Lawv dag koj thaum lawv qhia koj tias kom zoo siab koj tsuas yog xav tau tus cwj pwm

Lawv dag koj thaum lawv qhia koj tias kom zoo siab koj tsuas yog xav tau tus cwj pwm

Psychology

Cov kws kho kev puas siab ntsws Inés Santos thiab Silvia González, los ntawm pab pawg ntawm 'Hauv Kev Ntseeg Siab Zoo' tshem tawm ib qho ntawm cov dab neeg hais txog kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab piav qhia vim li cas nws thiaj tuaj yeem tsim kev puas tsuaj rau lub siab kom pom qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev muaj tus yam ntxwv zoo

Lawv dag koj thaum lawv qhia koj tias kom zoo siab koj tsuas yog xav tau tus cwj pwmPM3: 02

Kuv yuav ua siab ncaj, Kuv muaj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo rau lo lus cwj pwm. Kev siv uas tau muab rau nws thab kuv heev. Nws tau siv dawb, zoo li yog txoj hauv kev uas peb ntsib niaj hnub mus rau ib hnub yog qhov tsim nyog thiab ruaj khov, zoo li yog nws yooj yim heev rau luag ntawm qhov nyuaj ntawm lub neej thiab peb zoo siab tsuas yog sawv los thiab luag ntxhi txhua tag kis.

Tus cwj pwm tuaj yeem txhais raws li kawm predisposition peb muaj mus rau ib qho kev tshwm sim. Yog li, yog tias peb ib txwm muaj qhov xav tau zoo rau txhua yam, peb yuav tsum yog "tus neeg uas muaj tus yam ntxwv zoo." Thiab kuv xav tsis thoob: vim li cas qee zaum peb qee zaum ntsib teeb meem hauv txoj kev tsis zoo? Puas yog peb yog masochists? Yog tias tus cwj pwm yog qhov kev xav tau kawm, nws txhais tau tias nws nyob ntawm qee qhov ntawm daws cov tswv yim tias peb tau txais, nyuaj npaum li cas peb pom qhov xwm txheej thiab qib ntawm kev tsis xis nyob lossis nyob zoo uas peb xav tias qhov xwm txheej yuav ua rau peb.

Thiab yog tias kuv muaj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo?

Yog tias qhov xwm txheej ua rau peb tsis zoo, nws yog qhov ib txwm rau peb ua dhau los. Piv txwv li, kev tu siab ntawm ib tus neeg hlub. Nws yuav hloov pauv tau yog tias, rau ib lub sijhawm, tus neeg muaj lub siab xav ua rau tuag. Hais tias, "muaj tus cwj pwm zoo dua, lub ntiaj teb tig mus" tsuas yog siv tsis tau thiab ua rau qhov mob uas tus neeg hnov ​​tsis pom. Nws yuav tsim nyog rau nws kom muaj tus yam ntxwv ntawm txoj kev chim siab mus rau dab tsi tshwm sim thiab uas nyob rau lwm lub sijhawm, yog tias duel txuas ntxiv nws cov chav kawm, nws tuaj yeem muaj zoo saib.

Kuv zoo siab tau muaj ib tus cwj pwm tsis zoo rau qee yam, xws li tus cwj pwm Txhoj puab heev mus rau kev tsis ncaj ncees, tus cwj pwm pessimistic thaum yam tsis raug thiab kuv tsis pom txoj kev tawm, tus cwj pwm xyuas rau kev ncaj ncees teeb meem, tus cwj pwm xav thaum kuv tsis ntseeg ib yam dab tsi lossis lwm tus. Kuv paub tias yog tias kuv tso cai rau kuv tus kheej tsis zoo thiab kawm los ntawm qhov tshwm sim rau kuv, kuv qhov muag yuav hloov.

Kuv xav tias qhov teeb meem tsis yog tus cwj pwm uas peb tuaj yeem muaj nyob rau qee lub sijhawm, tab sis yog qhov peb nyob twj ywm, tias peb tsis kawm lossis nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev lossis kev daws teeb meem. Thiab tej zaum qee zaum txhawm rau nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev zoo dua ntawm kev ntsib lub neej peb yuav tsum mus dhau lwm theem yav dhau los uas, hauv qee txoj kev, tsis zoo rau peb.

Txog ntawm tus kws sau ntawv

Inés Santos muaj kev kawm tiav qib siab hauv Psychology los ntawm UCM thiab tshwj xeeb hauv Kev Tshawb Fawb Raws Li Kev Tshawb Fawb Txog Kev Nyuaj Siab, Kev Kho Tus Cwj Pwm Menyuam-Hluas thiab Kev Kho Tsev Neeg. Tam sim no nws tab tom ua nws thesis txog poj niam txiv neej sib txawv hauv kev nyuaj siab thiab tau koom nrog ntau lub rooj sib tham hauv tebchaws thiab thoob ntiaj teb. Nws muaj kev paub dhau los hauv kev qhia, ua tus saib xyuas ntawm PsiCall Telematic Psychological Attention Service ntawm UCM thiab tus kws qhia ntawv hauv Master's Degree hauv Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv ntawm UCM, ntxiv rau tus xibfwb ntawm European University. Ib qho ntxiv, nws yog tus sau phau ntawv qhia kev kho mob sib txawv txog kev puas siab puas ntsws.

Silvia González, uas tseem yog ib feem ntawm pab pawg 'Hauv Kev Puas Siab Ntsws', yog tus kws paub txog kev puas siab ntsws uas kawm tiav qib siab hauv Clinical and Health Psychology thiab kawm tiav qib Master hauv Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv. Nws tau ua haujlwm hauv Tsev Kho Mob Psychology University ntawm UCM, qhov uas nws kuj tseem yog tus pab qhia rau cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawm University Master's Degree hauv Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv. Hauv kev qhia, nws tau muab cov ntaub ntawv qhia ua haujlwm hauv ntau lub tsev haujlwm xws li 'Kev nkag siab zoo thiab kev cob qhia kev tswj hwm', 'Rhiav txhawm rau txhim kho kev txawj hais lus rau pej xeem' lossis 'Rhiav kev ntxhov siab'.

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