PSYchology

Txhua leej txhua tus nco ntsoov yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv zaj duab xis "Tus Poj Niam Zoo Nkauj" tus heroine ntawm Julia Roberts raug muab tso tawm ntawm ib lub khw muag khoom noj. Peb tus kheej mus rau hauv cov khw no nrog ceev faj thiab txaj muag, txawm tias peb npaj nyiaj txiag los ua kev yuav khoom. Muaj peb qhov laj thawj rau qhov no.

Peb txhua tus tsawg kawg ib zaug, rau lub hom phiaj ntawm kev xav paub, tau mus rau lub khw muag khoom kim. Thiab kuv pom tias cov neeg muag khoom txias sab hauv thiab khav theeb tsis txhawb kev yuav khoom, txawm tias cov neeg ua haujlwm yuav tsum nyiam nyiam cov neeg siv khoom thiab ua kom tau nyiaj ntau tshaj. Vim li cas cov khw no saib zoo li lawv ua thiab vim li cas lawv ntshai peb?

1. Artsy sab hauv

Nyob rau hauv boutiques kim, ib qho chaw ntawm txias chic reigns. Loj deserted qhov chaw thiab luxurious finishes hais txog cov xwm txheej ntawm lub tsev. Koj tsis xis nyob vim nws yog. Nws tsis xis nyob ntawm no. Ib puag ncig ib puag ncig qhia - koj yuav tsum tsis txhob kov txhua yam, sim ua ntau yam khoom lossis kev sib tham. Chua Beng Huat, tus xibfwb ntawm kev coj noj coj ua ntawm National University of Singapore, piav qhia tias qhov no tsis yog qhov xwm txheej.

Cov khw muag khoom kim heev tau tsim tshwj xeeb hauv cov style no. Sab hauv ua haujlwm zoo li lub thaiv. Nws nyiam cov neeg siv khoom nplua nuj thiab ntshai cov neeg uas tsis tuaj yeem them taus cov khoom kim heev. Lub sparseness ntawm lub boutiques qhia txog lawv exclusivity.

Tsis tas li ntawd, cov khw muag khoom kim kim yog qhov txawv ntawm lawv cov qauv thoob ntiaj teb. Christiane Brosius, tus xibfwb qhia txog keeb kwm ntawm University of Heidelberg, pom tias nyob rau hauv cov tebchaws tsim, cov khoom kim heev yog cov Islands tuaj ntawm "lub neej txawv tebchaws". Lawv thauj cov neeg yuav khoom los ntawm lawv lub tebchaws thiab lub tebchaws mus rau lub ntiaj teb kev zam thiab tsim qauv.

2. Ua tib zoo mloog

Qhov thib ob qhov sib txawv ntawm cov boutiques tshwj xeeb thiab cov khw muag khoom loj yog cov neeg ua haujlwm. Hauv khw muag khoom pheej yig thiab luv nqi, muaj ob peb zaug tsawg tus neeg muag khoom dua li cov neeg yuav khoom. Qhov no yog li cas cov khw muag khoom txhawb lub tswv yim ntawm kev pabcuam tus kheej thiab txo cov nqi.

Hauv cov khw muag khoom kim, qhov sib txawv yog qhov tseeb. Muaj ntau tus neeg muag khoom ntau dua li cov neeg yuav khoom ntawm no kom haum rau txhua qhov kev xav ntawm cov neeg siv khoom. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov tsis muaj cov neeg yuav khoom thiab cov khoom seem ntawm cov neeg muag khoom ua rau muaj kev kub ntxhov thiab ua rau neeg ntshai. Zoo li koj nyob hauv nruab nrab ntawm kev mloog. Cov neeg muag khoom saib koj thiab ntsuas koj. Koj xav zoo li nyob rau hauv lub tshuab microscope.

Kev khav theeb ntawm cov neeg muag khoom hauv cov khw muag khoom kim, oddly txaus, ua rau muaj kev xav ua kev yuav khoom.

Psychologist Thomas Richards piav qhia tias kev ntshai ntawm kev ua lub hauv paus ntawm kev mloog yog ib qho ntawm qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev ntxhov siab hauv zej zog. Koj ntshai tsam lwm tus yuav ntsuas koj qhov tsis zoo lossis txiav txim rau koj. Yog tias tob rau hauv koj xav tias koj tsis tsim nyog yuav khoom hauv khw muag khoom kim, tom qab ntawd nyob rau hauv kev tshuaj xyuas ntawm cov neeg ua haujlwm, koj qhov kev ntshai yuav hnyav dua. Lawv tab tom yuav paub tias koj tsis nyob ntawm no, thiab lawv yuav muab koj tawm ntawm no.

3. Cov neeg ua haujlwm tsis zoo

Cov neeg ua haujlwm ntsuas koj vim li cas - lawv xam seb koj puas muaj nyiaj. Cov neeg muag khoom tau them raws li kev muag khoom, lawv tsis xav tau cov neeg siv khoom uas nyuam qhuav tuaj gawk. Yog tias nkawm khau, khaub ncaws lossis khoom siv tsis sib xws hauv chav kawm ntawm lub khw koj nkag mus rau hauv, cov neeg muag khoom yuav pom. Lawv yuav tsis quav ntsej koj lossis pab koj tsis txaus siab.

Psychologists Morgan Ward thiab Darren Dahl ntawm University of British Columbia tau pom tias kev khav theeb ntawm cov neeg pabcuam hauv khw hauv cov khw muag khoom siab ua rau lub siab xav ua kev yuav khoom. Peb siv zog los kho kev ncaj ncees thiab ua pov thawj tias peb tsim nyog yuav khoom hauv qhov chaw zoo nkauj.

Yuav ua li cas kov yeej kev ntshai?

Yog tias koj tab tom npaj nyiaj txiag los ua kev yuav khoom hauv khw muag khoom kim heev, nws tseem yuav tau npaj lub hlwb. Ob peb tricks yuav ua rau cov txheej txheem yooj yim dua.

Hnav khaub ncaws. Cov neeg muag khoom muaj nqis tiag tiag rau koj cov khaub ncaws, khau thiab accessories. Yog tias koj xav tias tsis xis nyob hauv cov khw muag khoom kim, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tuaj rau hauv cov ris tsho hnav ris tsho thiab khau ntaub. Xaiv cov khaub ncaws thiab khau ntau dua.

Tshawb xyuas qhov ntau. Paub koj tus kheej nrog cov assortment ua ntej ntawm lub vev xaib ntawm lub khw lossis hom. Xaiv qhov koj nyiam thiab txaus siab rau nws hauv khw. Cov neeg ua haujlwm yuav pom koj qhov kev paub thiab coj koj ua tus neeg yuav khoom loj.

Mloog tus neeg muag khoom. Qee lub sij hawm cov neeg muag khoom yog intrusive, tab sis lawv paub ntau yam ntawm hom zoo dua koj. Cov neeg muag khoom muaj cov ntaub ntawv tiav txog cov qauv, xim, qhov ntau thiab tsawg, nrog rau cov khoom muaj nyob hauv lwm lub khw.

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