Plaub kab lus uas rhuav tshem kev sib raug zoo

"Koj tsis tau nug txog nws"

Chris Armstrong hais tias "Tsis ntev los no, nyob rau hauv kab rau kev txheeb xyuas ntawm tshav dav hlau, kuv tau pom qhov kev sib tham ntawm ib khub niam txiv," Chris Armstrong hais.

Nws yog:

“Koj tuaj yeem hais rau kuv.

Nws puas yog:

“Koj tsis tau nug.

“Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm cov nyiaj. Kuv tsis tas yuav nug koj. Kuv xav kom koj qhia. »

"Muaj qhov sib txawv tseem ceeb ntawm "tsis txhob dag" thiab "ua ncaj ncees," tus kws tshaj lij ntseeg. — Tus uas saib xyuas tus khub txoj kev xav yuav qhia nws tus kheej txog yam uas yuav cuam tshuam rau tus neeg hlub. "Koj tsis tau nug!" yog ib lo lus ib txwm ntawm tus neeg ua phem ua qias uas ua rau lwm tus los liam rau txhua yam.

"Koj tsis tau hais, tab sis koj xav tias"

Qee lub sij hawm peb tau yooj yim ntaus nqi rau cov neeg koom tes kev xav thiab kev ntshaw uas lawv tsis tau hais, tab sis, raws li nws zoo li peb, lawv nrhiav tsis tau hauv lawv cov lus. Nws hais tias, "Kuv nkees heev." Nws hnov, "Kuv tsis xav siv sij hawm nrog koj," thiab tam sim ntawd liam nws rau nws. Nws tiv thaiv nws tus kheej: "Kuv tsis tau hais li ntawd." Nws txuas ntxiv qhov kev tawm tsam: "Kuv tsis tau hais, tab sis kuv xav."

"Tej zaum nyob rau hauv qee txoj kev tus poj niam no yog lawm," Armstrong lees. - Qee tus neeg yeej sim khiav tawm ntawm kev sib tham nrog tus khub, ua rau lawv tus kheej tsis khoom lossis nkees. Maj mam, qhov kev coj cwj pwm no tuaj yeem hloov mus ua kev ua phem rau tus neeg hlub. Txawm li cas los xij, peb tus kheej tuaj yeem dhau los ua tus neeg ua phem, tsim txom rau lwm sab nrog peb qhov kev kwv yees. "

Peb tsav tus khub mus rau hauv ib lub ces kaum, yuam peb tiv thaiv peb tus kheej. Thiab peb tuaj yeem ua tiav cov txiaj ntsig tsis zoo, thaum, xav tias tsis ncaj ncees raug liam, nws nres tag nrho nws txoj kev xav thiab kev paub dhau los. Yog li ntawd, txawm hais tias koj yog qhov tseeb ntawm qhov tseeb ntawm cov lus ntawm tus khub, nws yog qhov zoo dua los qhib qhov uas cuam tshuam rau koj hauv qhov chaw ntsiag to, es tsis txhob sim cem, ua rau tus neeg yam nws tsis tau hais.

"Kuv tsis xav kom qhov no ua suab tsis zoo ... "

"Txhua yam uas yuav tau hais tom qab ntawd, feem ntau yuav, yuav tsuas yog ua tsis zoo thiab ua phem rau tus khub. Txwv tsis pub, koj yuav tsis tau ceeb toom nws ua ntej, ceeb toom tus kws qhia. "Yog tias koj xav tau ua ntej koj cov lus nrog cov lus ceeb toom no, koj puas yuav tsum hais lawv txhua?" Tej zaum koj yuav tsum hloov kho koj txoj kev xav?

Ua mob rau tus neeg hlub, koj kuj tsis lees paub nws txoj cai iab kev xav, vim koj tau ceeb toom: "Kuv tsis xav ua rau koj ua phem." Thiab qhov no tsuas yog ua rau nws raug mob ntxiv.

"Kuv tsis tau nug koj txog qhov no"

Armstrong hais tias "Kuv tus phooj ywg Christina niaj hnub hnav nws tus txiv lub tsho thiab ua haujlwm ntau hauv tsev," Armstrong hais. “Muaj ib hnub nws hais kom nws nqa nws khaub ncaws los ntawm cov ntxhua khaub ncaws qhuav thaum nws mus tsev, tab sis nws tsis ua. Thaum muaj kev sib cav sib ceg, Christina thuam nws tus txiv rau kev saib xyuas nws, thiab nws tsis quav ntsej txog qhov tsis tseem ceeb. "Kuv tsis tau hais kom koj iron kuv lub tsho," snapped tus txiv.

"Kuv tsis tau nug koj" yog ib yam uas phem tshaj plaws uas koj tuaj yeem hais rau lwm tus. Los ntawm kev ua qhov no, koj txo qis tsis yog yam koj tus khub tau ua rau koj, tab sis nws txoj kev xav rau koj. "Kuv tsis xav tau koj" yog cov lus tseeb ntawm cov lus no.

Muaj ntau ntau nqe lus uas rhuav tshem peb txoj kev sib raug zoo, tab sis cov kws kho mob hlwb ua haujlwm nrog cov khub niam txiv feem ntau nco ntsoov cov no. Yog tias koj xav txav mus rau ib leeg thiab tsis ua rau muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb, tso tseg qhov kev hais lus phem. Tham nrog koj tus khub txog koj txoj kev xav thiab kev paub ncaj qha, tsis txhob sim zais kev ua pauj thiab tsis ua rau muaj kev txhaum.

Hais txog tus kws tshaj lij: Chris Armstrong yog tus kws qhia kev sib raug zoo.