txheem
Ib qho cuab yeej rau kev lees paub
"Nws yog ib qho cuab yeej zoo heev uas pab cov me nyuam tswj hwm ntau qhov xwm txheej: kev sib cais los ntawm niam txiv, kev tu siab, nyuaj pw tsaug zog ...", tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb. “Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam xav tau. Qee tus neeg nqus lawv lub hnab pw, lawv txhais tes los yog siv rau lwm yam kev cai dab qhuas thiab qhov no zoo heev. Kuv tawm tsam lub tswv yim ntawm kev xav yuam nws rau tus menyuam, ”nws hais ntxiv. Qhov zoo tagnrho? Muab ib daim pam (ib txwm zoo ib yam) los ntawm kev muab tso rau hauv txaj, lub rooj zaum, lub rooj zaum, thiab cia tus menyuam nqa nws yog tias nws xav tau. "Qhov no feem ntau tshwm sim nyob ib ncig ntawm 8-9 lub hlis thiab thawj qhov kev ntxhov siab sib cais," tus kws tshaj lij hais.
Ua si phooj ywg
Tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws hais txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm hom pam vov kom muab: "Kuv nyiam qhov plush uas sawv cev rau tus cwj pwm lossis tus tsiaj rau daim pawm. Vim hais tias lub plush tso cai rau tus menyuam tham nrog, ua rau nws ua phooj ywg hauv nws lub neej txhua hnub (da dej, noj mov, pw tsaug zog, mus ncig). ". Rau daim pam kom ua tiav nws txoj haujlwm, nws yog qhov zoo dua uas nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb (peb nqa nws thiab nqa rov qab los ntawm chaw zov me nyuam ...), txawm tias qee tus me nyuam tau siv rau nws.
muaj ob tug sib cais.
Lub cib fim ntsib kev poob
Cov niam txiv uas xav txog nws tuaj yeem yuav daim pam sib npaug, tab sis Mathilde Bouychou xav tias qhov poob lossis tsis nco qab txog daim pam yog lub sijhawm rau tus menyuam kawm paub txog kev poob siab. "Hauv qhov xwm txheej no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas cov niam txiv nyob twj ywm Zen lawv tus kheej thiab qhia tias koj tuaj yeem kov yeej koj qhov mob nrog lwm yam khoom ua si mos, puag ...", ntxiv qhov ntsws.
Kawm kom tso tseg
Qhov no withered, tej zaum torn, feem ntau qias neeg, daim pam yuav thab niam txiv perfectionist. Txawm li cas los xij, nws yog qhov no thiab qhov tsis hnov tsw uas ua rau tus menyuam muaj kev ntseeg siab. “Nws yog ib qho kev tawm dag zog tso rau cov neeg laus!
Tsis tas li ntawd, daim pam pab cov menyuam yaus ua rau lawv tiv thaiv ...", lees Mathilde Bouychou. Peb tuaj yeem pom tseeb ntxuav nws ib ntus los ntawm kev koom nrog tus menyuam kom nws lees txais qhov zoo dua qhov tsis muaj ob peb teev thiab qhov ntxhiab tsw txawv ntawm lavender…
Daim pam yog cov khoom hloov pauv uas tau hais tseg hauv 50s los ntawm Donald Winicott, tus kws kho mob Asmeskas.
Kawm cais
Daim pam no, uas yuav tso cai rau tus menyuam cais ntawm nws niam nws txiv, dhau sijhawm dhau los ua qhov khoom ntawm kev kawm cais. “Nws ua tiav hauv theem. Peb pib los ntawm kev qhia tus menyuam tawm ntawm nws daim pam ntawm qee lub sijhawm, thaum ua si, noj mov, thiab lwm yam. », Qhia tus kws kho mob. Nyob ib ncig ntawm 3 xyoos, tus menyuam feem ntau pom zoo tso nws daim pam rau hauv nws lub txaj thiab pom nws rau lub sijhawm so (lossis tiag tiag thaum muaj kev tu siab heev).