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Puas yog cov niam txiv yuav nug txog kev qhia niam txiv hauv online thiab nrhiav kev txhawb nqa online? Tus kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws Gale Post ceeb toom tawm tsam kev tshaj tawm cov ntaub ntawv ntiag tug txog tus menyuam kom ceev faj. Yav tom ntej, qhov no tuaj yeem ua teeb meem loj rau menyuam yaus.

Peb tau txais cov ntaub ntawv los ntawm Is Taws Nem, nrhiav kev tawm tswv yim los ntawm kev sib koom siab hauv kev tes hauj lwm. Tab sis cov ciam teb ntawm tus kheej qhov chaw, nrog rau cov ntaub ntawv chaw, txawv rau txhua tus.

Tus kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws Gail Post xav paub yog tias cov niam txiv tuaj yeem tham txog lawv cov menyuam cov teeb meem hauv online. Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj xav tau tswv yim? Thiab ua li cas koj thiaj paub tias cov ntaub ntawv twg tsis tsim nyog tshaj tawm? Koj tuaj yeem nrhiav cov lus teb thiab kev txhawb nqa hauv Web, nws yooj yim thiab nrawm, nws pom zoo, tab sis kuj tseem muaj qhov cuam tshuam.

“Tej zaum koj tus menyuam raug thab plaub lossis ntxhov siab lossis raug thab plaub tom tsev kawm ntawv. Kev ntxhov siab ua rau koj vwm. Koj xav tau lus qhia, thiab sai li sai tau. Tab sis thaum koj tshaj tawm tus kheej, cov ncauj lus kom ntxaws, thiab cuam tshuam cov ntaub ntawv hauv online, nws tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau koj tus menyuam txoj kev noj qab haus huv thiab kev xav thiab ua rau lub neej yav tom ntej, "saib Gail Post.

Cov lus pom los ntawm cov neeg txawv tebchaws yuav tsis hloov cov lus qhia thiab kev sib tham nrog cov neeg hlub.

Peb qhia me nyuam txog kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev tshaj tawm tsis meej lossis tsis ncaj ncees selfies thiab cov duab tog hauv online. Peb ceeb toom txog kev thab plaub hauv cyberbullying, peb ceeb toom koj tias txhua yam uas tau tshaj tawm los ntawm lawv yuav rov tshwm sim xyoo tom qab thiab cuam tshuam tsis zoo rau txoj haujlwm lossis lwm yam xwm txheej.

Tab sis thaum peb tus kheej txhawj xeeb thiab tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog kev ntshai, peb poob peb qhov kev txiav txim siab. Qee tus txawm hais tias tus menyuam yaus siv tshuaj, piav qhia nws tus cwj pwm kev sib deev, teeb meem kev qhuab qhia, kev kawm nyuaj, thiab tseem tshaj tawm kev kuaj mob hlwb.

Txaus siab rau cov lus teb, nws yooj yim tsis nco qab tias kev sib qhia cov ntaub ntawv zoo li no tsis tsuas yog ua rau tus menyuam muaj kev pheej hmoo xwb, nws tseem ua txhaum txoj cai ntiag tug.

Yog li hu ua "kaw" online social media pawg feem ntau muaj 1000 tus tswv cuab lossis ntau dua, thiab tsis muaj kev lees paub tias qee tus "tsis qhia npe" yuav tsis lees paub koj tus menyuam lossis coj kom zoo dua ntawm cov ntaub ntawv tau txais. Tsis tas li ntawd, cov lus hais los ntawm cov neeg txawv tebchaws yuav tsis hloov kev sab laj nrog tus kws tshaj lij thiab tham nrog cov neeg koj hlub uas paub koj qhov xwm txheej tiag tiag.

Nws yog lub luag haujlwm ntawm cov niam txiv kom paub seb koj qhov kev tshaj tawm yuav txaus ntshai rau tus menyuam yaus

Qee lub sij hawm cov niam txiv nug lawv tus menyuam kom tso cai tshaj tawm txog nws. Qhov no, ntawm chav kawm, yog qhov zoo, hais tias Gale Post. Tab sis cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem paub qhov kev pom zoo, lawv tsis muaj kev paub dhau los thiab kev loj hlob kom nkag siab tias cov ntawv tshaj tawm tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau lawv txoj hmoo ntau xyoo tom qab. Yog vim li ntawd cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem pov npav, sib yuav, lossis txawm tias pom zoo rau kev kho mob.

“Tus menyuam tuaj yeem tso cai rau cov ntaub ntawv hais txog nws tshaj tawm kom haum koj, zam kev tsis sib haum xeeb, lossis tsuas yog vim nws tsis nkag siab qhov teeb meem loj. Txawm li cas los xij, lub luag haujlwm ntawm cov niam txiv tsis yog cia siab rau qhov kev txiav txim ntawm tus menyuam yaus, tab sis txhawm rau txheeb xyuas seb koj cov ntawv tshaj tawm puas yuav txaus ntshai rau nws, "tus kws tshaj lij hais.

Raws li ib tug kws kho mob hlwb thiab niam, nws txhawb cov niam txiv xav txog ob zaug ua ntej tham txog lawv tus menyuam hauv online. Ntau xyoo tom qab, muaj kev loj hlob, nws yuav tau txais ib txoj hauj lwm nto moo, mus ua haujlwm hauv pej xeem, khiav mus ua haujlwm rau pej xeem. Tom qab ntawd cov ntaub ntawv cuam tshuam nws yuav tshwm sim. Qhov no yuav ua rau tsis zoo rau qhov uas koj tus menyuam loj tuaj ntsib.

Ua ntej sib koom, nug koj tus kheej:

1. Kuv txoj kev yoo mov puas yuav ntxhov siab lossis chim siab rau tus menyuam?

2. Yuav ua li cas yog cov phooj ywg, cov kws qhia ntawv lossis cov neeg paub tau txais cov ntaub ntawv no?

3. Txawm hais tias nws (a) muab qhov mus tom ntej tam sim no, nws puas yuav ua rau kuv npau taws rau ntau xyoo tom qab?

4. Dab tsi yog qhov txaus ntshai ntawm kev tshaj tawm cov ntaub ntawv tam sim no thiab yav tom ntej? Yog tias tsis pub lwm tus paub tsis pub lwm tus paub, puas yog kuv tus menyuam laus txoj kev kawm yav tom ntej, kev ua haujlwm, kev ua haujlwm, lossis lub koob npe nrov puas raug cuam tshuam?

Yog tias qee cov ntaub ntawv txaus ntshai tshaj tawm hauv Is Taws Nem, nws yog qhov zoo dua rau cov niam txiv nrhiav cov lus teb thiab kev txhawb nqa los ntawm cov phooj ywg thiab cov txheeb ze, nrhiav kev pab los ntawm cov kws kho mob hlwb, kws lij choj, kws qhia ntawv, kws kho mob.

"Nyeem cov ntawv tshwj xeeb, nrhiav tswv yim, nrhiav cov ntaub ntawv ntawm cov chaw ntseeg," Gail Post hais rau cov niam txiv. "Thiab thov ceev faj ntxiv nrog cov ntawv tshaj tawm uas muaj cov ntaub ntawv hais txog koj tus menyuam."


Txog Tus Kws Tshaj Lij: Gale Post yog tus kws kho mob puas siab puas ntsws.

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