hlub thaum nws loj hlob tuaj, thaum nws tau ntsib ib tug hluas nkauj uas nws yuav nyob rau hauv kev hlub. Tab sis qhov ntawd rau lub sijhawm no, nws tseem tsawg dhau rau qhov ntawd. Thiab tsis muaj teeb meem nws yuav tsum ua li ntawd yog tias nws tsis xav ua!
"Dab tsi yog kev hlub?" »
Koj tus me nyuam xav paub tej zaum twb ua si ntawm "kev hlub" nrog ib tug phooj ywg: peb lo ua ke, peb hnia thiab peb luag, ua txhaum me ntsis. Koj yuav tsum qhia ob qhov tseeb rau nws: thawj, nws yog cov neeg laus uas hlub, tsis yog menyuam yaus. Qhov thib ob, nws tsis yog qias neeg lossis txaj muag. Piav tias thaum loj hlob los sib hlub, xav kov ib leeg, cam liab qab vim li ntawd nws zoo nkaus li zoo. Kev hlub yog thawj zaug siv los qhia kev zoo siab ua ke, thiab tseem tso cai rau koj kom muaj menyuam, yog tias xav tau.