Fog nyob rau hauv lub taub hau: yog vim li cas peb nco ntsoov deb ntawm txhua yam ntawm thaum yau?

Thawj caij tsheb kauj vab, thawj skating rink, thawj "tsis ntshai" txhaj tshuaj ... Zoo thiab tsis yog li ntawd nplooj ntawv ntawm yav dhau los nyob deb. Tab sis qee qhov xwm txheej ntawm peb thaum yau peb tsis tuaj yeem nco qab. Vim li cas nws tshwm sim?

"Kuv nco ntawm no, Kuv tsis nco qab ntawm no." Peb lub cim xeeb cais cov nplej los ntawm cov chaff li cas? Kev sib tsoo ob xyoos dhau los, thawj qhov hnia, kev sib haum xeeb zaum kawg nrog tus neeg hlub: qee qhov kev nco tseem nyob, tab sis peb hnub muaj lwm yam xwm txheej, yog li peb khaws tsis tau txhua yam, txawm tias peb xav tau.

Peb cov menyuam yaus, raws li txoj cai, peb xav khaws - cov kev nco ntawm lub sijhawm zoo siab thiab tsis muaj huab cua ua ntej kev kub ntxhov, ua tib zoo muab ntim rau hauv "ntev" qhov chaw tob hauv peb. Tab sis ua nws tsis yooj yim li! Ntsuam xyuas koj tus kheej: koj puas nco qab ntau qhov tawg thiab cov duab los ntawm yav dhau los nyob deb? Muaj qee qhov loj ntawm peb "daim kab xev" uas tau khaws cia yuav luag tag, thiab muaj qee yam zoo li tau raug txiav tawm los ntawm kev censorship.

Ntau tus pom zoo tias peb tsis nco qab thawj peb lossis plaub xyoos ntawm peb lub neej. Ib tug yuav xav tias tus me nyuam lub hlwb ntawm lub hnub nyoog no tsuas yog tsis muaj peev xwm khaws cia tag nrho cov cim xeeb thiab cov duab, vim nws tseem tsis tau tsim tag nrho (nrog rau cov neeg muaj kev nco txog eidetic).

Txawm tias Sigmund Freud sim nrhiav qhov laj thawj rau kev tsim txom ntawm cov xwm txheej thaum yau. Freud yog tej zaum yog hais txog kev nco lapses nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam raug mob. Tab sis ntau tus neeg muaj qhov tsis zoo rau menyuam yaus, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, zoo siab heev thiab tsis muaj kev puas tsuaj, raws li ob peb nco uas cov neeg siv khoom koom nrog tus kws kho mob hlwb. Yog li vim li cas peb ib txhia muaj cov dab neeg me nyuam yaus tsawg dua li lwm tus?

“Tsis nco qab tag nrho”

Neurons paub cov lus teb. Thaum peb me me, peb lub hlwb raug yuam kom mus rau hauv cov duab kom nco qab ib yam dab tsi, tab sis dhau sij hawm, cov lus hais ntawm kev nco tshwm sim: peb pib hais lus. Qhov no txhais tau hais tias ib qho tshiab "kev ua haujlwm" ua tiav hauv peb lub siab, uas hloov pauv cov ntaub ntawv khaws tseg yav dhau los. Txhua yam uas peb tau khaws cia txog tam sim no tseem tsis tau ploj tag, tab sis nws nyuaj rau muab tso rau hauv cov lus. Peb nco ntsoov cov duab uas tau hais hauv lub suab, kev xav, duab, kev xav hauv lub cev.

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog, nws nyuaj rau peb nco txog qee yam - peb xav tias lawv zoo dua li peb tuaj yeem piav qhia hauv cov lus. Hauv ib txoj kev tshawb fawb, cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog ntawm peb thiab plaub xyoos raug nug txog cov xwm txheej uas tau tshwm sim rau lawv tsis ntev los no, xws li mus rau lub vaj tsiaj lossis khw. Thaum ob peb xyoos tom qab ntawd, thaum muaj hnub nyoog yim thiab cuaj, cov menyuam yaus no raug nug dua txog tib yam xwm txheej, lawv tsis nco qab. Yog li, "me nyuam yaus amnesia" tshwm sim tsis pub dhau xya xyoo.

kab lis kev cai

Lub ntsiab lus tseem ceeb: qib ntawm cov menyuam yaus amnesia txawv nyob ntawm qhov kev coj noj coj ua thiab kev hais lus ntawm ib lub tebchaws. Cov kws tshawb fawb los ntawm New Zealand tau pom tias "hnub nyoog" ntawm qhov kev nco ntxov tshaj plaws ntawm cov neeg Asians ntau dua li cov neeg European.

Canadian psychologist Carol Peterson kuj, nrog rau nws cov npoj yaig Suav, pom tias, qhov nruab nrab, cov neeg nyob rau sab hnub poob feem ntau "poob" thawj plaub xyoos ntawm lub neej, thaum cov neeg Suav poob ob peb xyoos ntxiv. Thaj, nws yeej nyob ntawm kab lis kev cai nyob deb npaum li cas peb nco "mus".

Raws li txoj cai, cov kws tshawb fawb qhia cov niam txiv kom qhia lawv cov menyuam ntau yam txog yav dhau los thiab nug lawv txog qhov lawv hnov. Qhov no tso cai rau peb los ua ib qho tseem ceeb rau peb "phau ntawv nco", uas kuj tau tshwm sim hauv cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev tshawb fawb ntawm New Zealanders.

Tej zaum qhov no yog vim li cas vim li cas peb cov phooj ywg nco txog lawv thaum yau ntau dua li peb ua. Tab sis qhov no puas txhais tau hais tias peb niam peb txiv hais lus rau peb tsawg heev, vim peb nco me ntsis?

Yuav ua li cas rau "rov qab cov ntaub ntawv"?

Kev nco yog cov ntsiab lus, thiab yog li nws yooj yim heev los hloov kho thiab cuam tshuam lawv (peb feem ntau ua qhov no peb tus kheej). Ntau yam ntawm peb "nco" tiag tiag tau yug los ntawm cov dab neeg uas peb tau hnov, txawm tias peb tus kheej yeej tsis tau ntsib txhua yam no. Feem ntau peb tsis meej pem lwm tus zaj dab neeg nrog peb tus kheej nco.

Tab sis puas yog peb qhov kev nco ploj ploj mus ib txhis - lossis lawv tsuas yog nyob hauv qee qhov chaw tiv thaiv ntawm peb qhov tsis nco qab thiab, yog tias xav tau, lawv tuaj yeem "nce mus rau saum npoo"? Cov kws tshawb fawb tsis tuaj yeem teb cov lus nug no txog niaj hnub no. Txawm tias hypnosis tsis lav peb qhov tseeb ntawm "cov ntaub ntawv rov qab".

Yog li nws tsis paub meej tias yuav ua li cas nrog koj "kev nco qhov khoob". Nws tuaj yeem txaj muag heev thaum txhua tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig zoo siab tham txog lawv cov menyuam yaus, thiab peb sawv ze ze thiab sim hla huab cua rau peb tus kheej nco. Thiab nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau saib koj cov duab thaum yau, zoo li lawv yog neeg txawv, sim nkag siab tias peb lub hlwb ua dab tsi thaum lub sijhawm ntawd, yog tias koj tsis nco qab dab tsi hlo li.

Txawm li cas los xij, cov duab ib txwm nyob nrog peb: seb lawv puas yog cov duab meager hauv nco, lossis analog phaib hauv cov duab albums, lossis cov duab digital ntawm lub laptop. Peb tuaj yeem cia lawv coj peb rov qab mus rau lub sijhawm thiab thaum kawg yog qhov lawv xav tau - peb nco.

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