Teddy dais, armfuls ntawm roses, thawv khoom qab zib nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm lub siab… Ua ntej hnub so kub taub hau yuav tuav lub nroog sai sai no. Hnub no tsis tsuas yog ua rau kev siv nyiaj tsis tsim nyog, tab sis kuj tseem ceeb rau cov neeg uas tam sim no nyob ib leeg: koj yog superfluous ntawm kev ua koob tsheej ntawm lub neej. Yog li, tej zaum koj yuav tsum tso tseg cov hnub caiv phem lossis hloov nws cov kev coj noj coj ua?
Txawm peb nyiam los tsis nyiam, Valentine's Day tsuas yog nyob ib ncig ntawm lub ces kaum. Thaum qee tus tab tom nrhiav rau pem hauv ntej rau kev thov kev sib yuav thiab lub nplhaib pob zeb diamond rau khau raj, lwm tus (cov neeg tsawg tab sis nquag nquag) thov kom tshem tawm tag nrho cov kev ntxhov siab no. Zoo, yog tias tsis muab tso tseg, tsawg kawg yog teem caij nyoog txwv: peb yuav tso cai rau hnub so ua kev zoo siab txog qib plaub - thaum lub hnub nyoog no, cov menyuam yaus muab "valentines" rau txhua tus neeg uas zaum hauv zej zog. Zoo, yog tias koj xav tau tiag tiag, koj tuaj yeem rov qab mus rau hnub so tom qab rau caum.
Tab sis li cas txog lwm tus? Peb yuav ua zoo tsis muaj nws.
Tus kws qhia ntawv thiab tus kws tshaj lij sib tham Jay Cataldo rov qab hais tias: “Muab hnub valentines lom zem thaum menyuam yaus. Tab sis ntau xyoo, kuv poob ntawm kev hlub nrog rau hnub so no. Hauv kuv lub tswv yim, nws tsuas yog tsim teeb meem hauv kev sib raug zoo, es tsis txhob ntxiv dag zog rau lawv. Cov khub niam txiv hnub no sib cav vim kev cia siab tsis tiav. Tsis tas li ntawd, hnub nws zoo li qhia qhov tsis muaj kev sib hlub hauv 364 hnub ntxiv. Thiab yog tias koj tsis muaj leej twg, ces saib cov khub niam txiv taug kev thiab paj xa mus rau cov npoj yaig tsuas yog chim siab xwb. Cov hnub so hloov mus rau hauv kev ncaj ncees vanity. "
Hnub so ua rau tib neeg xav tias lawv lub neej tsis ncav cuag qhov xav tau ntawm romanticism.
Xov tooj cua tus tswv tsev Dean Obeidalla pom zoo: “Kuv tsis nyiam raug quab yuam. Kev lag luam thiab kev tshaj tawm hauv cov khw muag khoom txhawb nqa: yog tias koj tsis koom nrog qhov no, ces koj tsis yog romantic thiab tsis quav ntsej txog koj ib nrab. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los hloov cov kev cai ntawm cov hnub so no. Cia cov uas muaj txij nkawm muab khoom plig rau tus neeg kho siab kom tsis txhob muaj kev ntxhov siab rau hnub no.
Rau tus tswv ntawm lub tsev noj mov, Zena Pauline, cov hnub so no yog qhov tsis txaus siab ob npaug: tsis yog nws tsis tau sib yuav, tab sis kuj yog lub tsev noj mov cov neeg tuaj saib hnub no tshwj xeeb tshaj yog feem ntau pom kev ua txhaum ntawm kev pabcuam. “Lub Ob Hlis Ntuj sab nraud, nws txias sab nraum, koj tsis muaj ob peb, koj tsis nyob hauv qhov zoo tshaj plaws. Koj tau ua tsis tiav tau sim hloov qee yam rau ob peb lub hlis. Thiab tag nrho cov no yog nrog los ntawm ib tug "parade" ntawm zoo siab khub niam txiv. Valentine's Day tsuas yog humiliates tib neeg xwb. »
Peb xyoos dhau los, raws li kev tawm tsam, Pauline tau qhia tshwj xeeb "Tsis yog" zaub mov rau Valentine's Day. Nws suav nrog cov khoom xws li, piv txwv li, "Tsis Muaj hmoo Betty" cocktail thiab kub "Tsis muaj ib khub ntawm koj tus kheej nyiam".
Rutgers University sociologist Deborah Carr, uas kawm txog kev sib raug zoo ntawm poj niam txiv neej, piav qhia txog qhov laj thawj ntawm kev ua siab phem: "Lub hnub so ua rau tib neeg xav tias lawv lub neej tsis mus txog qib kev nyiam romantic. Txawm cov uas muaj txij nkawm kuj yuav poob siab yog tias lawv tsis zoo siab rau qhov lawv xav tau. Rau cov neeg feem coob, nws tsuas yog teeb meem xwb. Nws tsuas yog muaj txiaj ntsig rau cov khw noj mov thiab cov neeg xa ntawv. "
Nyob rau hauv nws lub tswv yim, tej yam tsuas yog zuj zus lawm nyob rau hauv lub xyoo tsis ntev los no vim muaj kev loj hlob ntawm lub social networks. Tam sim no txhua leej txhua tus tab tom sim impress. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav tshaj tawm daim duab phem lossis khoom plig phem los ntawm lub khw nyob ib ncig ntawm lub ces kaum.
Nws yog cov xov xwm pub rau Facebook (ib lub koom haum extremist txwv nyob rau hauv Russia) uas cuam tshuam lub siab ntev ntawm cov duab kos duab Scott Manning. Ob peb xyoos dhau los, nws tab tom sim rov qab los ntawm kev sib nrauj nrog ib tug ntxhais, thiab tom qab ntawd hnub so tuaj. Tag nrho daim kab xev yog tag nrho ntawm bouquets thiab pej xeem tshaj tawm txog kev hlub.
Ib hnub ntawm Valentine's Day yog qhov kev sim ntau dhau rau kev sib raug zoo.
Raws li kev tso dag, Manning tau sau npe rau nplooj ntawv thiab npe nws "Petition to Cancel Valentine's Day". Cov neeg tawm ntawm qhov ntawd tom cov lus thiab cov duab ironic ntawm lub ntsiab lus ntawm hnub so. Tus sau tau txais kev tshuaj xyuas sib xyaw. Ib txhia xav npaj kev sib tw tiag tiag ntawm txoj kev. Lwm tus npau taws heev uas Manning tau nkag mus rau hnub so zoo heev. Qhov tseeb, Manning mob me ntsis txog cov lus. Nws nplooj ntawv consoles thiab entertains ib tug neeg, thiab qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws.
Txawm li cas los xij, nws tau khiav mus rau lwm qhov teeb meem. Nws tau ntsib ib tug hluas nkauj thiab yuam kev ua ib qho ntawm nws thawj hnub ntawm Valentine's Day. Paub txog qhov no, Manning ntshai. Tab sis tom qab ntawd lawv tau tham txog txhua yam thiab txiav txim siab tias hnub ntawd nyuaj dhau qhov kev sim rau kev sib raug zoo. Yog li ntawd Manning tau tso tseg nws thiab txiav txim siab siv hnub nyob rau hauv txoj kev tsim nyog: "Kuv yuav nyob hauv tsev thiab saib cov yeeb yaj kiab txaus ntshai."