Txhua leej txhua tus tuaj yeem sau npe ntau ntawm nws qhov "tsis zoo" uas nws xav kom tswj hwm. Peb tus kws kho mob hlwb Ilya Latypov ntseeg tias lwm tus tseem pom peb tus kheej tiag. Thiab lawv lees txais peb rau peb yog leej twg.
Muaj ob qhov kev xav hauv peb lub tswv yim ntawm qhov zoo li cas lwm tus neeg tuaj yeem "nyeem" peb. Ib qho yog qhov kev xav tias peb yog pob tshab, permeable, uas peb tsis muaj peev xwm zais dab tsi. Qhov kev xav ntawm pob tshab no muaj zog tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj kev txaj muag lossis nws qhov sib txawv, kev txaj muag - qhov no yog ib qho ntawm kev txaj muag.
Tab sis muaj lwm yam huab, txuas nrog thawj zaug, lub tswv yim uas peb muaj peev xwm nkaum ntawm lwm tus neeg yam peb ntshai lossis txaj muag los qhia. Koj lub plab puas tawm? Peb yuav rub nws kom raug thiab peb yuav taug kev zoo li ntawd - tsis muaj leej twg yuav pom.
Kev hais lus tsis raug? Peb yuav ua tib zoo saib xyuas peb cov lus hais - thiab txhua yam yuav nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim. Puas yog koj lub suab tshee thaum koj txhawj xeeb? "Ntau dhau" reddening ntawm lub ntsej muag? Tsis hais lus zoo heev? Kev phem kev qias? Tag nrho cov no tuaj yeem muab zais, vim tias cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig peb, pom qhov no, yuav muaj tseeb tig ntawm peb.
Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau ntseeg tias lwm tus neeg kho peb zoo, pom ntau yam ntawm peb.
Ntxiv nrog rau qhov tsis taus ntawm lub cev, kuj muaj tus cwj pwm zoo. Koj tuaj yeem txaj muag ntawm lawv thiab mob siab rau zais, ntseeg tias peb tuaj yeem ua rau lawv pom tsis tau.
Kev khav theeb lossis kev qias neeg, kev tsis ncaj ncees (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb rau peb - tom qab ntawd peb yuav zais ib feem ntawm kev ua tib zoo), kev hais lus, kev ua siab phem (qhov no yog kev txaj muag yog tias peb saib xyuas kev txwv) - thiab lwm yam, peb txhua tus tuaj yeem muaj npe ob peb ntawm peb "phem" nta uas peb tab tom sim peb qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tswj.
Tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi ua haujlwm. Nws zoo li rub rau hauv koj lub plab: koj nco qab ob peb feeb, thiab tom qab ntawd koj cov xim hloov pauv, thiab - huag txaus ntshai - koj pom nws hauv daim duab random. Thiab tus poj niam zoo nkauj no pom nws - thiab tseem flirt nrog koj!
Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau ntseeg tias lwm tus neeg kho peb zoo, pom ntau yam ntawm peb cov yam ntxwv uas peb xav zais. Zoo li lawv nyob nrog peb vim peb tswj hwm peb tus kheej - tab sis qhov no tsis yog li ntawd. Yog, peb tsis yog pob tshab, tab sis peb tsis yog impenetrable ib yam.
Peb tus cwj pwm, raws li nws twb yog, raug rub tawm los ntawm qab tag nrho cov tuav uas tau tsim rau nws.
Peb lub tswv yim ntawm peb yog dab tsi rau lwm tus neeg, lawv pom peb li cas, thiab lwm tus pom peb li cas, yog cov duab tsis sib haum. Tab sis kev paub txog qhov sib txawv no tau muab rau peb nrog kev nyuaj.
Qee lub sij hawm - pom peb tus kheej hauv video lossis hnov peb lub suab hauv kev kaw - peb tsuas yog ntsib qhov tsis txaus ntseeg ntawm qhov peb pom thiab hnov peb tus kheej - thiab peb ua li cas rau lwm tus. Tab sis nws yog nrog peb - ib yam li hauv video - uas lwm tus sib tham.
Piv txwv li, nws zoo nkaus li rau kuv tias kuv nyob sab nraud thiab tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab, tab sis thaum saib los ntawm sab, kuv tuaj yeem pom tus neeg ntxhov siab, tsis xis nyob. Peb cov neeg hlub tau pom thiab paub qhov no — thiab peb tseem nyob “peb”.
Peb tus cwj pwm, raws li nws twb yog, tawg tawm tom qab tag nrho cov kab sib chaws tsim rau nws, thiab nws yog nrog nws uas peb cov phooj ywg thiab cov txheeb ze cuam tshuam. Thiab, oddly txaus, lawv tsis tawg nyob rau hauv ntshai heev.