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Txog li 4 xyoos, ib tug me nyuam, hauv paus ntsiab lus, tsis to taub qhov kev tuag yog dab tsi, kev nkag siab ntawm qhov no feem ntau tuaj txog ntawm lub hnub nyoog ntawm 11. Yog li ntawd, ib tug me nyuam me ntawm no, hauv paus ntsiab lus, tsis muaj teeb meem, tshwj tsis yog nws tsim rau nws. los ntawm nws tus kheej cov neeg laus.
Ntawm qhov tod tes, cov neeg laus feem ntau txhawj xeeb heev, feem ntau xav tias muaj kev txhaum loj, thiab xav txog "yuav ua li cas qhia ib tus kwv tij lossis tus muam" yog ib qho kev zam rau lawv kom cuam tshuam lawv tus kheej thiab ua rau lawv tus kheej tsis khoom. "Yuav ua li cas qhia tus me nyuam txog kev tuag ntawm ib tug kwv tij (viv ncaus)" yog qhov tseeb qhov teeb meem ntawm cov neeg laus, thiab tsis yog menyuam yaus.
Tsis txhob npaj qhov tsis txaus ntseeg.
Cov menyuam yaus muaj kev nkag siab zoo heev, thiab yog tias koj tsis nkag siab tias yog vim li cas koj ntxhov siab, tus menyuam yuav pib ntxhov siab rau nws tus kheej thiab yuav pib xav txog Vajtswv paub dab tsi. Qhov koj tau so thiab so ntau dua nrog koj tus menyuam yaus, qhov zoo dua rau lawv txoj kev noj qab haus huv.
Tsim kom muaj qhov tseeb.
Yog tias tus menyuam tsis nkag siab tias nws niam (tus muam, kwv tij ...) tau mus qhov twg, vim li cas txhua tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws ntxhi lossis quaj txog ib yam dab tsi, lawv pib kho nws txawv, khuv xim nws, txawm tias nws tsis tau hloov nws tus cwj pwm thiab tsis muaj mob, nws pib coj tus kheej tsis muaj kev cia siab.
Tsis txhob ua tus me nyuam super nqi.
Yog tias ib tug me nyuam tuag, ntau tus niam txiv pib tshee hnyo thib ob. Qhov tshwm sim ntawm qhov no yog qhov tu siab tshaj plaws, vim hais tias los ntawm cov txheej txheem ntawm kev tawm tswv yim ("Au, ib yam dab tsi tuaj yeem tshwm sim rau koj!"), lossis hauv hom kev siv cov txiaj ntsig zoo, cov menyuam yaus feem ntau deteriorate los ntawm qhov no. Kev txhawj xeeb tsim nyog rau kev nyab xeeb yog ib yam, tab sis kev txhawj xeeb yog lwm qhov. Cov me nyuam noj qab nyob zoo thiab coj tus cwj pwm zoo tshaj plaws loj hlob nyob qhov twg lawv tsis tshee.
Qhov xwm txheej tshwj xeeb
Qhov xwm txheej yog ib tug ntxhais hluas tuag, nws muaj me nyuam (3 xyoos) tus muam.
Yuav qhia li cas?
Alya yuav tsum paub txog Dasha txoj kev tuag. Yog tias tsis yog, nws tseem yuav xav tias muaj qee yam tsis raug. Nws yuav pom kua muag, ntau tus neeg, ntxiv rau, nws yuav ib txwm nug Dasha nyob qhov twg. Yog li ntawd, nws yuav tsum tau hais. Tsis tas li ntawd, yuav tsum muaj qee yam kev ua farewell.
Nws cov neeg nyob ze yuav tsum qhia nws - niam, txiv, yawg, pog.
Koj tuaj yeem hais li cas: “Alechka, peb xav qhia koj ib yam tseem ceeb heev. Dasha yuav tsis tuaj ntawm no dua, nws nyob rau lwm qhov chaw tam sim no, nws tuag lawm. Tam sim no koj tsis tuaj yeem puag nws lossis tham nrog nws. Tab sis muaj ntau yam nco txog nws, thiab nws tseem yuav nyob hauv lawv, peb lub cim xeeb thiab peb tus ntsuj plig. Muaj nws cov khoom ua si, nws cov khoom, koj tuaj yeem ua si nrog lawv. Yog koj pom tias peb quaj, peb quaj tias peb yuav tsis kov nws txhais tes lossis puag nws. Tam sim no peb yuav tsum nyob ze rau ib leeg thiab hlub ib leeg kom muaj zog.
Alya tuaj yeem pom Dasha hauv lub hleb, hauv qab npog, thiab tej zaum txawm luv luv, yuav ua li cas lub hleb raug txo qis rau hauv qhov ntxa. Cov. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog kom tus me nyuam to taub, kho nws txoj kev tuag thiab tsis txhob xav txog nws hauv nws txoj kev xav. Nws yuav yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau nws kom nkag siab tias nws lub cev nyob qhov twg. Thiab koj tuaj yeem mus ntsib nws tom qab qhov twg? Feem ntau, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau TXHUA YAM kom nkag siab qhov no, lees txais thiab lees txais nws, ua neej nyob hauv kev muaj tiag.
Alya tseem tuaj yeem raug coj mus rau qhov ntxa tom qab, kom nws nkag siab tias Dasha nyob qhov twg. Yog tias nws pib nug vim li cas nws thiaj li tsis tuaj yeem khawb lossis qhov nws ua pa hauv qhov ntawd, tag nrho cov lus nug no yuav tsum tau teb.
Rau Ali, qhov no tuaj yeem ua ke nrog lwm txoj kev cai - piv txwv li, tso lub zais pa rau saum ntuj thiab nws yuav ya mus. Thiab piav qhia tias, ib yam li lub pob ya mus, thiab koj yuav tsis pom dua, koj thiab Dasha yuav tsis pom dua. Cov. Lub hom phiaj yog kom tus me nyuam to taub qhov no ntawm lawv tus kheej.
Ntawm qhov tod tes, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog kom paub tseeb tias nws daim duab sawv hauv tsev - tsis yog qhov chaw nws zaum, hauv nws qhov chaw ua haujlwm (nws tuaj yeem ua tau nrog lub tswm ciab thiab paj), tab sis nws qhov chaw nyob hauv chav ua noj, qhov twg peb zaum ua ke. Cov. yuav tsum muaj kev sib txuas, nws yuav tsum sawv cev rau nws - ua si nrog nws cov khoom ua si, saib nws cov duab, khaub ncaws uas koj tuaj yeem kov, thiab lwm yam. Nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov.
Kev xav ntawm ib tug me nyuam
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tsis muaj leej twg "ua si" kev xav nrog tus me nyuam, nws yuav nkag siab nws li cas. Tab sis nws yuav tsum tsis txhob raug yuam kom "ua si" nrog nws txoj kev xav. Cov. yog nws tsis nkag siab qhov no zoo thiab xav khiav, cia nws khiav.
Ntawm qhov tod tes, yog tias nws xav kom koj khiav nrog nws, thiab koj tsis xav tau qhov no, ces koj tuaj yeem tsis lees paub thiab tu siab. Txhua tus yuav tsum ua neej nyob rau lawv tus kheej. Lub psyche ntawm tus me nyuam tsis yog li ntawd tsis muaj zog lawm, yog li nws tsis yog tsim nyog los tiv thaiv nws "tag nrho, kiag li". Cov. kev ua yeeb yam thaum koj xav quaj, thiab koj dhia zoo li tshis, tsis xav tau ntawm no.
Yuav kom nkag siab tias tus menyuam xav li cas tiag tiag, nws yuav zoo yog tias nws kos. Cov duab qhia txog nws qhov tseem ceeb. Lawv yuav qhia koj seb yam yuav mus li cas.
Koj tsis tuaj yeem qhia nws cov vis dis aus nrog Dasha tam sim ntawd, thaum thawj ib nrab xyoo, nws yuav ua rau nws tsis meej pem. Tom qab tag nrho, Dasha ntawm qhov screen yuav zoo li ib tug nyob ... Koj tuaj yeem saib cov duab.
Marina Smirnova txoj kev xav
Yog li ntawd, tham nrog nws, thiab tsis txhob ua ntej ntawm koj tus kheej - koj tsis muaj txoj haujlwm ua kom tiav tag nrho cov kev pab cuam, uas peb tab tom tham txog ntawm no. Thiab tsis ntev kev sib tham.
Nws hais ib yam dab tsi - puag, tshee hnyo. Los yog nws tsis xav - ces cia nws khiav.
Thiab yog tias koj xav kom nws puag koj, koj tuaj yeem hais tias: "Hug kuv, Kuv zoo siab nrog koj." Tab sis yog tias nws tsis xav tau, ces yog li ntawd.
Feem ntau, koj paub, ib txwm - qee zaum cov niam txiv xav puag tus menyuam. Thiab qee zaum koj pom tias nws xav tau.
Yog Alya nug ib lo lus nug, teb. Tab sis tsis muaj ntau tshaj qhov nws nug.
Qhov ntawd yog qhov kuv yuav ua tiag tiag - qhia kuv tias koj yuav ua dab tsi nyob rau yav tom ntej kom Alechka npaj txhij rau qhov no. Yog tias muaj neeg tuaj cuag koj, kuv yuav qhia txog nws ua ntej. Tias neeg yuav tuaj. Lawv yuav ua li cas. Lawv yuav taug kev thiab zaum. Lawv yuav tu siab, tab sis ib tug neeg yuav ua si nrog koj. Lawv yuav tham txog Dasha. Lawv yuav tu siab rau niam thiab txiv.
Lawv yuav puag ib leeg. Lawv yuav hais tias "Thov txais peb lub siab." Tom qab ntawd txhua leej txhua tus yuav hais goodbye rau Dasha - mus rau lub hleb, saib nws. Ib tug yuav hnia nws (feem ntau lawv muab ib daim ntawv thov Vajtswv rau ntawm nws lub hauv pliaj, thiab lawv hnia los ntawm daim ntawv no), ces lub hleb yuav raug kaw thiab coj mus rau lub toj ntxas, thiab cov neeg uas tuaj yeem mus rau tom toj ntxas. , thiab peb yuav mus. Yog tias koj xav tau, koj tuaj yeem tuaj nrog peb. Tab sis tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum tau sawv nrog txhua tus thiab tsis txhob ua suab nrov, thiab tom qab ntawd nws yuav txias hauv toj ntxas. Thiab peb yuav tau faus lub hleb nrog Dasha. Peb yuav mus txog qhov ntawd, peb yuav txo lub hleb mus rau hauv ib lub qhov, thiab peb yuav nchuav lub ntiaj teb rau saum, thiab peb yuav muab cov paj zoo nkauj rau saum. Vim li cas? Vim qhov ntawd yog qhov lawv ib txwm ua thaum ib tug neeg tuag. Tom qab tag nrho, peb yuav tsum tuaj qhov chaw, cog paj.
Cov menyuam yaus (thiab cov neeg laus) tau txais kev nplij siab los ntawm kev kwv yees ntawm lub ntiaj teb, thaum nws paub meej tias yuav ua li cas, ua li cas, thaum twg. Cia nws tam sim no (yog xav tau) tsuas yog nrog cov uas nws paub zoo. Hom - yog tias ua tau, tib yam.
Kev quaj ua ke zoo dua li tig ntawm nws, thawb nws tawm thiab tawm mus quaj ib leeg.
Thiab hais tias: “Koj tsis tas yuav zaum nrog peb thiab tu siab. Peb twb paub lawm tias koj hlub Dashenka heev. Thiab peb hlub koj. Mus ua si. Koj puas xav koom nrog peb? "Zoo, ok, tuaj ntawm no."
Hais txog seb nws yuav xav txog qee yam lossis tsis yog - koj paub zoo dua. Thiab yuav ua li cas nrog nws tham - koj kuj paub zoo dua. Qee tus menyuam yaus xav tham lawv tus kheej - ces peb mloog thiab teb. Ib tug neeg yuav nug ib lo lus nug - thiab khiav tawm yam tsis mloog qhov kawg. Ib tug yuav xav li ntawd thiab los nug dua. Tag nrho cov no yog qhov zoo. Qhov ntawd yog txoj sia. Nws tsis zoo li nws yuav ntshai yog tias koj tsis ntshai. Kuv tsuas yog tsis nyiam nws thaum menyuam yaus pib ua si hauv kev ntxhov siab. Yog tias kuv pom tias tus menyuam xav mus rau hauv cov kev paub dhau los, kuv tuaj yeem hais qee yam hauv cov style ntawm Nikolai Ivanovich: "zoo, yog, tu siab. Peb yuav quaj, ces peb mam li mus ua si thiab noj hmo. Peb yuav tsis quaj rau tag nrho peb lub neej, uas yog ruam. » Tus me nyuam xav tau cov niam txiv uas mus ua neej.
Yuav ua li cas rau cov laus
Saib Kev Tuag